Call: Have you ever experienced "humiliated" experience?

Have you ever had an experience of being humiliated? —— Use some means (such as language and violence) to depreciate and suppress a person's self -worth, which affects the self -esteem of the other party, makes the other party feel ashamed, and feels very bad.

Human humiliation is actually very common in our lives:

Many parents inadvertently blurted out: Why are you so stupid? You have done something wrong. I want to punish and humiliate you. You are worse than others. I hope you know shame to make progress.

The teacher will also humiliate the student: Little C always remembers that when he was a child, he was selected as a good student. The teacher asked the students who did not vote on the podium one by one to tell the reason for Xiao C's unqualified reasons and became her nightmare.

But it is very hidden:

The party that implements humiliation is usually high power (such as teachers, parents, leaders), and often take the banner of goodness for you. People who are humiliated often agree with these claims and believe that they are their own fault.

But the humiliation does hurt the children's self, value and personality. They make themselves unconscious, or please, or internalize the cruel language in their hearts, and learn to attack themselves.

If you also have similar experiences, you can click on the shame that is difficult to say, and we will release it next week.

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