Three stages of boys' growth

Author:Ninety Parenting Scriptures Time:2022.06.20

I read a book today and saw that there were three stages of the boy, which caused me to think. It turned out that raising a child is not good at eating, drinking, drinking, and fun. You also need to learn a lot. Parents are really long -term.

The first stage was from birth to 6 years -boys of this age belong to their mother. He is the child of "her". Although his father also played a very important role in it, he still belongs to her. At this stage, the task of parents is to allow their children to grow safely under the surround of love, and make this stage a warm stop in the growth process of boys.

The second stage is 6 to 13 years old -at this stage, the boy felt the call from the inner world and began to try to become a man. At this time, the boy became more and more like his father in interest and preference activities. (Although the boy still keeps close connection with his mother, the wider world beckoned to him.) At this stage, the main task of the parents is to let the child form a good product in the process of laughing and playing, and at the same time cultivate the cultivation, and to cultivate at the same time to cultivate Children's awareness of competition and teach them the skills of this to make them a comprehensive development person. At this age, boys are happy to be a man.

The third stage is from the age of 14 to adult -at this stage, if the boy wants to complete the transformation from childish to mature, he needs the guidance of a mature man. At this time, parents no longer dominate the boy's life, but they must choose good guiders for their son, otherwise their son will find themselves on the same ignorant companions. At this stage, there are more and more opportunities for boys to participate in adult community activities. These activities will help them learn the skills of communicating with others and make them a sense of responsibility, self -esteem and self -love.

Excerpted from "Nourish Boy"