The implementation of the family education promotion law, how can parents follow the characteristics of tutor and implement scientific concepts?

China Youth Network, Beijing, July 5 (Reporter Li Huaxi) From January 1 this year, the "Family Education Promotion Law" was officially implemented. Article 5 of the law states that family education shall meet the following requirements: follow the characteristics of family education, and implement the scientific family education concepts and methods.

So, what are the characteristics of family education? What are the scientific family education concepts and methods? What misunderstandings are when parents follow the characteristics of family education and implement scientific family education concepts and methods? After the implementation of the "Family Education Promotion Law", parents follow the characteristics of family education and implement scientific family education concepts and methods? To this end, a reporter from China Youth Network interviewed the president, professor, and doctoral supervisor of the School of Preschool Education of the Capital Normal University, and Kang Liying, vice chairman of the Beijing Family Education Research Association.

There are limitations for family education concepts, and they need to be the same as the home education and childcare.

"We not only have children for family children, but also to cultivate talents for the country." Kang Liying believes that the "Family Education Promotion Law" clearly stipulates that parents should bear the main responsibility of family education. conscious.

Kang Liying suggested that the majority of parents must ask if they are ready to be psychologically prepared and have the ability to be parents when preparing for their children; whether the child is not so easy to discipline, is there enough enough to be enough to discipline. Patient, can we be responsible for him, "These are the questions we have to ask for ourselves before we are doing our parents."

Parents must not only learn the knowledge of fertility, but also have family building knowledge

Kang Liying has been engaged in family education research for many years. She deeply appreciated that being a parent is not a simple matter. It requires many aspects of knowledge accumulation, including knowledge in many disciplines such as physiology, psychology, sociology, and education. Essence

She believes that before preparing to raise children, parents must not only obtain the knowledge of childbearing through learning, but also have the knowledge of family construction, including the adjustment of the husband and wife relationship. Prepare.

After making these preparations, the preparations for giving birth, childbirth, childbearing, and education are followed. We must prepare for pregnancy and do a good job of prenatal health care. When the child is born, the parents will be happy for their parents, and they will also be full of expectations for the child. However, if you want to make these expectations into reality, parents really need the ability to raise a good child.

Kang Liying said that parents often transfer their ideals that they have not realized or look forward to their children. They are lost in this generation. The ideal that he did not realize, expecting him to shine the door. "While giving infinite expectations for children, it also puts a lot of pressure on the child."

She believes that many parents do not have the relationship between conscious pressure and power. While parents have unlimited expectations for their children, they should also give themselves the ability to provide infinite support for their children, so that ideals can illuminate reality.

Parents must become a conscious educator, family building and career growth peers

"Many parents are indeed excellent in the professional field, but they are unable to help in family education." Kang Liying had dealt with many children's parents. She found that many successful people complained and said that she was so lazy? Why can't children be as good as themselves? Is this a problem of children growing up, or is there a problem with the parental breeding process?

She believes that some parents are really working hard in the workplace. When they return home, they want to be completely relaxed. They are not patient and have no education consciousness. Parents showed their excellent to the workplace and left laziness to their children.

For example, Kang Liying said that there was a very good workplace. She said that her child was not as biological, the children were not learning well, their habits were not good, and she had a problem with her personality. "Speaking of her child, this excellent workplace woman is full of tears."

Later, Kang Liying asked her if she could remember what was the first action when she returned home? She said that her first movement took off the high heels on the ground, and then took off the suit, and wanted to fall on the bed to wake up naturally. "The child can't see the excellent side of his parents' workplace. What he sees is a lazy mother who is not neat. How can he feel the excellent side of his parents?"

"After having a child, parents must be a conscious educator." She explained that conscious educators must have a conscious educational awareness, teach the child to teach, and affect the child with stable emotions, attitudes and values. , To be a model for children's life. No matter how hard and tired, don't complain about the hardships of life. You must communicate with the child with the sun, so that your parents can feel that parents are very happy, happy, and capable. People, at the same time, are also responsible for their children.

Kang Liying believes that as long as you do this, you can give your child a good example demonstration. Everyone is constantly learning and learning to be parents, learning to make their own career life, and promotes self -improvement. "I personally think that learning to be a parent, a career life, and promoting self -improvement is the three core issues of adult education and lifelong learning."

Teach your son first, and your parents' life plan must be the same as the child growth plan

With the implementation and promotion of the "Family Education Promotion Law", Kang Liying feels that how to follow the characteristics of family education and implement scientific family education concepts and methods, the most important thing is to "teach the son first". She said that parents should design family life planning and family education planning according to their life development planning and children's growth planning. The family has many functions, such as cultural functions, and the cultural heritage of the family is mainly reflected through the family style.

"Like we have many big families in the past, they have family training rules, and some families have left a lot of family books that can make us familiar with. Many friends may have read" Fu Lei Family Book ". This book not only expresses Mr. Fu Lei Life attitude and earnest hopes for the growth of the two sons, as well as some educational thinking of their children. "

Kang Liying believes that after the education system of modern schools, some family education functions have been transferred to the school, but the education function of the family has not disappeared. Teach your son to teach himself first, and parents and children plan their lives and plan family education. It is to plan the future of the nation and plan the future of the country.

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