Frequent bite nails, 9 -year -old boy almost amputation!Use these 5 methods, let the baby bite

Some time ago, the University of Science and Technology wrote an article about nails. The parents asked me, and the baby loved to bite my nails. How can I break it?

Bite your fingers in children aged 3-10, some babies have quit and "re-enjoined", and some remind you not to change your nails to deform!

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The seriousness of biting nails may cause 3 problems:

1. The nail bed is deforming, and there may also be methylitis. A 9 -year -old boy torn down the thorn because of frequent nails, which actually caused bone marrow inflammation to be amputated.

2. Children's tooth beds are soft, and they will deform for a long time. The teeth may be incorrect, the jaw is protruded or retracted, which will make the face report.

3. Bacterial infection, the skin around the nails is broken, the fingers are prone to infection with bacteria, and it is easy to cause "disease to enter the mouth."

There is also a hidden impact:

Bite nails will cause decentralization of concentration, waste time+low efficiency!

It is troublesome after going to school.

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Therefore, many parents are very anxious, and various ways to find them make baby ring!

It is ridiculous that at this time, many institutions waited for the opportunity and proposed that "the nail bitter is because of the disorders, and you have to do sense training."

I have to say that some unscrupulous early education institutions are still very "perseverance" in cheating parents' money. They were pointed out that it was the sense of disorders of the scam 800 years ago, and they were still set on the nails.

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What is the fact? What causes the nails? How to quit?

In order to better understand the behavior of biting nails, we enlarged the scope of discussion.

In humans, similar to the behavior of biting nails, and: also:

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Bite, tear your lips, tear your skin, scalp, etc.

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Impulsion and repeatedly pulling their hair.

There are two main reasons for the formation of these behaviors:

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Consciousness, to relieve anxiety

Modern research tends to attribute them to these behaviors when children feel anxious, unsafe, uncomfortable, etc., and may occur.

Because bite and tear the nails to bleeding, the hair is bald, the scalp, the skin of the lip to the bleeding, etc. It seems painful to others, which can bring them strong happiness and pleasure to help them relieve stress.

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Things that lead to stressful children include exams, criticism, corporal punishment, and separation from parents.

In the comments with Kok University, many children appeared in northern children, kindergartens, and elementary schools. I guess they probably have to go to the new environment to separate anxiety.

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Unconscious, bad habits

If they do not realize that they are doing so, they can generally be classified as a bad living habit.

Today we mainly discuss "biting nails". To better solve it, the University of Science and Technology has dug it deeper. When will the baby develop this habit?

☆ Pathological reasons

When a child is severely deficient in zinc, iron, or psychological reasons, the child may eat some strange things, including nails.

The biting nails of this situation are complications of albumism, and they must first cure albonalism.

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☆ Curious, imitate others

Family or classmates have fingers, and children may imitate because of curiosity.

Preschool children like to establish a connection with the outside world by imitation, and they like to imitate people around them.

If the adults in the family have the bad habits of biting my nails and they can't quit, remember not to sting in front of the child.

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So if the behavior of biting nails has been developed, how can it be relieved or even abstaining?

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Guide the psychological pressure of children

The University of Science and Technology does not recommend everyone to use bitter nail water.

At first, most of the bitter armor water has been detected to exceed the standard. Furthermore, "baby's heart is bitter", you also use this pervert to force TA to quit this "fun", which may be bitter.

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When children have symptoms such as silence, uneasiness, anxiety, etc., we must communicate with the child in time, listen to the child's voice without interruption, or not criticizing, and criticizing it.

Communicating with baby is a thing that needs to be learned. We must learn to reflect on our parenting behavior, learn to observe the children's actions and ideas, and avoid negative and preaching.

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Eat less sugar and sleep more

Eating too much sugar will make people more unstoppable impulse; [1]

Sleeping too little will make people stress more. [2]

Both may increase the bite nails (the same is true for hair removal, peeling disease).

You can try to change your child's living habits, reduce the intake of sugar and sugar (including various invisible sugar), and help children develop sleeping habits of early bed and early getting up early.

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Understand the disadvantages of biting nails with picture books

Remuses, criticism, and hardships may arouse children's rebellious psychology and exacerbate the line of bite nails.

It ’s better to try the picture book to tell the child, why do parents do n’t want you to bite your nails?

Related picture books recommend "Little Goats of Nails", "Secrets of Bite the Nails", "I No longer eating hands", and the animation "I no longer bite nails" is also very suitable for everyone to watch.

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Don't let your hands be empty

Knowing the truth, you may not be able to quit your fingers.

Many of our adults also bite nails and scalp, because they didn't know the harm?

No, because these behaviors are really cool! It's really difficult to control! Picture source: Scientific family parenting original

Therefore, it is definitely not possible to teach children to teach children to reduce the fuse that causes such behaviors.

Avoiding hands from both hands is a good choice, such as:

When writing homework, let the child hold the pen with one hand, and the other hand must not leave the job book;

When you find that the child wants to bite, hand it to TA toys.

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Nails, nails

If the child is unconsciously biting your nails or you can't quit, you can try to wear a armor or stick a piece of nails for your child.

Of course, it is best to find a suitable method based on the child's preference:

Mother of the Universe:

My child loves money. I told him not to eat nails for a week, gave 100 yuan, persisted for 2 months, and quit.

Mother Lele:

My son especially likes a little girl in kindergarten. I told her son that Xiaomei did not like boys who bite my nails. In order to "true love", the son finally changed the bad habit of biting your nails!

However, the bite -biting behavior caused by stress uses this method to cure the standard and not the root cause, and it is best to do psychological guidance.

If the child really cannot quit, it is recommended to treat this habit properly to the proper tolerance of our parents and mothers without affecting the appearance, health and social networking. Most children will automatically quit when they are adults.

But if you bite severe and you can't quit, it is recommended to take your child to the hospital.

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