Taiyuan: 75 -year -old remarriage 80 -year -old divorce judge lasted three months to mediate the "dusk" dispute

Uncle Chen (pseudonym) is 80 years old. He should have been around his knees and supported heaven, but he never expected that at this age, he would go to the court to fight a divorce lawsuit. On July 4, the reporter learned that under the appeasement of the Judge of the Jinyuan District Court, the two elderly people of the two years finally ended the "tug -of -war" for more than 3 months, and the agreement was divorced.

Remented old couples conflict

"I don't go to the court, I will not divorce ..." At noon on March 20, the second court of Jinyuan District Court filed a emotional old man. The old man's surname is Chen. He is 80 years old. One week ago, his wife (pseudonym) sued the court to divorce. Uncle Chen was angry after receiving the court's pass. After seeing the judge, he cried.

Aunt Zhang mentioned in the divorce prosecution that in the fall of 2016, Aunt Zhang was attracted by Uncle Chen, who was particular about life, and the two registered to get married after a short period of time. Shortly after marriage, the old couple argued due to trivial matters. In 2021, Uncle Chen was hospitalized due to a cerebral infarction. Since then, the two sides have been having frequent quarrels and even upgraded to the point of smashing.

Police in the area of ​​the district were repeatedly mediation, but it could not alleviate the intense relationship between the old couple. Later, Aunt Zhang moved away from the common residences of both parties and borrowed it to relatives. In March 2022, after Aunt Zhang came to the Jinyuan District Court to sue for divorce, Aunt Zhang and Uncle Chen both insisted that the other party beaten himself and asked the judge to protect his personal safety.

There is a wave of twists and turns in the mediation process

In mid -April, the first trial was adjusted, and Uncle Chen could not arrive in court due to nucleic acid expiration. Stay in the court upstairs. During the trial of three hours, the judge shuttled around the court and the court, listening to the demands of all parties repeatedly, and patiently mediation and persuasion.

During the trial, Uncle Chen took out a handwritten list and asked Aunt Zhang to return the 11 items on the list. Aunt Zhang refused, saying that there was no room for discussing, and refused to pay any compensation.

Before the second trial, the judge communicated with the two elderly people many times. On June 20, Uncle Chen cried and refused to participate in the trial. The judge and the psychological counselor patiently gave Uncle Chen psychological guidance. After more than 4 hours of persuasion, the judge believed that because Uncle Chen was weak and sick, Aunt Zhang was also poor and both needed to take care of others. Under this family relationship, life is difficult to be happy and harmonious.

After mediation, Aunt Zhang agreed to return the items on the list to Uncle Chen and pay a certain amount of compensation. The two agreed to divorce.

Assist in fulfilling the storm

On the afternoon of June 28, under the scorching sun, the judges and assistants, secretaries, and bailiffs went to Aunt Zhang's residence. After counting the items that the agreement needed to be returned, they were packed to Uncle Chen's house and completed the delivery properly.

However, when Aunt Zhang proposed to retrieve his personal clothes, Uncle Chen suddenly lost his emotions, and the two sides were tense again. The bailiff had to work hard to separate the two parties in a small and limited space, and separated the two sides to comfort the two elderly people until Aunt Zhang and Uncle Chen calmed down.

This time it took 4 hours to help the performance and use the law enforcement recorder records throughout the process.

Remiece elderly divorce rate is high

Judge Li Yuan told reporters that since 2021, the Jinyuan Court Family Court has accepted a number of elderly divorce lawsuits, most of which are remarried elderly people.

From the perspective of the plaintiff's complaint, the main reason for divorce is mostly some trivial matters. For example, dissatisfied with the other party's temperament, he fell into a pot when he quarreled; he accused the other party from spending unreasonable consumption and spending overdue. However, from the actual situation, most of the lifestyles and concepts of both sides are different, and there are children behind them in "Fundam."

The judge analyzed that because the elderly children of the remarriage are mostly an adult, there is no emotional foundation for a common life. Once the elderly encounters contradictions, children cannot be adjusted from the middle and contradictions. Instead, they are more likely to be involved in it, resulting in the contradiction upgrade and eventually leading to "dusk".

The judge reminded that the elderly should cherish their marriage, tolerate each other, and do not expect the "dusk love" to become rich twice; in terms of property inheritance, the elderly should strengthen communication, children and juniors should also care about the elderly and respect the elderly's wishes Start from the happiness of the old man in his later years and understand each other.

Reporter Chen Shan Taiyuan Evening News

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