Psychological Class 丨 The magical magic of Rosenteal effect

In 2022, the Chengdu Women's Federation fully implemented the "Family Psychological Health Care Year" operation, and opened a family psychological health network service column on the "Rongcheng Women" website and "Rongcheng Sister" WeChat public account. Four sub -columns in psychological exchanges, providing psychological health help and services to the majority of families by publishing psychological knowledge, case analysis, and expert answering experts. Let's take a look at this psychological class together ~

01. What is Rosen Talt effect?

In 1968, the famous American psychologist Rosentear and his assistant came to a primary school to conduct a test of future development trends, and in a state of praise, a "most promising person" The list was given to the principal and related teachers of the school, and told them to keep confidential. Except for the teacher, no one can know, so as not to affect the results of this experiment.

Eight months later, a miracle appeared: Every student who was on the list has made great progress, and it is better than before. However, in fact, Rosentear Satta had an authoritative lie. Because the students on this list are randomly selected. So what exactly has made the children's achievements have made great progress, and they are more and more excellent in all aspects? Who changed? The teacher changed! The teacher saw that these students had changed! It was the teacher's attitude when facing the student, so the child changed. What does this mean? This shows that the teacher's cognition of the child affects the child's cognition.

This is the famous "Rosentear Effect". This effect shows that whether a child can be a genius depends on whether parents and teachers can love him and educate him like genius. On the surface, this is a simple psychological suggestion, but in fact, there is a deep truth behind it. Many facts show that the formation of a person's ability and personality depends on the surrounding environment and the expectations of others. Because the child's mentality is not yet mature, the psychological control ability is weak, and the hint is strong, it is easy to be about the evaluation of adults. It is easy for them to believe and accept the judgment of others, and will internalize foreign evaluations into their expectations and judgments.

In the same way, parents' expectations and attitudes towards their children will affect their children. Therefore, if the parents think that the child is a genius, in order to live up to the parents' expectations, the child will go all out to improve himself. On the contrary, if parents pick their children every day, they always take out the disadvantages and say that they can easily make the child have an illusion in their hearts -I am not a good child, my parents don’t like me, I am not good enough, so in this kind of this kind of In the vicious circle, there is the phenomenon of "just say you can do it, you can't do it if you can't do it".

Rosenteal's experiments also revealed a deep problem in family education, that is: parents' awareness of their children, which affects their children's cognition for a long time.

When the child comes to this world, when he has different cognitive needs at different stages of his growth, if you are too much, the child is too deep and uncomfortable. If you are too late, you will be impetuous and lose yourself. Therefore, excessive direction and outwardness will cause children to have deviations and confusion about their self -awareness. And this has a lot to do with how parents look at their children deep in their hearts.

02. Suggestions for the family

Deep in the heart of the parents, what kind of person is the child and what kind of person often becomes! There is a lyrics, "I become you when I grow up." In fact, it is not that I have become you, but the self -awareness I have given me to me.

So in the face of such a deep logic and truth discovery, what should parents do to make their children truly become themselves? In the critical period and sensitive period of children's growth, how can they obtain true correct information and cognition, so that they are respected by their hearts, peace, success, and people in their hearts?

We can start from the following aspects:

First, in our own hearts, I believe that our children have their own unique and have the potential to solve their own problems.

Second, you can find and appreciate the children's flash point from the heart at any time.

Third, practice always appreciates and encourages children's eyes and language.

Fourth, parents maintain reading and personal growth.

Author of this article: Zhan Huiyuan (the National Women's Federation "Chinese Women-Experts Come" Special Lecturer, Deputy Director of the National Core Corporation of the Ministry of Education, "The Power of Home", "The Author of the Magical 108 Boss Parenting Class")

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Material Source: Chengdu Women's Union Family Department

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