A pregnant woman claims "the daughter of the heavenly candidate to roll you to death" quoted: You look proud

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A few days ago, a "show off" caused heated discussion among netizens.

A mother who had just given birth to a child, saying that her pregnancy and output process were extremely relaxed, and they proudly called "the daughter of the heavenly election to roll you to death."

She listed several evidences:

There is no pregnancy throughout pregnancy, and there is no religion. The appetite is good, and the steps are as good as flying;

During pregnancy, only 8kg was increased, and 5kg was reduced 7 days after giving birth. It was restored to prenatal weight after confinement, indicating that the figure was not affected;

Even if it is not taboo, it does not affect the checkup;

The labor process is only half an hour, and the speed is fast;

After returning to the ward after giving birth, you can go out of bed and walk and so on.

Even because of the smooth breeding of breast milk, I boasted that I was "a little cow" ...

Many netizens have some discomfort after reading:

"Is this worthy of pride? What did pregnant women do wrong?"

"Self -proclaimed cows ..."

"What's so good about this, speechless."

"Because I can't get a shot, I can only roll this."

Similar these comments were returned by her without exception. In the face of the saying that everyone questioned the "self -proclaimed cow", her response was:

"It is not a woman at first glance."

ha? Is it in her logic, "Woman agrees that she is a cow"?

Furthermore, in the process of fertility, it is undoubtedly a very lucky thing to suffer much pain and smoothness.

But after all, this cannot be all represents all, nor is it possible to use things that "roll" with those pregnant women who have experienced "production of production".

Her complaimation not only exposed the shallowness of her knowledge, but also showed the lack of her consent.

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Once upon a time, Lang Lang's wife Gina went on a hot search because of her pregnancy.

"Gina's tire is as thin as a branch in June";

"Gina is 7 months pregnant, exquisite and girly, and the state is good." ...

Many netizens said "sour", "7 months of pregnancy are not the same as me";

There are also male netizens compared with Gina's pregnant wife, "so fat, don't want to touch you."

I don't know when, in the public sight, women need to become a "perfect pregnant woman", especially female stars.

"Zhang Ziyi took a photo of 36 weeks of pregnancy, and the collarbone was still obvious."

"Sun Yanzi is pregnant with slender limbs and charming clavicle ..."

Not only should we maintain a good posture during pregnancy, but also as slender and slim as after giving birth.

Huo Siyan and Da S and other actresses were pregnant and were mocked by netizens; Ma Yizheng returned after giving birth, and was questioned by netizens because of her chest sagging.

Every star mother who is pregnant with a baby cannot be spared. Once the pregnancy and postpartum photos are exposed, public opinion will emerge like a tide, and the mothers repeatedly look at it from top to bottom.

What is sad is that the pathological aesthetics of weakness, thinness, and sense of teasing are not even in front of pregnant women.

In this aesthetic, "comparable to girls" and "beauty like no pregnancy" are described as "praise" to a pregnant woman.

However, pregnancy is normally physiological.

However, maintaining a figure during pregnancy is reduced to the "need to control" pregnancy tasks. The less fat, the more proud, and still the anxiety of figure.

As a netizen said: "When the mother went to the ghost door, I took a trip, but you asked me on the way to go fat, fat, fat or not."

When did we only pay attention to how to be more beautiful during pregnancy and ignore the "difficulties of pregnancy" of expectant mothers?

What's more, people start to spine, compared with those expectant mothers who suffer more than themselves, as their own capital to show off, tell everyone:

"Look, how easy I am pregnant."

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In fact, pregnancy is a huge challenge to the body, mind, and strength for most women. Everyone should understand this.

Even a big S is a big S, and it took a year to recover.

The difference is that the little S who has given three children not only maintains a perfect figure, but also can lose weight quickly after each birth, and she has also published a book of weight loss. The team also marketing her hot mom figure. Idols imitated by expectant mothers in Taiwan.

But on a show, Big S bluntly said to her, "Don't harm people anymore."

She explained that it is normal for pregnancy to become fat, and it is a minority that becomes so thin after giving birth:

"You advocate this matter, so all women in Taiwan feel that Xiao S can become a girl after giving birth, and then their husband will say, you see why the little S has not changed after giving birth, and it is better, so they My wife will be forced to say that it will be like a little S after giving birth. "

We must face up to the pain and changes that may experience pregnancy.

As long as you search for related topics such as pregnancy, you can see countless pain experience during pregnancy.

In the early stages of pregnancy, dizziness, drowsiness, fatigue, loss of appetite or increased appetite, nausea and vomiting;

In the late pregnancy, 24 hours of uninterrupted compression, back pain cannot fall asleep, joint pain, psychological pressure, etc., all made expectant mothers painless.

Under the suffering of physical and psychological dual pain, it is undoubtedly a cruel requirement for pregnant women.

And women themselves should understand that fertility is a serious matter.

Women who have planned birth must correctly recognize what kind of fertility may go through to prepare.These are the "relaxed" and "thin beauty" advocacy of pregnant women distort our awareness of pregnancy, and even reverse the objective facts.

The fact is that everyone's physique is different, and women's posture is different after pregnancy. Indeed, there are some women. The body changes before and after pregnancy, and the pregnancy process is not so painful.

However, this innate difference cannot explain any problems, nor is it worthy of showing off.

You can be fortunate to be lucky, but you can't use this as capital, ignore the pain of others, and think that you have "rolled" others.

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