Mom loves to dress up and does not like to dress, the impact on the child is greater than you think, don't pay attention to

Hello everyone, I am a meal mother

Will the mother's dress affect the child? I am very sure of that. As a child's life guidance, parents' words and deeds will have a subtle influence on their children. Even if the mother's dressed dress will have a great impact on the child's growth.

The parent meeting in Dudu class, the mother who cares about Dudu's learning naturally goes to participate. When Dudu's mother came to the Dudu Corps, she found that many parents had come, so after finding her seat, she talked to the parents next to the parents.

After a while, the parents all arrived, and the teacher announced that the parents would start. One of the projects in the Parents' Association is the issue of children's performance. Dudu mother, like other parents, is very concerned about the child’s learning situation, so the attention is on the teacher. When I hear my child is in the class At the forefront of academic performance, the hanging heart finally let go.

When parents put their attention on the teacher, the children's attention was not here, but on the parents. During the period, some children showed a proud look. Some embarrassing expressions, some children seemed very embarrassed to lower their heads.

In short, the children's expressions are very exciting, and this wonderful expression has little to do with their performance.

Dudu's mother found that although Dudu's performance is at the forefront of the class, it is not the kind of particularly pointed, but Dudu's expression is full of pride. Duda mother is very puzzled.

When the parent will be completed, Dudu's mother is curious to ask Dudu, why at the parent meeting, Dudu would be so proud, and Dudu's answer made the mother unexpected: "Because my mother is the most beautiful."

Mom loves to dress up and does not like to dress, the impact on children is greater than you think, don't pay attention to

Like Dudu's mother, many parents may not know that after the parent meeting is opened, almost all children will talk about their mothers together and compete with the mother's instrument.

If whose mother is decent, clean and dignified, then the child will be very proud, and other children will be full of envy about the child. Because the mother is the proud capital of the child's heart.

However, if some mothers wear too casually or out of time, they may bring great confusion to their children.

※ Too casual wear will make children inferiority

When the Parents' Association, Duntun's mother was wearing home clothes (like pajamas) because she was a full -time housewife.

In fact, as a full -time housewife, there is nothing wrong with wearing home clothes, but when you go out, especially when you participate in a certain collective event, your clothes should be replaced.

However, maybe Mom Dun Dun didn't consider so much, so he was dressed like this. This kind of behavior of mothers suddenly felt very inferior, worried that other students would think that their mothers were "ignorant" and "unknown", but they were so casual on such important occasions. Essence

Because Dun Dun does not know how to express his thoughts and does not know how to say that this behavior is not appropriate, Duntun will gradually become inferiority.

※ Dressing out of time, it will make the child full of embarrassment

Compared to Duntun, Leizi's condition is slightly better, but Lei Zi really wants to find a hole in, because when my mother came today, she was too fashionable. , Put in tourist attractions, placed in the playground and other places, it can be said that they are the most beautiful mothers.

But this is at school. This is a parent meeting. The clothes worn by Lei Zi's mother are not suitable for both design or the number of fabrics.

When Lei Zi found that some male parents in the class quickly avoided their vision when they saw their mother, and some female parents pointed at their mothers privately, Lei Zi was embarrassed.

※ It is dirty and old, which will make children sweep the floor

However, the worst is Bobo. The conditions of Bobo's family are actually very good. Mom and dad's income is quite high in the county, but because parents are busy, they are usually busy, and they all wear workers. After the news, I came over without changing clothes.

As a result, when Bobo saw his mother wearing dirty and old workers, his face was like a small sun. This is not shy, but Bobo feels like a face.

Bobo has experienced the feeling of being despised because of poor, because when Bobo is very young, the family is really poor, and Popo is often looked down on.

However, Bobo's parents have worked hard through a few years. Now they are already a small rich family, but parents are accustomed to suffering, so they are not too concerned about the image. However, Bobo cares very much, because this dress will make Popo sweep the floor at school.

In summary, the different wearing of mothers has a great impact on children, especially in terms of learning.

Although Dudu's results are now at the forefront of the class, it was not the case before, but "the tail of the crane", but the mother's consistent instrument makes Dudu full of confidence. Gradually improved.

Dun Dun was taken care of at home because his mother was a housewife. However, it is precisely because of Duntun's mother's non -repair amplitude that Dun Dun is often in a bland psychological environment, so Duntun's grades are also relatively average and there is no wave. Lei Zi is not the same. Rayzi's mother likes fashion. She usually pays less attention to Lei Zi, and Lei Zi also has a lot of confusion because her mother usually wores it. It is the bottom.

As for Bobo, although the conditions at home are very good, because the mother is always dirty, Bobo's heart is very tangled, which also causes Bobo's "anxiety". Bobo's grades are always unstable, and it is suddenly up and down.

Conclusion

The mother's dress is actually the child's business card. What kind of image mother appears in the child's life, appears on campus, and appears on the child's communication circle, then what kind of state will children grow up.

Therefore, mothers should pay attention to their own instruments. The more dignified the instrument, the more the children may grow better.

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