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"Kiwi 9.9 yuan a one, very expensive, but I often buy it, but I have never eaten a whole, because my daughter likes it ... I unknowingly become a person like a parent ..."

Picture source: Xiaohongshu Author: Yellow River Children

Some people say, "Such self -moved effort is suffocating. If the child is bigger and disobedient, you will abduct her morally."

Some people say: "This is not a self -moved dedication. This is just the love of parents who can't help themselves, but it is the instinct to nurture."

The younger generation of parents generally receive higher education. Whether it is work or life, they have their own personality and claims. However, every parent is like walking on the wire. Because I love children, I give the best to the child, but as soon as you don't pay attention, you may fall into the deep pit of "moving giving".

Not long ago, Teacher Liu Ye launched the new book "Life Convenience Store". As we all know, Teacher Liu Ye not only has a successful career, but also cultivates a pair of children who graduated from Harvard and Columbia University. "Life Convenience Store" also includes what he feels in the process of raising his children.

Liu Ye's family photo

Today, I selected 10 his "parenting notes". When you were burnt on the road of raising a baby, let's take a look ...

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Enrich

Even if there is no castle, you are a princess of war horses

The movie "White Rabbit Sugar"

What is rich? In fact, the core principle of wealth is the greatest effort of parents to make children live well. I wrote in the article before, and I said to my daughter, "Dad can't guarantee that the man in the future will be good to you, but Dad will be good to you." The girl is to be rich, and more importantly, let her not be subject to the outside world. Temptation. I have a friend who often said to his daughter, "You are the princess of the castle, so don't care how others seduce you." The question is that if there is no house at home, what should I do if there is no castle? You can say to your daughter: "You are a princess of war horses. Dad is your war horse, dad takes you, dad protects you."

Poverty

New poverty: When the mountains are exhausted, you can deal with it alone

Movie "Adam Plan"

Boys are going to be poor, and I think this may have something to do with the concept of the old age. At that time, he paid attention to "the heavens will be descended to the people. Some people, the child was born in the ice water to take a bath, and grew up and put him in the ice and snow to endure the cold. It seems that children can face various difficulties in the future. The question is, will it still happen in the era of hunger? The current "boys' poverty" should be different. For example, you have to solve the child's own thing. Mom and dad can't help you ", let him face difficulties, find a way to solve, and gradually gain the ability to think independently and take responsibility for responsibility. This is also poverty.

Not worry about

Excessive parents may be a stumbling block

Movie "Bottom Hot Girl"

My son Liu Xuan is participating in "I am a speaker". Before the game, I reminded him that it was not easy to go to the show, and the masters gathered. But Liu Xuan went, and actually got the first place. His performance surprised me and also reviewed himself: Fortunately, he was not scared by me to retreat. The son of his son has the world of his son, especially after he is an adult, he should let go completely and let him go to himself. Parents who are too worried are not only not help, but may also become a stumbling block.

Respect the classroom

To get in your early, you have to face more face -to -face

TV series "Sorry Youth!"

I taught my granddaughter to read aloud today, she cried! In the past, I corrected her, and she did not cry. Today, because her mother, aunt, and children were all there, she hid back to the bedroom and cried. I followed in and asked, "Do you want to continue reading aloud?" She nodded crying. I asked, "Do you want to give up the game?" She shook her head. I said, "This is right! Your dad practiced his speech in high school, and I was corrected by me. He was so angry that he punched the room on the wall and hit the gypsum board. Now becoming a famous speaker. "During dinner, I mentioned this, and my son laughed and said," Children must face face! "I said," Yes, face, but because of the first thing, you have to be faced. , One day to win big faces. "Willpower

The child's willpower depends on the parent's uncompromising

Movie "Bottom Hot Girl"

Psychologists have found that a child is more important than IQ or not in the future. Smart can learn quickly, but not necessarily for a long time. Instead, the willpower children may learn more solidly. The natural IQ is difficult to change, but willpower can be trained from childhood. For example, when you ask the child's question, he can't answer, let him think that if he can't think of it at the time, he can ask him again, "I want you to find the answer, you found it Is it more likely, the child knows that you will ask to the end, and he will not be sloppy. Therefore, I hope that the children of the children's willpower must first be intended. Your uncompromising will make your children stick to the end.

Unreasonable

Parents who are unreasonable are easy to raise problems with problems

The movie "White Rabbit Sugar"

What kind of parents are easy to raise problems with problems? The answer is very simple, that is, unreasonable parents. Today they are happy. What do the children do something wrong, they seem to have not seen it; today they are unhappy. The children do something wrong, and they are greatly punished and scolded. The question is, does the child become a person who is not talking about things, but a person who observes his parents and figured out the emotions of his parents? Try to figure out, it is easy to be insecure, easy to please, and lying easily. Therefore, parents must be reasonable and have stable emotions.

Derogate

Promise in the middle, spare no effort

TV series "Non -Natural Death"

Chinese people often use their own way of degrading their own manifestations. The problem is that many people will also degrade their children. The children perform outstandingly without praise. They are scolded a bit. This has caused many children to never hear their parents in their lives. But in the long -distance running of life, parents who left the scene earlier, since they couldn't wait to hang the flower ring at the end of the end, do they still miss the applause for them halfway?

High -educated mother

High education mothers are also worth full -time mothers

Movie "Deeper than the Sea"

If all aspects are allowed, can I choose to be a full -time mother? sure. A good mother can educate the next generation or even several generations, so the mother's influence on the child is very great. Jewish families often go out to work, and their wives bring their children at home. Some wives have a master's and doctoral degree and still bring children at home. Is this a waste of social resources? Is a child who has been educated more different? This world requires those "different". So if you want to be a full -time mother, go to do it, you are likely to create extraordinary children!

trial

The boat arrived at the bridge head, hit, straight ... myself straight

TV series "No Marriage"

My friend said to the daughter of a famous school, "You have a good homework, go to the medical school." The daughter didn't listen and ran to the theater as a lady. After bringing a year, I was tired and secretly applied for the medical school myself. My friend said, "Listen to me, I entered last year." The daughter said, "It's not listening to you now, but listening to my own words. I choose my life, I have a failure to succeed." The friend said to me privately: " "The boat arrived at the bridge head, hit, straight ... myself."

pressure

Who said that my generation does not resist?

TV series "Woman"

I often hear people who have criticized young people without pressure, but think about how many exams do people have been from childhood to large? The real problem may be that the pressure of the exam is too high, and the pressure of life is too small. Parents only ask for the exams well. Other times, they are spoiled, causing the child's ability to resist pressure. One day when you enter the society, you need to face work and life at the same time. What needs to be responsible for the end? What can I do without it? Without a moment of gravity, it was messy.

Essay activity

I hope that the above sharing can bring you some inspiration. "Life Convenience Store" gathered nearly 200 "life notes" of Teacher Liu Ye, which is not just an educational issue. You can find the answer here.

On September 14th, 20: 00-20: 30, the writer@9 墉 墉 will be with the reading promoter@9 啊 啊 9 9 9 9, and talk about what are the "new" in the convenience store of life!

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