Is it feasible to bring your baby on your own?

How does your family bring a baby in the confinement? Is it yourself or your family to help with it?

Let's listen to the story of the treasure mother@一起 mother's mother@一起 mother.

In a blink of an eye, McCaka is full of moon!

Without the moon, no confinement center, no elderly help, my husband is still at work, and I spend the first month with McCaka. Time has passed so fast that this baby who eats well and sleeps has gradually grown up.

As the month grows, the baby is getting better and better. The first month is the hardest. After all, the baby is small, the milk is frequent, and after the production is finished, my body needs to be gradually recovered. However, fortunately, the days are getting easier and easier to live day by day.

I have always recommended that the newborns are completely brought by myself. Even if the family of Yueyue helps them, they will help them to cook and clean up.

The advantage of doing this is that the baby was used to the breath and mode of the parents at the beginning, and there will be no problems that are not used to or not adaptive.

After McCaka was born, my husband and I recalled how to bring a baby first. I have to sigh. Xiaoxiaobu is now more than three years old. It is done to go to the toilet for dinner and clothes, so we have not taken care of him for a long time. Now from scratch, the two of us are really not smooth even if you change urine. You need to practice several times before recovering skills.

Since you bring your own baby at your own, a set of effective and perfect strategies is indispensable. This strategy contains me with my husband. The help of the husband and wife made the baby a much easier.

Rule of schedule

The regular schedule will make you feel that every day will not only be fulfilled, but also much easier. At the same time, the baby will live regularly, which is more conducive to falling asleep independently.

In the first week of McCach, my body also needed to recover, so I would sleep earlier. Many times I slept at this time at this time at eight o'clock in the evening. The newborn has a small stomach, and it is about to get up every 2 to 3 hours, so sleep early can make up for the problem of only 2 to 3 hours of sleep. However, after seven o'clock in the morning, I would definitely get up and not make up for it. Because I found that the Bujue made people sleep more and more sleepy, and then the morning time passed and did nothing, which was very inefficient.

After that, Maccica was larger, and the sleep time also increased from 2 to 3 hours in the first week to 3 to 5 hours at full moon. In addition, I have returned to pregnancy, so I will sleep around 10 pm and get up before 7 am. Fedback in the middle of the night depends on McCaka's sleep time, usually at two o'clock in the middle of the night and at 5 am.

McCaka's schedule has begun to become more and more regular. I will summarize the rules according to his schedule and then make effective adjustments. For example, the afternoon nap will not let him be more than three hours, so as not to affect the continuous sleep at night.

In the third week, McCaka will basically get up at eight o'clock in the morning, drink milk, play for an hour and a half, the first NAP for more than an hour, get up to drink milk, play for an hour and a half, the second NAP will have an hour for an hour. about. In the afternoon, he will sleep for 2 to 3 hours, then play for about half an hour, and then sleep. Normally ten o'clock in the evening, sleep until two o'clock in the middle of the night, continue to sleep at five in the morning, and then wake up to drink milk and sleep until 8 o'clock in the morning.

The regular schedule makes myself very good, and I can also grasp the feeding and game time of McCartha.

Audit expert suggestions: Generally speaking, babies in confinement are common in 45-60 minutes. The sober interval of this baby's confinement is 1.5h, which is also a angel ~

Products to keep up

The regular schedule is inseparable from the assistance of the product. For example: I summarized his laws of life by recording the time point of McCaka on the app. Then adjust the adjustment so that he and I can live regularly, and every day will feel very fulfilling and easy.

More importantly, sometimes the baby will suddenly snoring or unhappy. You may think he is hungry or bored, but you can clearly know that this may be the state before falling asleep instead of being hungry or bored. Being able to correctly judge the needs of the baby will avoid many unnecessary crying. McCaka is now full of moon. He crying up every day is less than a minute, and it is basically caused by the hungry stomach to change his urine and unhappy.

White noise, 襁, and infant monitor are the most useful weapons. These products can not only bring sufficient sense of security to the baby, but also allow our lives to continue their previous styles. Because my family still has a small cloth of three -year -old, it will be very noisy during the day. The small cloth will always speak, play games, sing, etc. We don't want him to limit too much behavior because of his brother's arrival. Because of this, he also loves his brother very much, and the whole family feels full of happiness together.

In addition, there are many convenient products in life. For example, do n’t wash clothes. The washing machine is the best helper (washing machine is cleaner and hygienic than hand washing), and the dryer will make the clothes softer. If you don't like to wash the bottle, you can use the dishwasher to solve it. If you don't like to suck the ground, use the land -sucking robot, and so on.

Let technology enter life so that you can live more efficiently. The time to save can be used to do what you like, such as brushing a drama, listening to a song, and playing games with the boss. This will also avoid that life is completely occupied by the baby. Husband and wife should cooperate

A healthy life requires a husband and wife to childcare together. This is not to say that everything must be shared half of them, but on the basis of the negotiation between the two. For example: My husband never needs me to help him wash clothes, so our clothes are responsible for their own part. He will be responsible for our bedding, and I will be responsible for the clothes of the two children.

After giving birth to McCaka, my husband took a week off. This week, I will make breakfast to the room every morning. Because I get frequent at night, I am generally hungry in the morning. There is a hot breakfast that makes me feel very happy. After that, he went to work. I bought a lot of fast breakfast. I woke up to a cup of coffee downstairs every day and used a microwave oven to heat a breakfast.

I feel that the mentality is flat and important. For example, he has three months maternity leave, but he is very busy and has no time to take a vacation (or he can't stay at home for three months to watch the child), I will not complain that he can't help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me help me Too much, and supporting him busy work (work to make money to provide economic pillar is also a way to pay). He will help watch the child together every day. For example, when I need to take a nap in the afternoon, he will control McCach. When I eat dinner at night, he can also help McCaka to fall asleep independently. I can eat a very leisurely dinner, and I can also brush a series or play the game with Xiaobo for a while.

In short, it is important to help each other. Moms are actively guiding her husband. Even if he does not do well, don't complain, encourage this to promote her husband more attempts and efforts. Dad should not give up to the mother to control the baby. Girls are not the only one who has obliged children. The two people pay together to advance faster.

Mood to relax

The newborn is so petite. Especially mothers, they also need to experience changes in progesterone, and emotional fluctuations are also very large. It is important to have a soothing environment. After all, emotional stability is conducive to bringing children.

Moms must go out, do not want to nest at home for 24 hours, breathe fresh air, and contact different environments to be more energetic with baby.

At the same time, dads should also be more considerate of emotional issues that their wives affect the change in progesterone after production. A little more help and support can largely avoid postpartum depression.

Finally, I hope that everyone, like us, easily and happy to enjoy the happiness brought by the baby to the whole family. I understand that there will be a variety of difficulties in the parenting process, but I must also believe in my strength. Everything can be solved. A positive attitude is very important. Let's enjoy the joy brought by the newborn!

Zhu Xiaojie

Review expert

IMPI Maternal and Child Sleep Council

HAPPIEST BABY certified baby instructor

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