Ala Olympic champion Lejing Yi’s "Parenting Tips"

In the 1996 Atlanta Olympic Games, Le Jingyi won the scene of a 100 -meter free swimming gold medal, as if it was still yesterday. In a blink of an eye, her son was 18 years old and stepped into the first important test room of life -the college entrance examination. Regardless of the result, just talk about life, Le Jingyi sends his son: "You are an adult, you will go in the future,"

Le Jingyi, who has a pair of children, is considered a "winner in life" by people around him. It is her parenting concept to let her go freely and let her children fly freely. Although she has not experienced the college entrance examination, this does not prevent her from cultivating her child's independent personality.

Parenting, respect and let go

Le Jingyi during the athlete period, standing on the field, has never been shocked. A steady mentality is the key factor in her good results. Sending her son Xiaoxin's examination room, she was also calm. Three days before the college entrance examination, Le Jingyi asked Xiaoxin, is it reasonable? Xiaoxin said it was okay. After that, he no longer disturb his son too much. "My only entanglement is whether to drive him to the examination room." Le Jingyi said with a smile. She also asked Xiaoxin's opinion, and the son wrote lightly: "Random." Later, because the temperature was too high on the day of the exam, Le Jingyi decided to send him to the examination room, but the son said, "I don't need to send me to the door, I am myself, I am myself. Get off and walk over. "

Maintaining ordinary heart is the warning of Le Jingyi in the competition, which is also used in education. "After all, in terms of reading, I can't help them too much. I just hope that he will play the level of your favorite and choose the major of his favorite schools." These small details are enough to see. Most of them respect the children's opinions.

On the 18th birthday of Xiaoxin, Le Jingyi said to him, "I will relax you in the future because you are an adult. The chat between us will be like a friend. You can tell me everything, including talking about talking, including talking in love."

When he entered the professional team in junior high school, Le Jingyi started an independent life early. In terms of raising children, she also follows the principle of letting go. Children go out to meet with classmates. As long as they say that they will go home, they will not "bombed" in a row. If there is no timeout and no phone call, then the opportunity to go out next time will be canceled.

Before the college entrance examination, Le Jingyi reported to Xiaoxin's driving school. "When the epidemic is getting better, I hope he will take the driver's license. I think this is the same as swimming. It is the basic survival skill."

Sports, the best education

Zhang Boling, a modern educator, once said, "Sports is the best education."

Le Jingyi has deep feelings for her alma mater, and her son also enters Min Li Middle School. "My swimming score was not very good at first. I couldn't go to the counterpart school. It was a helping to help me, so I trusted my alma mater." Le Jingyi said. But she did not intend to let her son take a sports path. "Swimming is the basic life skills. I must let the children learn, but how to go after the road is determined by their interests." There is no doubt that the child has the talent for swimming. On behalf of the school team, Xiaoxin participated in many city teams in the city. The game is good.

But after entering high school, he was fascinated by basketball. Le Jingyi asked, do you want to ask a club to ask professional coaches to guide, and as a result, Xiaoxin said, "Don't take my hobby as a burden." There is no doubt that Le Jingyi respects his son's choice. "His 1.94 -meter height has an advantage among his classmates. The professional team can't go. It is also good to play basketball exercise in amateur."

The benefits brought by sports have appeared in the home life of the previous two months. At the request of the children, Le Jingyi purchased a group of dumbbells and other fitness equipment to train together. Xiaoxin also dribbles at home from time to time as a relaxation for learning.

Brother is a sportsman, and his sister Qiqi is no exception. Le Jingyi feels that girls must also master at least two sports skills, so they will send Qiqi to learn fencing. She believes that the girl with a fencing girl has a good temperament and can become more brave. Every Sunday, Le Jingyi, as the captain, led the players to participate in the Swimming Club training at the Oriental Sports Center, and her daughter participated in a fencing upstairs. Today, the 14 -year -old seven -seven height has reached 1.7 meters. Friends Ye Chong asked Le Jingyi, "Your daughter is a piece of material, should you come to me to strengthen training?" Le Jingyi waved his hand, "Let it go naturally. "

Career, children's role model

After retiring, Lejing Yi fell in love with diving and went to explore the underwater scenery around the world. When Xiaoxin was still in elementary school, Le Jingyi took him to dive together to feel the charm of the sea. She said with a smile: "When Xiaoxin read the kindergarten, I often asked the teacher for leave. The reason was travel. The teacher couldn't take me." Bring Xiaoxin to travel together, not just to satisfy Lejing Yi's own diving wish, but to let him want him Know the sea and understand corals.

Protecting the ocean and protecting corals is the public welfare desire that Le Jingyi has persisted for many years. At the Shenzhen Dapeng Water Sports Base, Le Jingyi opened his own water club. In cooperation with the Coral Research Institute of Guangdong Ocean Academy, she and her friends set up protecting the Coral Foundation to clean up the corals to clean the seaweed. Le Jingyi proudly introduced: "Today, our seawater has reached the first level, and the seawater in Hainan is a level." As soon as the topic of protecting the ocean, Le Jingyi continued. "Coral is the most important part of the sea water biological chain. It is like trees on land. Corals are good, more and more fish, I often sneak down to see the growth of corals."

She also joined forces to study and develop more water projects and promote water sports.Do not want to play with the power surfing board. It introduced a more than 100,000 yuan in foreign countries. Le Jingyi asked experts to develop it independently.There are also various emerging technology products that are also launching one after another.After the epidemic, Le Jingyi couldn't wait to bring the children back to Dapeng. See if the corals there are more beautiful, and whether the sea water is blue.She also has a wish -providing venue support for the National Games."Dapeng and Dongpingzhou Island in Hong Kong looked at each other. In the past, we have organized multiple interactions in sports and marine environmental protection. We hope that the National Games held in the Greater Bay Area in the next session can participate and contribute."

Text: Tao Xingying

Figure: Provided by the respondents, Peng Youlong, Zhou Guoqiang,

Li Mingzheng, Internet map

Source: Xinmin Sports, Internet Information Shanghai

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