It is often said that the parents who are "okay" are actually the deepest grievances

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Parents' grievances ...

There is a plot impressive in the TV series "Little Relief".

The tutor of the tutoring class is too fast, resulting in many contents of Huanhuan unable to absorb digestion, and the grades are stagnant. After Huan Huan's father, Xia Junshan, he took Huanhuan to communicate with the teacher, hoping that he could slow down the speed of the topic.

However, the teacher's words were all disliked. The foundation of Huanhuan was too weak. When others heard a question once, she couldn't understand it, and even the head of Huanhuan was not very light, and her response ability was not very good.

Seeing the baby's daughter was said to be useless, how could Xia Junshan endure? There was a crackling back, and in the end, he fought with the teacher.

Parents may be like this. They can bear the difficulties of customers on weekdays, but they can't stand the taunting of others to their children. In their eyes, children will always do their best to protect themselves.

But they also needed their children to care, but they never refused to complain when they had trouble. They often used a sentence "It's okay" to easily cover up bitterness.

When I was a kid, I got up at night to drink water, and saw my parents calculating the bills of money under the weak lights, and my tuition and living expenses.

Then it didn't take long for them to go out early and return early. During that time, I could always see the scars that were cut through the edge of the carton on their hands. But even so, they always urged me to study hard and don't worry about the difficulties at home, because they will think of solutions.

Under their shelter, I grew up slowly, went to high school, went to college, and started working, and they were still worrying about me.

So, I often think: "What kind of relationship is between parents and children?"

Later, I realized that it was the relationship between the harbor and the shelter -despite the storms outside, they would also use their bodies to support the small world inside and protect him safely.

Those who can avoid the storm in the harbor, sometimes do not necessarily understand how much pressure and risks this harbor bear.

The title of "Dad" and "Mom" has given parents unlimited responsibilities. For this reason, they are pouring everything, patiently raising their children to grow up, and can be responsible for all kinds of dedication and love, but they are often ignored by the children inadvertently.

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Behind the cloudy wind ...

When I first watched "Crayon Shin", I was not deeply impressed by Nodahara Hiroshi. I only stayed with Xiaoxin to play with Xiaoxin's touch -up game after get off work.

When I looked back again many years later, I found that this cheerful middle -aged man hidden a lot of difficulty behind it.

Every morning, he got up early to catch the tram, and he dragged his tired body home late at night. When making mistakes at work, facing the leader's scolding, he could only nod with his head and whispered.

Excessive pressure made him wake up in his sleep, and he was overwhelmed by his responsibility.

But after waking up, looking at his wife and children, he would still tell himself not to be discouraged, continue to work hard to give them a better life.

This is not the epitome of many parents. They are silent and rarely expose their minds. Although life is difficult, they dare not stop easily, and silently support a home with their own power.

Behind the light and light expression, it has long been full of sadness.

In the past, after seeing my mother finished working for a day, she kept home to cook and cook. After eating, she had to wash dishes, mop the ground, clean up, and turned like a gyro. Like a superman, there is always an endless energy.

It wasn't until the day when my mother turned her neck and hammered her waist on the balcony, I realized that my mother was not omnipotent, and there was a time to overwhelm it.

When he was young, he saw his parents standing hard in the work they didn't like. When they were scolded and apologized, they felt that they lived too much.

But after witnessing their helplessness, they gradually understood that the reason why they endured all of them was for the happiness of the loved one.

Because there are people who are cherished in their hearts, they dare not complain and live as if they are unscrupulous as children, and can only leave the pain to themselves digest little by little.

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Growing is to discover the fragility of parents, and ...

In the variety show "Friends, please listen", a letter from a netizen made countless people cry. In the letter, the netizen warmly and delicately tells the fragility of his father's resolute appearance and his own growth-

After the death of her grandmother, the father of the eldest son in the family had been fighting the funeral, greeted the neighbor neighbors who came to hang up, and spoke to relatives and friends, and took care of everything.

It wasn't until the moment she came back that he unloaded layers of camouflage, released the emotion that had been accumulated for a long time, and said: "Daddy has no mother."

Looking at the helpless father in front of her, she suddenly realized that the strong and resolute father was old and there was a fragile side!

Therefore, she wrote a sentence in the letter: "It turned out that when she grew up, she was not holding the first salary at that time and bought gifts for parents. Instead, you found the fragility of your parents and became the person you wanted to rely on."

Sometimes, growing is a momentary thing, and it will never give you a moment to prepare and accept it.

When you find your father who is walking, you start to take a few steps to pant; your healthy mother starts to take various medicines; when you are a parent who decides yourself, he has gone quietly when he starts to obey your suggestions.

Just like the author said in the wind: "When you wake up and find that on the battlefield of life, after a round of machine guns, those elders who once blocked in front of you and the building generally existed. Any choice, you can only bite the scalp. At this time, you have stood in the first row of the queue. "Before that day, I hope we can have enough ability to take the burden of the family from their hands. The fragility, growing into the people they can rely on.

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There is such a sentence in the variety show "Lang Reader":

"When we were young, parents chose to guide us with suitable love; after they were older, we chose to give back to our parents with a long -distance love."

As a child, we have continued to pursue poetry and far away, and we have rarely included our parents into their own life planning. We always feel that when we have achieved something, it is not too late to come back and be filial.

But life is coming and not long. When you open a new way for your life in front, your parents are quietly aging.

On the way forward, don't ignore parents who are concerned about you behind you. Don't forget that they are just an ordinary person who can cry, hurt, and someone needs to calm down the sadness, and long for children's care.

In the future, I often call them to talk to them, listen to their inner suffering seriously, and share the thorns of life for them.

The storm of our first half of life was carried by our parents for us, and the happiness of their second half of life changed us to protect it.

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