Takeaway riders big data exposure: middle -aged women are not free, and make money hard

Author: Insight · Annabe Su

You may be embarrassed by your desperately making money, but it is really beautiful to rely on yourself.

01

Some time ago, a friend of me, an acute appendicitis in the middle of the night, was sent to the hospital.

When she arrived at the hospital, she was almost unconscious, her face was not bloodless, and her forehead continued to roll out a huge sweat.

Before being lifted into the operating room, she endured the pain and arranged for the child's life and asked the company for leave with the company.

After the explanation, she was relieved, and then sighed again: "Why is this body so unprecedented, this month's full diligence award is gone ..."

Before changing, maybe I will blame her, "It's all at this time, I still think of this, keep my life tight!"

But now I am also a wife and mother, so I really understand the deep meaning behind this sigh.

Hundreds of dollars of full -work awards may be insignificant for some people, but for a middle -aged woman, it is a few bottles of high blood pressure drugs for parents and a one -month counseling fee for children.

Now that he is sick, he stops and stops, delaying a day's work, there is one less economic source at home.

What's more, there are surgery costs and hospitalization costs.

Life is cruel, especially cruel to middle -aged women.

The pressure of career selection, the gradually decreased energy, and the time that is never enough.

They held their work in one hand and looked at their families. Under the hit of life, they lived into thousands of horses.

02

In an investigation and interview with Sun Ping's team of the Institute of Journalism and Communication of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, the story of the female takeaway worker Fang made me move. At 6:30 in the morning in Beijing, the weather was minus ten degrees, and the 44 -year -old Sister Fang began a day of work.

Her job is to take off.

The prosperity of the city seems to have nothing to do with her.

In her world, only hurriedly ran, and the wind and rain.

In the daily life of her life, there are no movies, milk tea, and new clothes. Some are just prompts for mobile phone orders, and have taken countless high -rise buildings and alleys.

Sister Fang, 44, is a middle -aged woman who is not ordinary.

There is no education, and I am older, and there is a family who is waiting to take care of.

She gets up every day, and she returns to the humble rental house at 9 pm. She does not have time to eat. She just takes a few hoe with she.

The young people who entered the industry with her soon couldn't stand it, and they left their jobs within a few days.

Sister Fang, who has no choice, can only go up.

She was a little clumsy, and her memory became worse. She often couldn't remember the road.

Even if she is very diligent, the salary that gets to hand in a month is still only a basic life.

Now, time has become her life: "I am no longer young, I can only say that I can earn more money to eat more hardships."

Sister Fang's life, but the epitome of thousands of middle -aged women.

According to Sun Ping team survey by the Institute of Journalism and Communication of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, in 2020, the total number of Beijing takeaway riders accounted for 9.06%. By 2021, this number increased to 16.21%.

As the epidemic continues, the number of female takeaway riders is still increasing.

More than the takeaway industry. In recent years, in the traditional sense, there should be many women in the job posts that men do.

They are porters, maintenance workers, construction workers, taxis drivers ...

They are weak women, and they are also struggling to ask for life.

She is a car repairman.

Before she always publicly publicly held a car repair shop, and later unfortunately encountered a serious car accident and lost labor.

The burden of life just turned to her.

Originally, she was also a woman who loved beauty, but now she can only wear oil -stained work clothes every day, drill on the bottom of the car for a long time, and deal with a lot of wrenches every day.

Do you feel hard, but she said, "Who is not working hard? No matter how difficult the days are, it is not to live."

She is a heavy card driver.

In order to pay off hundreds of thousands of foreign debt at home, she has been running out of the past years: the coal transport vehicle that has been driving for more than 10 years, and nearly 50 tons of coal vehicles, have to pull at most 7 times a day.

Without a helper, a weak woman started loading coal, coal, and unloading, and recovered.

She said that she felt very tired, but if she thought about her family, think of children, she seemed to have motivation.

These women who hurried in the world are the daughters, wives, and mothers of others.

Because of the weakness, their lives can no longer be able to make a vertical horse and Mercedes.

After 30 middle -aged women, she had suffered from real hammer and suffered difficulties in life, so she silently put away the arrogance and continued to run a few shattered silver for the body.

03

I have seen the story of a takeaway women's singles in the early years, and I remember it for a long time.

When she was 51 years old, her 27 -year -old son suffered from uremia.

Looking at her son's good age, she was sentenced to being relentlessly by her fate. She felt that she was about to collapse.

Faced with huge medical expenses, this mother with only elementary school qualifications sent takeaway.

She has only one goal in her heart: save her son.

She sent orders to 2 or 3 am every day, and she never stopped whether it was windy and rainy.

More than 1800 days and nights, she rode four electric vehicles and ran 130,000 kilometers. She could only run, because the child's life could continue ...

Five years have passed, she suffers from severe illness, and her hair is pale.

However, she finally made up 500,000 yuan, and her son succeeded in changing kidneys and regained health.

Why do women make money desperately?

Because people are alive, it is very expensive.

His life is expensive, healthy, and more expensive.

Sooner or later in real life, you will understand that if the adult world is a bitter sea, money is the ship that helps us.

I have a friend who got married a while ago.

For more than ten years of feelings, she could not escape the vulgar plot: the ex -husband was derailed during her breastfeeding, and her mother -in -law stood firmly on her son, thinking that she had ignored her husband who took care of her.

I thought that with her fierce temper, I would definitely make trouble with her ex -husband's house.

Unexpectedly, she performed unusually calmness, completed the property delivery of property and signed a divorce agreement calmly.

After a little savings in her hand, she did a little business. After snoring in the store, she took a part -time takeaway.

The lights in her house never extinguished before two o'clock in the morning.

When the most difficult time, she took the child and even took a car to the guardrail on the roadside, but couldn't care about the injuries on the body, because there were a few orders that were not finished.

But anyway, it is survived.

Within a few years, she bought a new house, and the child also entered the best primary school in the local area.

Recalling all kinds of in the past, she did not hurt, just said, "People live to a certain age, and everything is virtual. She has the ability to make money in order to not be wronged at any time."

Yes, we don't have to be rich, but we can't be very lacking.

Shanzhen seafood traveling around the world may be far from us, but no one can escape in the daily life in front of everyone.

Why is money important?

Because of many problems in life, many times come from material difficulties.

Although it is hard to make money, it brings you a sense of security to you and your family, so that you wake up in the middle of the night without panic.

It gives you room for choice, so that you have the confidence to talk equally with anyone.

As Zhang Ailing said, I always only know the benefits of money and the disadvantages of money.

Economic independence means decent and dignified, so that you can still stand straight in the mud.

Therefore, don't complain about making money hard. Instead of pinching hope on others, it is better to be your own crutch and be your own windport.

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There is a line in "Biography of Wulin": "Don't cry, rivers and lakes don't believe in tears."

No one was born strong, but it was just polished by reality into the most tough appearance.

Life is ups and downs, and the years are ups and downs.

But at any time, your ability to make money is the biggest confidence when you deal with life difficulties.

Just like a praise, maybe you may make money desperately, but you look really beautiful by your own look.

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