Single -parent cancer mothers want to give up treatment, she takes the initiative to ask for "temporary mother"

Wuhan Evening News September 6 (Reporter Li Qing correspondent Wang Fang) Single mother Zhou Dan (pseudonym) did not have a fixed work, with a 70 -year -old mother who was abnormal in spirit, and young girls who were less than 3 years old needed to take care of. Unfortunately, she was diagnosed with advanced ovarian cancer this year. When she decided to give up treatment, a employee of Hubei Cancer Hospital extended a helping hand and became a "temporary mother" to let her treat it with peace of mind. On September 5th, the third phase of chemotherapy is about to begin, and the "temporary mother" takes the "little daughter" home ...

Xiao Qianqi with two mothers.

Single mother brought young girls to hospitalization

On July 19 this year, 42 -year -old Zhou Dan went to the Department of Women's Tumor Department in Hubei Decele Hospital for the first time. Holding the admission order, she held her daughter to the ward for admission procedures. When she was told that it was not in compliance with relevant regulations, she was helpless and decided to give up treatment and go home silently.

On July 20, He Xiao, an employee of the Social Work Department of the hospital, heard about Zhou Dan. He contacted the women's tumor department and said that he wanted to help, but found that Zhou Dan had not left the phone number. She insisted on asking for many parties and finally found the contact information.

After the phone contact, He Xiao learned that 42 -year -old Zhou Dan was a native of Wuhan, from ordinary workers' families, with mental abnormal mothers, and a daughter of less than 3 years old.

Sissi accompanied her mother to get an injection.

Four years ago, Zhou Dan's father was diagnosed with lung cancer, and he spent all savings at home. He left them two years later. That year, Zhou Dan gave birth to a daughter, and started working before confinement. Because the family owed tens of thousands of yuan in foreign debt, in order to repay her debt, she worked more hard to work. When working abroad during the day, she could only throw her daughter and mother who was less than one year old at home ...

I thought that as long as I gritted my teeth, suffering would pass. Unfortunately, in March of this year, Zhou Dan was obviously found to have been detected for advanced ovarian cancer due to his abdomen. He traveled through several hospitals and had a series of treatments such as surgery and chemotherapy. The condition was still not very good. Hospital.

After listening, He Xiao's eyes were moist, and immediately promised on the phone: "You just treat it with peace of mind, I will bring you!"

"Temporary Mom" ​​cares for the child with love

That night, after the consent of his family, He Xiao took Qian Qian back to her home.

When I came to a strange family for the first time, Sissi didn't cry and noisy, but in the face of the enthusiastic hug of He Xiao's 5 -year -old son and a 3 -year -old daughter, she dodged them timidly; she also ate very little for dinner that day. While sleeping at night, He Xiao found that she was lying in bed silently wipe her tears with her small hands. He Xiao knew that she wanted her mother, so she gently held her in her arms, humming a song to coax her to sleep. Every night, He Xiao would accompany her to sleep with her and put on her favorite plush toy beside her.

Xiao Qian and "temporary mother" He Xiao.

During Zhou Dan's hospitalization, He Xiao packed the meals every day during get off work, took Sissi to visit, and left the mother and daughter for a few hours of getting along.

Because Sissi is a premature infant and poverty in her family, she seems much smaller than her children of the same age. To this end, He Xiao and his family bought milk powder and carefully studied the recipes, trying to strengthen her nutrition. When I first arrived, Sissi didn't go to the toilet by himself, and often pulled the urine in the pants. He Xiao bought the baby toilet again and taught her to use it patiently. Whether you go out at home or out, the whole family treats Sissi as his own family, let the three children play together, and share them with delicious and fun. Slowly, Sissi integrated into this warm family, and she also changed from her original silence to a small talk and a little fart.

Sissi's life photos in He Xiao's house.

He Xiao went to the ward to visit Zhou Dan.

Seeing her daughter's careful care by He Xiao's whole family, Zhou Dan thoroughly put down, and every day when she was admitted, she entrusted her daughter to He Xiao.

"Temporary Mom" ​​wants to help single mothers realize their wishes

When it comes to the future, Zhou Dan is particularly frustrated. She said, "I never thought that death was so close to myself! The child was still young, I hope to live longer and accompany her for a while."

Due to the late condition, it was facing a high chance of recurrence and metastasis. At the same time, the medical expenses also made her unable to do it -she did not have a fixed work and income, and a living room where the family lived was the last guarantee of the mother's pension.

He Xiao took Sissi to visit the supermarket.

He Xiao not only takes care of Zhou Dan as a volunteer, but also gives full play to the role of medical social workers, linking various resources such as civil affairs, communities, public security, etc. to help her solve the difficulties: ask for help from relatives and friends, open a single mother certificate, apply for special assistance funds for special assistance funds, , Initiate online fundraising and so on. He Xiao said: "I am also a mother, I know very much about my mother who wants to accompany her children to grow up. At present, I can do limited, I hope there can be more lovers to help her together!"

[Edit: Yu Lina]

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