On the way to get old, learn to recognize the truth of life

Suddenly, it is already middle -aged.

How sweet, how to be coquettish, willful, and sweet in his parents' arms. Today, it has been a parent, and it is helpless to face the coquettishness of the children and be helpless.

In the past, I was in full swing, dreaming of swords on the end of the world, today I only asked for steps and long water; the beautiful love I longed for in the past, now there is only a sigh.

On the way to get old, learn to recognize the truth of life, in order to be afraid of the wind and rain, and the bland day after day.

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You don't have to cry for the overturning milk, reorganize and go, and then go to meet a better self.

Remember the friends of childhood, those who once passed the small notes and said that they would be a good friend of a lifetime, and now how many people still keep in touch?

Remember the first love of ignorance and innocence? At that time, what kind of miracle would be on my mind, if it was holding hands?

Remember the exam he was in the exam? Because the score is not enough, and the losses of the school and the professionalism you want, life has moved to different far places.

When people reach middle age, they are really afraid of looking back at the way when they look at them: how many people deviate from their original intentions, whether it is intentional or unintentional, we have gradually become what we have never imagined.

In order to break the silver, we became worldly and even worldly; in order to fight for fame, we learned to have a mind and have a city.

We are no longer the "child" who will only cry for the overthrow, but beating in the quagmire of life, like a warrior wearing a thick armor, no matter what kind of beating, we are holding their heads upright , Falling again and again, getting up again and again.

When life encounters a sudden change, such as loss of love, unemployment, and marriage. At the beginning, we always said, "I can't accept it, it's too bad."

However, the days will not stop turning because of the collapse of a person's emotion and the collapse of will. Those who insist on leaving have already opened a new life when you are in pain; the post that rejected you, and again Newcomers welcomed nonsense.

Therefore, you really don't need to cry for the overturning milk, dry tears, pack up the charges, and continue to go forward.

The farther walking, the more you can realize "the mountains and water are doubtful, and there is no way for the village of Liu Dark Huaming." As long as you don't give up, you can always break a way.

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You don't have to let yourself be three or four, and only if you cross your head, you can stand upright.

"Isso Fables" tells the story of pedestrians:

Two people went on the road together, one picked up an ax, and the other said to him, "We picked up a ax." The man told him not to say "we picked it up." Just said, "You picked it up." After a while, the person who lost the ax chased them, and it was about to catch up. At this time, the person with the ax said to the peer, "Let's finish." People replied, "Please say 'I finished', because when you picked up the ax, did not treat it as what I had with me."

It can be seen that on the journey of life, we have a probability that we will encounter such a situation: others are blessed and will not share with us; and once there is a disaster, others will not be with ourselves.

In the final analysis, a person finds the way out of the desperation. Although the guidance and help of others can help themselves, but if no one is helping, then rely on themselves.

For example, in the workplace, no one will be smooth sailing, especially when they first enter the workplace, even if they are highly educated and have a sincere attitude, but their initial gains are not appreciation, but doubts, doubts, and deliberate difficulties.

The new salesperson will always be arranged to connect those "hot potato". The leaders and colleagues are apparently responsible and unlimited trust. In fact, they are watching the fire from the shore and waiting to see the joke.

The new technicians, mostly from a bunch of "miscellaneous" work, the opportunity to "show up" is the best opportunity to be held in their hands by the superiors. On your head.

Too many people believe in "the opening of the golden stone for sincerity", and is eager to "change the heart and change the heart with love", but the lower the three times, the less disrespect.

When we are enough to win by talents and strength, we must know how to be humble and humble.

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Learn to be a "ruthless person", and even if your heart is broken, you must continue to work hard to do things.

When people are middle -aged, they will no longer cry easily, nor will they let their emotions flood, disrupting the rhythm of their former learning life and work.

I remember when I was a kid, one year, the floods of the small river in my hometown skyrocketed, and my house was almost washed away. In front of the torrential floods, my parents did not cry or panic. Instead, I took our sisters with three. When you go to the neighbor's house, you can move the valuable furniture, and you can move.

At that time, the "escape" experience, so far, can't help crying back, but because of the silent but firm figure, and in an orderly arrangement, we firmly believe that even if the house is really washed away, We will still build a new house soon.

When people reach middle age, they are no longer just a age of talking about feelings. Everything must be "hard": small as good as Charmi oil and salt sauce vinegar tea. It also needs "soft power" with time and mood.

If you want to make yourself rich and leisure, you must walk through a thorns everywhere. For a period of time, you can eat the suffering that others can't eat, and be able to stand the landscape that others cannot reach.Letting yourself learn to be a "ruthless person" is to put aside the thoughts and set it towards your own goals.

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End words:

On the way to get old, learn to recognize the truth of life.

Everything is not as difficult as imagined, and there is no pie from the sky.Feelings are important, but the bottom is full, and it is more important.

Therefore, you don't have to entangle emotions, you don't have to sigh in the past, you don't have to attach others, be the best self, life is extremely gorgeous.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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