At high temperature at 40 ° C, she left the baby into the garbage station. The reason behind her was angry!

Recently, a video has caused heated discussions on the Internet, and the situation of the baby in the video also affects everyone's heart.

The video showed at 1544, which was the time when the day was relatively hot.

A white woman in white hugged the baby on the sidewalk with a frustration, and then discarded the baby in a carton of the garbage station in the distance.

The woman stared at the same place for dozens of seconds, and then turned to leave.

We don't know what she was thinking at this time.

About 5 minutes later, the nearby residents found the child along the cry.

According to Mr. Qian, a surrounding merchant, the child was only six or seven months old. The highest temperature in Yiwu was 40 ° C that day. When the police took the child out, the child had a red face. Fortunately, the child is not a big deal.

"Mom, your marriage is not worth fighting with my life"

After the video was exposed, netizens expressed their inner anger and distressed their children. They unanimously called on the police to investigate as soon as possible and deal with it seriously according to law.

According to Yiwu Police's response, the mother did not discard the child.

The reason was that she had a quarrel with her husband, so she was thrown on the garbage station, and then took a picture to the husband, and she observed at the location of more than 10 meters from the carton.

Although she didn't go far, her actions were still incomprehensible.

What kind of stupid parents will you throw his child on the garbage station at high temperature because of his anger?

Doing this is not punishing her husband, but punishing this innocent young life.

Even though the mother really lived very well, even if the marriage of the couple really had an unsatisfactory contradiction, she could think of other solutions, instead of ignoring a small life.

Children have never been an adult's punch, nor is it the threat of parents and punishing each other.

Fortunately, the child's physical condition is normal at present. If something really happens, it will be no help to regret it.

In fact, such irrational things occasionally occur.

Almost at the same time, in Jiangmen, Guangdong, a group found a discarded baby in a trash can.

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At high temperature in summer, the child cried, his face flushed, and passers -by quickly called the police.

Because there were no cameras around, they were not immediately found those who discarded their children.

The Women's Federation responded that the parents' parents have been found, and the relevant departments will handle it according to law.

What we want now is that children can have a safe and comfortable residence in the future.

Some netizens speculate whether the parents of their children are unspeakable, but most people still feel that this is extremely irresponsible for parents.

Both parents, no matter what difficulties encounter, should not discard your blood relatives and flesh.

In just two days, the two babies experienced the same experience in the heat.

The trash can is so deep, the weather is so hot, and the child is so small.

As a child of the child, how can you bear the heart regardless of a small life?

In this world, how many couples want their children, but they want to be parents; how many parents have children, but they are unfortunately lost.

Although these parents have children, they do not know how to cherish care.

"Not everyone is eligible to become a parent."

There is no choice for children to have a parent or whether they can be born to this world.

Every child may have been fun by parents. "You picked up from the garbage dump", but I believe that no child will really be willing to believe that he is abandoned by his biological parents in the garbage dump.

What would they think if the child knew the truth in the future? Will it cause self -doubt?

Isn't me good enough? Why don't Mom and Dad like me, why don't you want me?

Parents with emotional instability

How terrible is it?

In recent years, there have been cases of harm to their children's physical and mental emotional instability in recent years.

How terrible is the emotional unstable parents?

On June 30 this year, a video of a man in Ningbo's beating young children attracted the attention of netizens.

In the video, a man kicked his son many times, kicked his son out far away, and threatened to get a knife.

According to police reports, the man's violent beatings were also caused by the contradiction between the husband and wife. He was out of control and kicked his child with his emotions.

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Looking back at the video, the man's posture is completely like treating the child as a leather ball, and he wants to vent all anger and dissatisfaction.

Faced with this loss of rationality, adults are still very scared, let alone a child of a few years old.

I can't bear to imagine whether the child will leave a psychological shadow after this incident, and how will it affect his future growth.

Most people do not take the influence of parents 'emotions on their children's heart, but more and more sad cases about parents' emotions are out of control and even cause children's death. It has been told us:

Parents learn to control their emotions.

