The teacher bluntly said: Moms who love to dress up and do not like to dress, the gap between the children raised is obvious

I do n’t know when, when the mothers are shopping, the products they pay attention to have changed from women's clothing to children's clothing, and they do n’t know when they start, mothers ’s cosmetics have begun to bundle high cabinets, and their shopping carts are full of children's supplies. Perhaps these changes are after becoming a mother.

In the eyes of everyone, the mother's role is selfless, sacrifice, and dedication.

In fact, the role of mother is just one of many women's characters. Even after women, women can still dress themselves, and they can still be shining.

Before Bao Ma Lanlan, she likes to study beauty most before she has a child, and she will go out every day.

After having a child, due to the greater cost of parenting, the family lived tightly. Lanlan hasn't purchased new clothes for himself for a long time, let alone buy those expensive skin care products and cosmetics.

Although the quality of life is not as good as before, Lan Lan will not be stingy on the child's clothing, food, housing and transportation.

It is always the latest clothing for children. It is always the hottest toy for children.

In her eyes, children are the most important. Therefore, like a lot of ordinary mothers, she left the best to the children and left scribbled to herself.

On this day, Lanlan sent the child to kindergarten as usual. Suddenly, she heard the children's ridicule in the crowd: "Kiki, is this your mother or your grandma?"

There was a harsh laughter in the crowd, and Lan Lan looked up, and Qiqi's mother blushed embarrassed. It turned out that Qiqi's mother was sleeping late yesterday and was busy picking up her children. She didn't comb her hair.

Qiqi's mother was older when she was born in Kiki. In addition, she didn't dress up much, and the whole image seemed to be scribbled. She looked no energy, and it was no wonder that the children in the same class would laugh at her like this.

Although the targets of the children today are not themselves, Lan Lan's heart is uncomfortable. When I got home, she looked at the mirror herself and watched it.

I don't know when she started with a lot of freckles appeared on her face, and she didn't know when she had a few white hair from her hair.

Looking at your clothes again, the most commonly worn one is always a large leisure model, how comfortable and how. Where did the exquisite woman go before? Will Kiki's mother's encounter today, will she repeat her body in the future? Lanlan's heart was mixed.

Many mothers dress their children very delicately, but they are unkempt and do not repair every day. They spent a lot of energy and financial resources on their children, but they always ignored themselves.

In fact, they are not aware of the point, and they are also very important. The mother who loves to dress up and the mother who "do not like to dress up" has a big gap.

In this regard, teachers with children have the most right to get along with the children.

A friend of a kindergarten teacher and everyone once bluntly said: "Every child wants his mother to be the most beautiful. When those mothers have a beautiful makeup and put on high heels to pick up the child, the child sees the mother’s mother’s’s. The eyes will be different, full of excitement. "

This is not the child's love of vanity. Love beauty is the nature of everyone, and children are no exception. They naturally want their favorite mother to be beautiful and beautiful.

The mothers who "love" and "do not like to dress up" have a large gap in these aspects

◎ There is a gap between children's aesthetic ability

Whether the mother loves to dress often affects the child's aesthetic ability. Some mothers do not repair themselves, but they want to make the child fashionable and foreign, and often run counter to them.

For example, a friend was wearing simple clothes for her own, but she bought the most fashionable clothes for her children, but she found that the child did not cherish these clothes. Before going out every day, the child was neatly neatly, but after returning home, he was stunned.

Because the child's aesthetic ability is greatly affected by the mother, the mother does not pay attention to it on weekdays, does not know how to "dress" themselves, and the child will not care about his appearance and dress as his mother.

And those mothers who dressed themselves often have a "exquisite" child.

The "exquisite" here does not mean wearing a famous brand. The "exquisite" here refers to even a simple clothes, children can wear it, pay attention to hygiene, pay attention to their own image.

◎ There is a gap between the degree of self -confidence in children

Although it is incorrect to laugh at others, children sometimes "get people with their appearance". In fact, not only children, the first impression of adults is often based on appearance.

Ask yourself, who doesn't want his mother to be brilliant, beautiful and moving? Therefore, when the mother who "loves" appears at the entrance of the school, the child is confident and proud of it.

And those mothers don't like to dress up, and they are stingy, wearing pajamas and even wearing apron to pick up their children, which will make children feel "lost face" and even inferiority.

Therefore, for the children's self -confidence, Baoma can squeeze out time and dress themselves well.

In fact, Bao Ma melted a simple light makeup and wearing clean clothes. It was not as difficult as expected, and it couldn't spend too much time. So don't make excuses for yourself and act quickly.

◎ There is a gap in the future development of children

Mother who "loves" is often self -disciplined mothers. They are not knocked down by the trivial life. Even if they are busy, they will take time to become beautiful.And those mothers who are unkempt and do not repair the border are often because they are not self -disciplined.Self -disciplined mothers often cultivate children who are self -disciplined. Therefore, those "love" mothers, the children who cultivate them will pay special attention to their image in the future, pay attention to the matching of clothing, and live exquisite and self -discipline.With such a habit, mothers still worry about their children's development in the future?

At the end

Bao moms love their children, and they must love themselves, because a self -discipline and exquisite mother will have a profound impact on all aspects of the child.

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