Yi Nengjing's 20 -year -old son wears sexy women's clothing, and semi -nude photos are hotly discussed: "Do you care about his son?"

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At the end of August, Yi Nengjing's son Harry posted another group of women's photos.

The big wave curly hair, sexy tube top jacket and the same color split skirt with thick makeup, with thick makeup, like a "hot girl" dress.

His favor for women's clothing must have heard it slightly, this is not the first time he wears women's clothing.

Harry has always liked multiculturalism, and he is also willing to try different dress styles.

Every time, as soon as Harry's similar photos are sent out, it will attract heated discussion among netizens, and this time is no exception.

One or two years ago, he posted some photos of women's clothing wearing tube tops and skirts;

I also made a hot search for a group of photos.

In the photo, he turned red eye shadows, and half -naked hugged a girl.

Seeing these photos, netizens have different opinions.

Some people think that this is the freedom of others, which is good.

But some people can't accept it, and even say something unpleasant:

"I feel the brain is abnormal ..."

"Spicy eyes, is there a problem with psychology?"

"Do parents care about it?"

Although these photos of him may be "alternative" and "eye -catching" in the eyes of ordinary people.

But what is the freedom of everyone, no one can use such a hurt person to evaluate.

Some people question, how did Yi Nengjing teach children?

In fact, she responded in a variety show for Harry's women's style.

Yi Nengjing said that her son called her at the time and asked her that her own controversy would not affect her work and need to turn off her social account.

Yi Nengjing said:

I will give him all the freedom. He can become himself in my world. I also let him know that I am strong and strong enough to block the maliciousness of the world.

She said that the respect of parents is very important. Children not only come to this world to experience the love of their parents.

She encouraged Harry: "Not only will you not affect us, but also let more people know the preciousness of freedom!"

Yi Nengjing believes that the child only depends on the carrier of his parents to experience the world, not his parents.

Children are independent individuals. As parents, they should exit their children's world and let their children experience life. Parents are just a role and should let the child complete their lives by themselves.

Yes, children are not to complete their parents' mission, and each child has the right to control his life by himself.

What you like and pursue is not because of his parents' wishes, but from the child's own wishes.

Only with their preferences to develop, they can give full play to their potential, and maybe they can see the excellence that their parents have never thought about.

Sometimes, excessive "discipline" is the culprit that stifles children's development talents and grows independently.

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Not long ago, "This is a real future" on Weibo.

A mother accidentally discovered a few paintings of her son.

Mom said that her son has loved disorder since elementary school, and the mess in the mother's mouth is like this:

There is also this:

Once the album is issued, many netizens have attracted the attention of netizens.

Everyone praised the boy's talent.

Even the official accounts such as Chinese aerospace and Chinese ships left for him:

"Chinese Aerospace waited for him to grow up" and "the future" praise and encouragement.

However, in the eyes of mothers, these paintings are things that affect their children's learning.

"I thought I wouldn't paint in junior high school, but I didn't expect to paint secretly.

Concentrate on learning, don't think about it anymore. "

With a few words, you can get a glimpse of the attitude of parents' hobbies enough to be called talent.

Netizens have expressed their concerns:

"Don't hinder him to become a talent."

"The last sentence, alas, the mood is a bit complicated. I hope my worry is superfluous."

In the eyes of some parents, you can only take good academic performance. Everything else is a waste of time and should not be touched.

They control the children that they ca n’t do it, that cannot be done, and they have worn away the talents that their children have.

Such discipline is too late.

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There is a documentary called "Little Boy".

It focuses on several children who are obsessed with different fields such as nature, technology, art, and sports, record their growth stories, and observe their obsession and talent for hobbies.

They are all small geniuses in their respective fields.

For example, this ballet girl Yuner dancing in a pork shop.

Living in the depths of the mountains, my father worked outside the year, and his mother opened a pork shop.

Every morning at 4:30 in the morning, she will get up, go to the store to help do things, and take care of her brother and sister.

What makes her happy most is that when the business is not so busy, she can dance in the pork shop.

Without teachers, she watched online video self -study, and she learned.

Yuner liked to dance, and her mother took her to study around. Unexpectedly, the teachers refused.

The teachers said that they were not unwilling, they couldn't teach, for fear of not enough level, delaying the little seedlings of Yuner. They suggested sending Yun'er to the province to receive better education.

Even Beiwu's teachers said that they had never seen such talented children.

However, the high tuition fees made this family discouraged. Mom had to take Yun'er to watch online videos to learn. He often chopped pork while helping Yun'er shouting "one, two, three, and four". The insistence of Yun'er and her mother finally made them meet Bole.

Through the help of the teacher at the Beijing Dance Academy on the couple with Zhang Ping, Yun'er came to Beijing to board the first stage of life. In the future, he can follow two excellent teachers to learn to dance.

The simple Yuner mother said, "As long as she likes, the adult has to help her."

On the way to studying dance, her mother respects and trusts her, and has always been with her, which gives Yuner's persistence and the opportunity to see.

There is also a boy Yin Ran who catch bugs every day, and there are more than 200 kinds of raising.

Such hobbies generally only get reprimand, but his mother does not do so.

His mother felt "very interesting."

She said, "You have nothing to get his fun things, so life is not very boring."

When she encountered the knowledge of insects she didn't understand, she asked her son to understand and integrate as much as possible.

During the holidays, parents will accompany Yin Ran to catch insects.

Of course, in addition to catching insects, Yin Ran also completes the job punch and skipping card.

Mom told Yin Ran: "In a person's life, it is impossible to do what you like to do, what you want to do and what you should do is a balance."

After watching the documentary, you will find that in the process of their growth, the most important thing is actually not talent or family situation.

Instead, their dedication and love for dreams, as well as their parents' support and guidance.

Respecting the different appearance of children's life is the correct way to open education.

Many parents always hang on their mouths, "Let you do this, it's all for you", in fact, it is more like a kidnapping.

Just as I read the Juntong Dictionary "Non -Love Behavior":

They use the so -called "love for the other party" to achieve the purpose of obeying their will.

True love is to treat him as an independent individual, not to let him grow according to your wishes.

As educator Sun Ruixue said in the book "Love and Freedom":

"Parents' responsibilities are to provide children with a safe environment with love, but as for how to explore the world, it is the child's freedom."

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