On April 6 this year, there was something that was sufficient to make everyone feel sad.

A 2 -year -old boy was thrown down from the 14th floor's home by his biological mother.

According to the neighbor in the community, when the incident heard a loud noise, he went downstairs to check and found that a child was lying on the ground. At that time, the child had no signs of life.

The neighbors quickly dialed 120, and the children's parents did not appear within half an hour since then.

It wasn't until the police rushed to conduct a investigation that they found that a couple on the 14th floor were quarreling, and the wife's wife threw a 2 -year -old child downstairs. On the 14th floor, even if it was not a biological child, he couldn't bear to get this poisonous hand.

It is said that the mother is the most loved child in the world, but the 2 -year -old child is hurt most by his mother.

It makes people instantly cool back.

Parents

It is a long -term practice

"Smile with a heart" said:

"When you keep scolding your children, they will not stop loving you, they just stop loving themselves."

Children are the crystallization of parents 'love, and should not be the trash can of parents' emotions.

Parents should not be just a role, but a learning.

Nowadays, there is a major misunderstanding in concept: as long as there is a marriage certificate, you can have children; as long as you have the ability to have children, you can educate children.

Japanese novelist Ezaka Sakamotaro said: "

"The thought of being a parent does not need to take the exam, it is really terrible."

Think about it, it is true.

Every parent wants to educate their children, but no one has been trained before posting before educating children, and most of them are in a hurry to become parents.

We often define people who are the first to be parents with "novice parents", which means that parents are both a study and a practice.

It is "baby", but it is "parents".

Therefore, it is not only children, but also parents who need education.

Picture source: TV series "Please answer 1988"

Parents are not better than their children. They are by no means a parent, and they are naturally qualified parents.

Parents are the big behavior of life -long learning.

You know, the child comes from you, but it is not from you.

Although the child is with you, it does not completely belong to you.

You can give him love, but you can't give him thoughts.

You can hide their bodies, but not to hide their souls.

There is such a sentence in "Little Prince":

"All adults used to be children, although only a few people remember."

Everyone's life is hidden in the shadow of parents.

What kind of people will become, what kind of life will they have when they grow up, and how to treat frustration in life. In fact, they all stem from parents.

And how to love children correctly is the subject of every parent's life.

The following points, I hope to encourage you.

1. Learn to let go is a compulsory course for parents.

Beets when you are young are the way everyone may take on the road of life. It is not terrible to make mistakes. The terrible thing is the opportunity to be deprived of making mistakes.

The path of life is not only one correct.

Letting the child soar freely, he can find the sky that belongs to himself.

2. Emotional value is the adhesive of parent -child relationship.

How do parents define their children, and children will define themselves.

Those children who grew up under "strike education" can only get blows, not education.

The picture book "I'm not the perfect child" in Jimmy wrote:

"When I become different from what you look forward to, please love me, it hurts me, praise me what I was like."

In fact, accepting children's imperfections is the perfect education.

3. Parents' love is the armor of the child's life.

Whatever reason, children's rights should not be deprived.

Some people say that fatherly love is like an annual wheel, mother love is like years, the annual wheel rolls forward, and the years are silent.

The combination of the two is the year.

The complete love of parents is the armor of the child's life.

Because of being loved, even if the road is long, there is no fear.

At the end

Zhao Jie, a talented daughter of Peking University, said:

"I admire a kind of parent who gives a strong sense of intimacy when the child is young, and learn to exit itself when the child grows up."

The road of children's growth is long, but it is also short.

Because parents can accompany their children to walk with a limited time, parents should cherish this difficult but precious time, which is a long trip to mind and wisdom.

Not only do we be parents, we should know how to advance and retreat at many moments in our lives.

Finally, I will share with you a paragraph in "Before You Leave":

If there is a fate, you, my father and son, we will go together.

You have your life, I have my wonderfulness, you are not the standard of "good" in my life, and I am not the obstacle to your freedom.

We are just two passers -by connected by blood.

Light [watch], life is short, and each cherishes.

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