"Women were injured by feet in the theater" follow -up exposure: It is enough to destroy a child to do this

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Not long ago, an angry thing happened.

On August 22, a girl went to the cinema alone to watch the movie, and her back row was sitting in a family of four.

According to the girl, half of the film was placed, and the 9 -year -old boy in the family of four kept kicking her seat with her feet, which lasted for 20 minutes.

During the period, girls turned several times to stop it.

What made her unpredictable was that at the last stop, the little boy's father suddenly kicked her chair, and the back of the chair fiercely stuck on the back of the girl, making her eyes immediately offered Venus.

The feet of an adult man can imagine how much it will be.

The girl told himself that this was really painful, so that she bounced from the chair.

The girl immediately confronted the parent, but the parents didn't care.

She was trying to cry, but she still endured a position and continued to watch. Think about waiting for the movie to leave the field and ask them to apologize.

But she did not expect that when she had communicated with them, she was not only going to apologize, but she was almost beaten.

The father not only did not have any guilt, but also rushed from the long distance to fight a girl, and said to her fiercely:

"Do you believe me and slap you?"

If it was not stopped by the staff of the cinema, girls who were alone would be even more dangerous.

The girl said that the child's mother had always abused her in the process.

Seeing in the surveillance of the cinema, when his father rushed over at the beginning, his mother stopped him;

But in the back screen, the child's mother also rushed to the girl, pointing at the girl arrogantly, and at this time the child's father was pulling her.

I have to say, a bit funny.

The two sides could not dispute, and the family of four went away.

The girl immediately called the police and conducted injuries. The diagnosis result was head injury.

But after returning home, she was unwell, and there was a temporary coma, and the headache eyes were accompanied by vomiting symptoms.

On August 24, she went to the hospital for an emergency. The diagnosis showed that she had the possibility of brain shock.

Subsequently, the incident has been dealing with it. The latest follow -up on the 26th, and the child's father was detained by administrative detention.

The entire process of the cinema, the two children of the couple are in their eyes.

It is said that parents are the best teachers of their children. I do n’t know what the two children have learned from it in this dispute ...

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The girl said on the social platform, and she said at the end:

"Parents of bear children, don't treat your children as the Sword of the Fang Fang in public in public. You can tolerate your own children's stubbornness, we can't."

This sentence reminds me of a complaint letter from the Guangdong Museum.

The letter complained that the staff had too much control, so as not to eat in the museum, and not let the children run.

"Don't let your child liberate the nature!!! What happened to run, what happened to the dinosaur! !!! No !!!"

He asked even more straightforwardly: "Isn't the audience God? Children aren't it?!"

Parents think so, can he still expect him to regulate the behavior of his child?

Children are the "photos of the demon mirror" of the parents.

Children's behavior can also see the quality of parents.

A speechless incident also occurred at the Gulomao Site Museum in Kaifeng, Henan.

The scenic spot was closed that afternoon, but the parents of the child were not relieved, and the children were encouraged to climb the city walls of the museum and forcibly enter the scenic area.

He even happily took a picture of the children who climbed the wall with "brave".

The security guards on the side couldn't stop at all, and I could only sigh helplessly:

"How do you teach children like this?"

Some time ago, children were noisy and screaming in the high -speed rail.

The uncomfortable passengers stepped forward to discourage, but they were scolded by the children's parents.

The child's grandma said, "I didn't pay attention to the child's voice so high, you go to the police."

The child's mother said:

"Sorry, I can't control him, I can't control it, can the child control, the three -year -old child can't understand the reason."

"You really have a problem, you don't have a child in this life, you have to be brought to you to have a child."

The child on the side is even more strange to yin and yang: "You are the first time you take the high -speed rail, then I forgive you."

Netizens said, what kind of family educates and what kind of children, it is not surprising.

Yes, it is obviously that their children have done something wrong, but these parents do not ask right or wrong.

In the end, the public anger of many passengers in the carriage was stopped in many accusations, and the family stopped.

In life, there are too many parents. They have no pride in their children's bottom lines and do not feel that they are wrong.

If you have something to do, "He is still a child", a pair of "I can't control the child, what can you do if you can take me".

However, it is the most basic obligation to raise and teach it for parents.

Parents take away everything with "children's small", not only irresponsible, but also harm their children.

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Also take the children to take the high -speed rail, some parents have a way to make their young children quiet and not disturb other passengers.

For example, this lady, he was worried that his child would disturb other passengers, so he took out the projector and put a silent movie for the child during the ride.

So, if you really have the heart control, how can you not control it? Professor Li Meijin has pointed out the importance of the child's early psychological support and the importance of the development of later behavior.

She said that in mental health, what really affects people is personality.

Its source is not the daily accumulation of knowledge, conscious phenomena, and emotional expression, but comes from early nursery.

Reading the Jun Tongjia Dictionary "934: Infacations" also mentioned:

Many studies have pointed out that the health relationship between babies and parents and caregivers is the basis of a good relationship between children in their lives, especially affecting various intimate relationships.

Li Meijin proposed that when the child was three years old, he must learn to say "no" to the child:

Some parents once asked me that the child always had to make trouble with me and threatened to jump off the building. What should I do? What can I do? This is the problem that parents have always used to. When the child was young, let him know that it would not work. You cannot solve the problem with trouble, and learn to compromise.

She gave an example:

If a child cries, you can hold him into the room, give him a small bench, close the door, and say to him, "Cry, cry, but you are wrong."

After the child was crying, he gave a hot towel to help him face his face, and asked him, "Cry? Still cry, I am waiting for you."

At this time he knew that it was useless to make trouble.

Li Meijin said, don't underestimate the three years old, no, trouble is a bad personality problem, related to cultivation.

All parents' excessive protection, infinite concessions, and blindness are pushing their children to a wrong abyss, getting deeper and deeper.

There are no bear children in good words to teach.

Numerous cases tell us: There are cultivating parents behind the educated children, and the bear children often stand behind unqualified parents.

To educate people first, let yourself be a person with a character first, can you raise a character with a character.

As Tolstoy said:

"All education, or 999 thousands of education is attributed to the role model, and the parents' own life is correct and improved."

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