Children who "reserve" and "nourishment" when they were young, after joining the work, the difference will surface
Author:Alpaca mother Time:2022.06.27
The childhood environment has a great impact on children's future life.
The process of children's growth is the process of constantly upgrading to fight monsters. All experiences have to go through the process from scratch. When the child grows a little, parents will be more ecstatic than their children.
Perhaps because there is no preparation in advance, the child's growth seems to be an overnight process. Perhaps the parents did not expect this result, which was unexpectedly unexpected.
Today, essence has become the norm
Parents' expectations for their children are getting higher and higher
Scientific parenting is no longer a slogan of shouting. More and more parents will be carried out in strict accordance with relevant requirements. Parents' expectations for their children will continue to rise. After all, the emphasis on living conditions and education is an important change.
When each child was born, he carried the hope of the whole family. Jackie Chan Chengfeng seemed to have become a moral abduction. Parents provide their children with an excellent learning environment, and they will ask their children to grow up to live up to their efforts and efforts.
In addition, parents dare not bet on their children and intervene in accordance with the past education methods. They know that they have been backward and outdated, and they also make their children become innocent little rats. This is indeed not a choice that parents can make.
The child's precocious also allows parents to see hope
Perhaps it is because there are too many additives and chemical ingredients in daily diet. Perhaps because of the stimulation in daily life, the stimulation is more fresh. Now children will always show precocious behavior, including ideological and behavioral behavior.
It is also because of this change that many parents have seen hope. If I adjust my education method a little, will it change the child's growth? Maybe it is possible to gain unexpected harvest. It is also an auxiliary product that parents want to say.
Children who "reserve" and "nourishment" when they were young, after joining the work, the difference will surface
The word release should be the earliest appear in the animal husbandry. After summarizing the previous experience, the herdsmen found that the scope and time of the freedom of animal free activity can be better harvested. The meat is more compact and the appearance is better.
Compared to those raised animals, the benefits that bring themselves cannot be compared. And after the relection, manpower investment will be relieved. In various cases, it will be better.
Slowly, this concept was also relocated to parenting. Experts defined the way of leaving children freely as release, and those who required children to strictly abide by the regulations and inseparable ways were defined as precise.
Even if there is no relevant experience accumulation, referring to the initial result of the animal husbandry, there will be a vote!
In terms of creativity: children who are released when they were young performed better
Because I was released from an early age, most of the problems encountered in life needed children to face and solve them alone. Perhaps the child has become accustomed to this method. Perhaps the child is forced to grow. Not busy.
But the end results are positive and positive, they have creativity and divergent ability. Because the brain circuit is different, when facing the same thing, the solutions given by the children are also different. Even if it is restricted in subsequent school education, the creativity can still be enabled at any time in the face of the questions where there is no standard answer.
And those children who have been cultivated since childhood, they do n’t like and are used to answering questions without answers. Which kind of no answer can be referred to, it will make them inexplicable nervousness and anxiety, and unconfident is also a common manifestation.
Executive ability: strong childcare children's execution ability strong
The execution ability in the work is very important. It is related to the score that the boss gives you and the direction of your future development. After all, the boss only cares about KPI, and the execution ability is often linked to the result. The greater the pressure.
This requirement is difficult to bear for children who have been released since childhood. Working hours and working methods are restricted, making them feel that they are a robot who completes the instructions. Robots without any emotion will collapse and resist sooner or later.
Summary today:
What kind of education do you choose to educate your children? Welcome to share your thoughts with us!
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