The best support for children is: the sound of the kitchen, the incense in the study, the bedroom has something to say ｜ Select

Home is a temperature word.

It is not only a place for our body to rest, but also the harbor where our minds are stopped.

For children, the family is the paradise for his growth. The appearance of the child's future will be affected by the family.

The child's growth is only once, and education cannot be withdrawn again. As parents, we must provide the best environment for children.

So, what is the best support for children?

01

Sound of kitchen

As the saying goes, "Fireworks on the world, caressing the hearts of people."

A happy family is inseparable from a hot kitchen. The kitchen looks trivial, but it is an indispensable place for every family.

This meal and meals are eventually reflected in children.

Children will know: Because we are a family, we have to eat together and eat together every day, which is the way we express love.

Children who grew up in such a family atmosphere can learn the way of love and being loved, self -esteem and self -love, warm and firm.

A home and a kitchen, parents not not only convey love and tenderness to their children, but also convey the outlook on food and love for life.

The warm kitchen allows children to understand that food is a kind of healing medicine that can break the fatigue; the lively kitchen allows children to feel that food is a promise of affection that can pass true love.

The kitchen conveys love and tenderness between parents and children, and also shows the happiness of a family.

02

The study is fragrant

I recently chatted with a mother and felt deeply.

It is said that the child should be rich, and she also tries her best to give the child the best, especially in education, and wants her daughter to win on the starting line.

However, at a small party of a parent, she found that some children could introduce herself generously and express their thoughts. Her daughter was on the side and obviously wanted to share her life with her children, but she didn't know how to express it.

Later, when I communicated with other parents, a parent saw the blood:

"There is no shortage of money now, there is no shortage of talents, but lack of reading."

Because the ability and understanding ability are directly linked to the reading ability.

"I never thought about how important it was to read, but that party made me see that a child who was read and the children who did not read were so small that the gap was so small."

I still remember that the Chinese Poetry Conference in the Fifth Season 5 came from a young man, only 10 years old Han Yaxuan.

At a young age, he was generous, and all kinds of poems came to hand. Since then, in "Challenge", he played a 112 -round "Flying Flower Ling Ling War" with his opponent, and finally won the championship.

Image source: "Challenge is impossible"

In an interview, he bluntly said: Reading is my biggest hobby.

The old saying: The child of the parents is far -reaching.

Many parents know that they buy expensive school districts, but they do not know their study rooms, so that their children can win on the starting line.

Thinking of "We", Mr. Yang Yan described their family life in a gentle and peaceful tone:

Three people read books at home, entertaining and self -sufficient, like a warm island.

The breeze blows over, everything is good.

No wonder she would say, "The three of us have endless fun together."

The fun of books, knowledge and culture requires parents to lead by example and find their children to find.

It is said that the child is a mirror of the parents.

Behind children who are interested in books, they usually stand on the same parents who love reading.

If a child, if it is infiltrated in the study of the study for a long time, it will definitely maintain eternal curiosity and curiosity, as well as enthusiasm and hope for life.

03

There are words in the bedroom

The cousin has a habit. Every night at 9 o'clock, the family is lost on time.

Several times, we still made video calls in the group a second ago. As soon as the next second arrived, after she hurriedly said hello, the video had no response as soon as she hung up.

At the beginning, everyone was wondering, but after listening to the cousin's explanation, they all understood:

"The child is ready to sleep, I have to accompany him."

Although the cousin's work during the day was very busy and sometimes even needed to work overtime, in those hours in the evening, the cousin all gave the children thunder.

Cousin's child, that is a proper "child of other people's homes", which is excellent in all aspects, and it is more polite to take care of others, sensible and considerate at home.

Thinking about this, the cousin's child is so good. Now, many parents will accompany their children to read before going to bed, but few parents seize this exclusive atmosphere of the "two -person world" after reading, and continue to chat with their children.

This really missed a huge treasure mine.

In fact, before going to bed with your children to chat with your children, it is better than speaking 100 times.

A child, a childhood that needs a sense of security and love, can be chatted with parents every night, which is a precious gift for children.

Before going to bed, chatting with your child is the best way to give your child attention.

Many parents may have this mind, but they feel that they don't have that technology -I don't know what to talk to my children.

In fact, as long as you are in your heart, you are equal, the atmosphere is easy, and you can talk about anything.

If you still can't find the entry port, you can also try according to the following points, and slowly, you find your own set of chat methods.

1. What special things have been encountered today; 2. Is there anything happy or unhappy today;

3. Do you play at the table with you now;

4. Who are the best children in the class;

5. Discuss around the special things that happened today. For example, grandma is sick, what should we do, the refrigerator at home is broken, what should we do, and so on;

6. You can talk about the weekend plan, what movies to watch, where to play, and let your children participate in the planning;

7. You can talk about his recent study status. Which learning habits need to be improved;

8. Talk to your child about the affair and setbacks you experienced when you were a kid. Children will find it fun or shocking, which can enhance the child's resistance;

9. Talk to your child about your little things that you learn and grow up when you are a kid, and let your children see a richer father or mother, which will help their personality and personality development;

10. Talk to your child about your work. Children can realize that it is not easy for parents to work, and they will do themselves spontaneously;

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Chatting with children, a bedroom full of laughter is like a bond, connecting the hearts of parents and children.

As a result, parents can hear the real voice of their children, the parent -child relationship is further enhanced, and the child's expression ability, independent thinking ability and emotional intelligence will also be improved.

Please believe that this short time you accompany your children will be a big surprise in the future.

I have read a celebrity::

"The ideal happy family is neither far away nor falling from the sky. It should be obtained by its own strength, and the whole family will work together to establish it."

The best appearance of a family is that the kitchen has aroma, the study has a sense of style, and a laugh in the bedroom.

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