Magnan, parents acquiesce in their children and rolled down the mountain!Should children do dangerous things?

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In the forest park, a little boy went down the mountain in a "rolling" manner, and the pedestrians next to them gave way. After the video was uploaded to the Internet, it caused heated discussion among netizens. Some netizens said that the little boy "I have always wanted to do what I want to do."

The most dazzling thing is the attitude of his mother beside him: it doesn't matter, he is willing to roll!

In this case, the little boy around him and his mother gave a thumbs up: you can have so courageous, don't care about the eyes of others, and must have something to do with the family environment. His mother is also very good and open.

Indeed, in the past, we played mud, sand, climbing trees, and throwing stones. Now the children are different tuition classes. Only some time may also give electronic products. The outside world is bad, bump when you go out, and you are afraid of scratching them at home. Even playing games will be afraid that some pictures in the game will bring bad children.

01

Is such a world really safe?

Can you imagine such a world? We round each edges and corners, hide all the knives, and set a safety guardrail around each ditch and every tree. All grounds are non -slip, and only the sharp scissors have a driver's license.

Is this a safer world? Can our children be absolute and perfect here? Can they play like us when we were young? When they climb up the low -sensitivity game device, will the young head filled with various ideas and crazy dreams?

When they are playing with plastic toys, they will be as trendy as we hold a long and curved branches in our hands. Do you imagine all kinds of stories? Can we rest assured that they get out of our sight? Even if they know that the global positioning system tracking device installed in their mobile phones will make them safe home, can we feel relieved?

Of course, we must protect children away from danger, which is a promise that the entire society must make them. But when this protection exceeds the necessary limit, it actually means the failure of the entire society, because children do not learn how to judge risks themselves. Therefore, we need to help them understand the difference between those unknown and unfamiliar things and the real danger.

This is a question worth thinking about: How old can you give him a sharp wooden stick when you think the child? It's time to take a little time to consider the risk. Try to start from the age of two, and then gradually increase, until you are sure that you can let them play the sharp wooden stick without saying "be careful ...".

Will you jump out of words like "blind eyes" in your mind? That's right, when it comes to "sharp wooden sticks", we will habitually think of similar things. But do you know? Some Inte people will give a knife for children who are still toddles. We just imagine that a three -year -old child sitting on the ground and playing a knife is enough to surprise.

Suppose we add a project to cultivate tool skills to kindergartens. In your opinion, what kind of tools will the school board approve? I think it will definitely not be more dangerous than plastic forks, and the degree of practicality is similar.

Today, for survival, we all know that reading, writing and mathematics are considered necessary skills. We have specially compiled books and TV programs specially produced to help two or three -year -old children get the preparation skills required for learning, writing, and mathematics. We have a game specializing in teaching children to prepare skills. The publicity of merchants makes parents and grandparents believe that the content of the game will enable children to learn more happily. But we do not have enough games, books or TV programs to help children have real survivability.

We need to give children a chance to distinguish, which is really dangerous and what is risky to cultivate their ability; we need to expose them in limited and controllable risks to let them understand the risks; You need to teach them how to explore safely, so as to embark on the road of independent exploration.

In fact, the book "Let Children Do 50 Danger" pays attention to security issues. Every activity has risks, you can treat them as opportunities and discuss these risks with children. We can reduce risks by "building scaffolding", that is, to formulate plans, sub -step operations, and take reasonable prevention measures. Let the children practice climbing trees, they will learn to climb the trees safely.

If you never let them try, they will not only secretly do it, but also climb in the most unsafe way. Or maybe they will not try in their lives, and this may be the biggest regret.

02

Learn to roll over

guide

The front roll may not look useful, but if you persist in practice until it becomes a habit, then you may find that the next wrestling, you will naturally avoid falling your hands and knees through the front roll.

1. Find a clean place to make sure there is no small stick or stone.

2. Standing slightly in front of the other foot in one foot.

3. Start rolling. Leaning and closing the chin, when I turned forward, imagined that I curled up like a ball. When you touch the ground, hold your hand on the ground in front.

4. Turn over. Keep your body lean forward and curl up when rolling. When you touch the ground with wider parts between the scapula, keep the back bent. If you touch the ground anywhere on your head, it means that you are not curling enough. If your back is on the ground, it is likely that you are not going down.

