Read the 10 most common "infants" of babies, babies are less suffering, parents are more worry -free

For many novice mothers, babies are almost a mystery. His various small expressions and small movements always make parents overwhelmed and have nowhere to start.

Why is the baby crying?

What does the baby's expression mean?

Is the baby full or hungry?

... ...

In fact, parents can judge what children want to do by observing some changes or expressions of their children's behaviors. This is their unique infant language.

Today, we invite the mother of the three children -Teacher Zhu Xiaojie to reveal the language of the baby. At first, she was extremely blank. After slowly capturing the child's needs signal, she found that it was not so difficult to bring a baby.

How can we capture the child's needs signal? Everyone must remember a word first: Slow.

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Reveal the secret language

Start with Slow mode

The S.L.O.W strategy was proposed by the parenting master Trysey. The meaning of this word means slowing down.

S (stop): stop. First take a deep breath to calm yourself down. Crying is the baby's language. Don't be anxious when you hear the baby's cry.

L (Listen): Listen. Let your time distinguish whether the crying sound is different. Of course, it is not to let the baby cry, but to stop the action.

O (Observe): Observe the baby's limb language and view the surrounding environment.

W (What ’s up): Based on what I saw in the previous three steps, judged and responded to the baby.

When the baby just came to this world, the only way of communication with the outside world was crying and body language (posture, facial expression, movement), which was the clue they passed the needs to parents.

If parents are in a state of panic and anxiety, it is difficult to catch these fleeting clues.

Slow's slow strategy can help us make appropriate judgments and actions, and meet the needs of the baby more targetedly.

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Different needs

Children will have different performances

1

Mom, I'm so tired, I'm so sleepy

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Start eating your fist or finger;

Staring at a place to see, godlessness, and daze;

Will talk to yourself and have dissatisfaction;

No longer interested in toys or parents, it is difficult to attract attention;

Hitting and rubbing your eyes;

Arch back, hand / legs with fast exercise;

Turn your head away and don't look at you;

Sticky people, seek attention.

Responsible tips:

Reduce your baby's stimulus. For example, slow down your movements and lower your voice; help your baby to change a quieter environment to help him relax; arrange the sleeping environment and start to arrange your baby to fall asleep before going to bed.

2

I'm hungry to eat

I'm a little hungry → I'm so hungry → Hurry up, feed me, picture source: Network

Less than 6 months:

The baby's head and body start to twist;

Start open your mouth;

The baby's body starts to stretch (as if as if stretching his waist);

Began to find your fist, put your small hands in your mouth, and even start to suck the items that can be touched around.

More than 6 months:

Expressing interest in food;

The head / body is close to the spoon and food forward.

Response small posts:

For newborns within 1 month, parents are advised to take the initiative to observe the baby's hunger signal every 1 to 2 hours.

Except for newborn babies and babies who have a rise in the period, babies at the rest of the stage can be extended to 3 to 4 hours.

If the early hunger signal is not captured, the baby will show some very late signals, such as very excitedly twisting the body or crying loudly. At this time, the milk will be more difficult. Parents need to soothe the baby first. After he is calm, he will eat him.

3

Mom, I want to interact with you

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Newborn:

When you are in front of your baby, they will look at your face

There are active eyes with people with main care

February age:

Express the face or other items

Take the initiative to take your head towards parents / main caregivers

To speak to yourself, it will make a lot of duplicate sounds in my mouth, oh ah ah ah ah ah

April age:

In addition to turning his head to parents, you will also reach out to hug

& June age:

Will use a variety of limb signals at the same time, such as watching you laugh, speak to yourself, open your arms to seek parents' attention

Responsible tips:

The baby's favorite big toy is you! When observing these signals, it is the best time to interact with the baby. Facing the child, look at his eyes, communicate with your baby with exaggerated expressions, and encourage your baby to imitate your expression and what you say.

When interacting with the baby, first wait and observe the baby's reaction, and then make a response, which is easier to meet the baby's needs.

4

Mom and dad, look at me!

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Will attract your attention by shouting, crying, and throwing toys;

When you respond to his behavior, he will be happy, laughs, and even laughs.

