Warm heart!The community helps the Internet addiction teenager who is lost ...
Author:Yalu River Evening News Time:2022.08.12
A few days ago, Ms. Zhao, a resident of Dandong, Liaoning, came to the sports community of Yongchang Street to talk to the staff about her recent annoyance, hoping that the community could help her.
Since the summer vacation, Ms. Zhao's son Xiaoyu (pseudonym) played games in front of the computer all day. At first she thought that the child did not care about the Internet class. Gradually, she found that the child not only played the computer during the day, but often did not sleep all night at night. Ask a few words, Xiaoyu made a lot of noise. Ms. Zhao said that she was old. When the child went to elementary school, she divorced her husband and took care of the child alone. In order to give her a good living environment, she has always worked two jobs to increase income. But now that she saw the child playing the game without sleeping, she was very uncomfortable. During the conversation with the community grid staff, Ms. Zhao interrupted several times because of choking.
The community grid member Li Yilin patiently listened to Ms. Zhao, soothed her, and followed her to communicate with Xiaoyu to communicate with her. For the arrival of the grid staff, Xiaoyu performed very politely and also cooperated in communication. When the grid clerk asked that he knew that he would be addicted to playing games on the Internet, and why did he do so, Xiaoyu first lowered his head and silent, and then nodded from time to time to agree.
In communication, the grid staff warmed the child's heart with sincerity and patience. Xiaoyu shed tears, and finally said the truth to the grid staff. When Xiaoyu grew up in a single -parent family, his mother gave him the best, but these were not what he wanted. He saw his mother's work and hard work, saw that his mother couldn't go to the hospital to see a doctor with pain, and saw that his mother was less and less time with herself, and sometimes she couldn't see it a few times a week ... When she wants to share with her mother, she is not at home. When she wants her mother to go shopping with herself and buy clothes, she is at work. When she feels aggrieved and confused and wants to talk to her mother, she does not answer the phone. Mom was still working overtime. The Internet is not the same. Some people have responded to chatting. Someone will be appreciated when playing games. No matter what they do, someone will resonate with himself. This is exactly what he lacks and most needs, and his mother cannot give him.
After listening to Xiaoyu's telling, the grid clerk called Ms. Zhao to the child and referred her child's heart to her. Ms. Zhao did not say anything at first, and when she heard half of it, she shed tears, and told the grid member that Xiaoyu has always been a child who has not grown up in her heart. Never thought that children would have other needs. "Now I know that the child who is not sensible has grown up and has become a young man who knows how to distress his mother." Ms. Zhao said that she would take more time to accompany the child in the future and no longer take him as a child, but instead like an adult. To communicate, communicate, and talk about your heart, you will try to enter his inner world.
A week later, Ms. Zhao came to the community with a large watermelon, saying that Xiaoyu started organizing the room after talking to the grid staff, cleaned the sanitation of the community channel channel, and used her skills to help the neighbors with her own skills of the computer. Fix the system and make forms. "That 'Internet addiction' teenagers are gone, and the obedient and sensible Xiaoyu is back!" Ms. Zhao said, now she knows that the child can cook, and now she can eat dinner made by her son every day when she goes home from get off work every day. Essence Seeing Xiaoyu's change, Ms. Zhao thanked the community grid staff.
Zhang Wei, Secretary of the Community Party Committee, said that care of minors has always been a very important item in the volunteer service of civilized practice in the sports community. In the next step, the community will normalize this service, and effectively help children who are "web" in their jurisdictions out of their predicament, relieve parents' troubles, reduce family contradictions, promote the construction of harmonious families, and jointly create a social environment of young people's mental health.
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