5. Continue to complete. Try to maintain your momentum and roll until you stand up again. Repeat step 2 to step 5, until you can roll up smoothly every time you can roll up. Like all gymnastics projects, the front roll is also required to practice. Some of the things you learn to learn is that the whole person will not have dizziness when you turn your head down. Confusion originated from the confusion of the vestibular system. The vestibular system includes a set of internal organs and some areas of the brain that helps you distinguish between the upper and lower directions. Once you master the good front roll skills, you can try to roll twice or three times to see how your vestibular system feels. If this is not dizzy enough, then try to turn your eyes closed.

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Grassland may have a soft ground playing area.

warn

Whenever you are learning a new skill, especially when you involve the ground, you start slowly, and think about each step before starting to do action. This is important. It should be noted that we are talking about the front roll, not the air overflow.

Because the front rolling and side -by -hand turning may cause injuries, some schools are prohibited by this -this is the best example called "based on worrying" decision -making. The possibility of "children may be injured by rolling before completion" is too scary, and people dare not think about it. Therefore, the school often prohibits this activity instead of how the teaching students complete it safely.

Rolling forward is rolling forward. In this process, your back will be touched on the ground. There is only a hand to touch the ground with the side, and the air overflow will not touch the ground except for the feet.

03

Boil water in the paper cup

guide

The most important thing in this attempt is to choose a paper cup without plastic outer membrane and flat bottom. If you can't find it, you can try to make a box by yourself and use wax paper. Choose a natural gas stove or electric furnace, the induction cooker does not work.

1. Formulate plans. Before opening the stove, you must first think about where to put the paper cup on the stove. Put the cup steadily, don't shake, place it vertically. The bottom of the cup should be exposed to the flame or heating coil to heated quickly. If the furnace does not support the cup well, a metal filter can be placed on the furnace as a stable platform.

2. prepare. Pour 3/4 of the water in the cup and place it on the hottest place on the stove.

3. heating. Open the switch of the stove to the maximum, and use the highest level to heat it rapidly. If the paper cup is soaked for a long time, it may collapse.

4. Waiting for the water to boil. In the process of burning water, the cup water surface will become brown, and may even burn it. Don't panic. This is normal because it keeps it low without water. As the water is boiled and evaporates, the cup will continue to burn shorter.

Now, there is a cup of burning, boiling water on the stove. How do you plan to take it down? There are several methods here: dried water until the remaining wet paper is left; the cup is shovel into the pan with a small shovel; turn off the stove and wait for it to cool.

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□ stove

□ Paper Cup (waxless)

Water

warn

The boiling water is very hot. If the paper cup is full of boiling water, it will be a tricky thing to deal with it. I suggest that after you start, let it continue to boil until the water evaporates, this may be safer, do not try to move the paper cup during the water burning process.

The precise boiling point of water depends on the height of the air pressure. At a height of 100 meters, the boiling point of the water is 96.7 ° C, which is 3.3 ° C lower than the boiling point on the sea level -this surprised the chef. The water will boil at 100 ° C or below, but the paper will not burn until nearly 260 ° C.

In most cases, you cannot allow the water temperature to exceed 100 ° C, because the speed generated by water vapor is exactly equivalent to the speed required to take away the heat from the water, so the water temperature will never exceed the boiling point. This process is called "phase change. "". Because the boiling point is lower than the burning point of paper and wood under the current situation, the water is used to extinguish many types of fire.

However, water and other liquids can become "overheated" in the microwave oven. In this rare case, during the heating process, the tension on the surface of the water prevents the normal formation of bubbles. As a result, it will cause a dangerous situation. If the container is knocked or moved, it can cause water or other liquid to boil instantly.

Gas stoves can be used to burn propine or natural gas. Although the burning points of both gases are about 589.4 ° C, calculated at the same volume, the combustion efficiency of propane is more than twice the natural gas.

Every child is unique. Your child may be extremely excellent in one aspect, but it is clumsy in another aspect.

There are many activities in the book "Letting Children Do 50 Dangerous things", which allows you and children to decide what they can do now, and which must wait for them to be bigger or more experienced before doing it.

If some things they can't do now, you can write your requirements on the record page of each theme. In this way, they can clearly understand your requirements, instead of repeatedly asked if they are large enough, high enough, or whether they can take responsibility.

When children need help, you need to suppress yourself to tell them how to do it.Of course, the situation is urgent and dangerous.On the contrary, you have to try to do what you do like a robot and become a powerful auxiliary force you need, but the most important thing is to let them experience failure and then help them understand the reason for failure.And how to face failure, even if this means starting again.You are a superhero, you have the right to supervise.Exercise this right wisely and cautiously, you will realize the surprise that the child brings you, and even surprise you.

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