Response small posts:

For babies, their favorite audience is you, especially if you succeed in one thing or jump out of the pride, they are anxious to get your recognition and appreciation. When the baby has this signal, squatting down a height of the baby, looking at his eyes, the face expression was a little exaggerated: Baby, Mommy is here ~ I saw it, you were just great!

When you play with your baby, you must concentrate on your mobile phone first.

5

Mom, I'm a little afraid ...

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The eyes are widely opened, and the moment is still quiet;

Faces and hands will be trembling;

The baby may be very quiet and motionless;

Or crying violently or even accompanied by sorrow.

Response small posts:

The baby's ability to regulate emotions is limited. The baby who is afraid of it has no way to soothe himself. Parents' warm embrace, firm tone, and soothing movements can comfort him well.

6

Tomber ~ Good -full ~

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Less than 6 months:

The frequency and strength of sucking start to decline;

Or stop sucking;

Turn your head away, spit out or push away the nipple / bottle;

Very relaxed and some drowsy.

More than 6 months:

If you lose interest in food, you get slower and slower;

Tight lips;

Spit out food;

Hit up, turn your head away;

Push the food and start throwing food and spoon.

Responsible tips:

When the baby is full, don't force him to eat anymore. When the baby has an early hunger signal, providing food in time can make feeding easier.

7

Mom, I want to pull the stool / urine

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Suddenly stunned, and then hesitated / made a strange look;

Static, force, small face sometimes turn red;

After peeing, the body will have a slight trembling;

After the stool / urine, the body will be twisted, but it does not affect them to continue playing.

Responsible tips:

Before checking your baby's urine, let's tell the baby what you will do: baby, are you urinating / stinky? Mommy wants to help you check it.

The baby does not like to change the diapers, and it is likely to cry. Parents are advised to prepare all the items they need first. In the process of changing the wash, don't panic, soothe the baby gentle and firmly, tell your baby what you are doing every step.

8

Mom, I am a bit uncomfortable ...

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The intensive and urgent crying sound, accompanied by a grunt sound like RRRRRRRRR;

Facial muscles are tight and facial features are tightly wrinkled together;

Tort or lift your legs and shrink your legs.

Responsible tips:

Check the temperature and humidity of the surrounding environment of the baby to see if it is overheated or too cold

Check whether the baby’s limbs, fingers, toes are stuck or wrapped in small items

Check the baby’s diaper, whether it is comfortable to wear, and whether it needs to be replaced

Recall the feeding situation of the day to see if you need to hold your baby up

If the child suddenly wakes up in sleep, you can try to change a sleeping position first and soothe him to fall asleep again.

9

snort! I'm angry!

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Crying with red face;

When crying, your eyes will be closed;

When you want to soothe / hold them, the baby will push you away or shoot your hand.

Responsible tips:

If your baby accepts your soothing, you can help your baby to calm down in a conventional way.

But if your baby explicitly rejects your help, he will respect the baby's wishes. We can accompany him to ensure that he is safe and give your baby for a while to vent his emotions.

Before the next time you appease, ask him for his opinion: baby, you have been crying for so long, Mommy hugs you, okay?

10

Hee hee, happy ~

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Smile brightly;

The corners of the mouth, the cheeks are raised, and wrinkles are formed at the corner of the eyes;

Will take the initiative to wave, applaud and loudly talk about it.

Responsible tips:

Enjoy the time to play with your children, but pay attention to the baby's sober interval and conventional sleep arrangements to prevent the baby from being fake and tired.

The babies of deciphering children look complicated, but parents and children get along with each other. As long as they have the intention, they can follow.

In the process of bringing a baby, you are full of anxiety, slow down, and listen to what your child says, you will find that you know your baby more and more, and you will be more handy to take care of your baby.

references

[1] https://www.fhs.gov.hk/nglish/health_info/child/30119.html

[2] https://www.parents.com/baby/development/social/decoding-babys-Expressions/

[3] https://raisingChildren.net.au/newborns/connecting-Communicating/Communicating/baby-cuess

Experts in this article

Zhu Xiaojie cooperation expert

IMPI Maternal and Child Sleep Council

HAPPIEST BABY certified baby instructor

Pigeon

Review expert

Harvard University Master of Psychology

Plan

Produced: A Tongmu

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