People with high levels have these 3 good habits

Human levels are not in wealth, but in pattern and cultivation.

High -level people have a wide field of vision, wide -minded, and more open -minded. They all have the following good habits.

#1 bad face

One person, the more lacking, the more you love to show off something.

The more you do n’t have to conford, the more you love your face.

Face is skin, dignity is bone.

Those who can really become a big thing are clear:

It is not "face", but "li" that allows yourself to live with dignity.

As the saying goes: "People live a face, and a tree lives."

Good face, shame, and motivated, although it is a good thing.

But if you "face" for "face", it is undoubtedly a stupid thing to give up.

only the guy drinking water knows it's cold or hot.

Faces are for others. Life is good or not, only you know.

High -level people have a long -term look and know what they want, and they will not be held by the outside world.

Put down some unnecessary face and pursue the real value of the heart, life will be comfortable and pleasant.

#2 Know how to reject

In life, many people are so good to speak,

What else agrees as soon as others look for; what others want to give.

In the end, it is often helped others many times, and when they do not help, they will fall into the population tongue.

Bi Shumin said:

"Rejection is the right to survive, the test of a person's courage and mind, and a art."

I have heard such a story:

After the painter Qi Baishi became famous, his friends who came to the painting were endless.

At first he hindered his face, dared not refuse anyone, and never thought he had exhausted himself.

After the serious illness healed, Qi Baishi finally figured it out, so he posted the text of the price in the living room:

Cost: Selling painting regardless of friendship, gentleman has shame, please follow Runge

Pay;

Flowers and birds, each one adds ten yuan, vines and bees, every

Only twenty yuan;

The paintings that have been out, look back at the insect, should not be;

The paintings that have been out, turn back to the question, should not be.

In this way, the visitors also had a number of unreasonable demands, and no one was suspicious of his heart.

one person,

Good personality, does not mean bullying;

Saying good does not mean that there is no principle.

Promise to see love and refuse to see love.

San Mao once said:

"Don't be afraid to refuse others, if your reason is right. When a person speaks request, he has two answers in his heart. Therefore, it is expected to give him any of the answers. "

The more people who know how to reject, the higher the emotional intelligence, the higher the level.

#3 Inner soft

Lin Qingxuan said: "Only its softness can it be tolerant; only its softness can get rid of the hindrance."

Softness is not to show weakness, but to open the steel -like heart wall, understand the good and evil in the world, and have a calm confidence.

With Roukegang, it is a philosophy of acting; can be flexed and extended.

Speaking soft

The way of talking reflects a person's cultivation.

In your mouth, there are your cultivation and three views hidden.

Rather than aggressive, it is better to hide the sharpness.

People with high levels, bad words, ruthless words, long words.

What makes people more comfortable than lip guns and swords.

Soft

There is a "Nanfeng effect" in psychology:

Beef wind and the south are more powerful, see who can take off the coats on pedestrians.

The north wind blew violently, bringing the cold and bitter air, and the pedestrians wrapped the coat tightly;

The Nanfeng blows slowly, and the wind and the sun are immediately windy, and the pedestrians feel very warm, so they take off their coats.

Compared to tough persecution, soft concessions are more powerful.

If you are killed, you will not die to the end, put down his body, and seek another law.

When you encounter trivial matters, do not entangle to the end, take a step back, and settle each other.

Leaving others' vitality is also a background for yourself.

As a life, a degree of advancement and retreat, when you learn the wisdom of "softness", life will have more possibilities.

Source | Insight, study at 10 o'clock, Nanshi State School; pictures are from the Internet

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