Comment 丨 Is it meaningful if you don't play a child?They are not toys

Why do you take children as "low creatures" and deliberately impact their ideas, and then look at their big emotional ups and downs?

Recently, two similar topics appeared on hot search. One was that the rabbits sent by the uncle were killed by the mother as ingredients, and the hair was scalded. The 7 -year -old boy desperately held the "white rabbit" and cried in the wind. The other was that the two Mengwa in Guangdong took the hairy crabs as a pet. Seeing that Dad cooked cooked, he cried while eating, crying and exhausted. Dad deliberately asked what the hairy crab taste was, and the child replied, "The taste of incense."

In the picture, the child is crying heartbreaking, but the video with the video is a noisy joyful music and exaggerated canned laughter. This may be the legendary "sadness and joy". In particular, the second video also has a "true incense" turning point, which deliberately seduces children to expose human shortcomings.

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As netizens said: At first glance, it is very interesting, but the children have emotional to this hairy crab. It is not just a hairy crab. Is it bad? Do you want to attack this spoof to a child who does not have defense? It seems that this kind of spoofing video, or the short video of its own, has become a certain traffic password: watching the cute child was suddenly thrown into the ethical trap designed by an adult, watching the child's panic and crashing nothing Help, get a sense of indifference. However, why do you take children as "low creatures", deliberately impact their ideas, and then look at their big emotional ups and downs?

In fact, the concept of "having a child without playing will be meaningless" has become a popular stalk, and individual parents scramble to show this "spoof" video. However, children are individuals, not "toys" for anyone, and of course not parents' toys. Ji Berren's poems said: "Your child is not actually your child. They are children born to their desire for themselves. They come to this world through you, but they are not because of you, they are around you, but they are and and and and and and and that. Not belonging to you. "

Parents, facing children, stupid, cute or ridiculous, or naive, say this sentence from time to need- "your child does not belong to you." Parents' support is not a gift. On the contrary, the days when they are with their children are also the test of their parents: they need to feel love, not tricky; need to feel care, not control; to feel help, not laugh at.

Children's childhood is really short. They have to use the fierce competition, the cruelty of society, the bright guns and dark swords of the words, and the degeneration of the transition from words. Clear, let them have bright eyes, a clean heart, let children understand love, care, help, swallows will return, know that the little frogs will hurt, and the lack of watering flowers will die. I believe Princess White Snow and many beautiful The things that really exist, don't teach them the cruelty and violent prematurely.

"It is meaningless to have a child without playing," in the stalk, full of stabbing that is enough to stabb the bleeding. Plato said that children are afraid of darkness, and the terrible thing is that adults are afraid of light. When adults taught their pets as ingredients early, they taught their children and made short videos that relying on teased.

Maybe, after many years, outside the ICU, a middle -aged man did not tangled and signed the "abandonment of treatment consent" under the "sober world", the old man in the bed would still think of the afternoon of the child's emotional collapse, A greasy canned laughter in the ears.

Children are not toys, not props, not pets, they are people, people like you and me. Let's respect our children as adults.

Edit Wang Yitao

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