Life needs wonderful, death needs dignity!Anning treatment allows patients to face death calmly

"Captain of the nurse, 18 beds Hu Yan left ..." In the lunch break, I received a call from the nurse on duty and hurried to the ward.

Hu Yan is as detailed as sleeping babies. I held my wife and grandmother Zhou's hand tightly, gently covered Hu Yan's half -opened eyes and slightly open mouth, and wished "Hu Yan, you walked all the way all the way all the way all the way. it is good!"

Hu Yan's family came one after another. Although the Hu Hao family and Hu Yan had been fighting against the illness for more than 6 years, it was inevitable that it was inevitable!

At the same time, I feel more about the rationality, calmness, calmness, and regrets of their family ... Methodist arranged everything after Hu Yan's mourning.

Hu Yan was hospitalized many times due to cerebral infarction with lung infection, bedsores with infection, and infective shock.

In this assessment, the elderly have many places, large -scale pressure ulcers, infection, necrosis, pain, cough, difficulty breathing, irritability, etc.

Director Hu Dexi told Hu's family's condition, diagnosis and treatment plan and prognosis about Hu's family.

After repeated communication, Grandma Zhou expressed his understanding and said his wish: "I don't want to transfer the subject, try to alleviate his pain, and let me accompany him more."

On the afternoon of the "July 1st" festival, I was changing the wound to Hu Hao. Grandma Zhou's mobile phone rang. It turned out that the leader of Hu Yan's unit came to award the "Glory of 50 Memorial Medal in the Party."

Grandma Zhou said anxiously: "Captain of the nurse, cover the gauze, and cover the quilt." I was puzzled.

Grandma Zhou explained: "Hu Yan has a strong self -esteem, and does not want colleagues to see himself."

Greetings, greetings, awards, photos ... At get off work, Grandma Zhou told me happily: "The old man just finished eating a bowl of sea ginseng porridge!"

For more than 6 years, Grandma Zhou has been taken care of day and night, but she can't see the slightest boredom from her old man's face.

Grandma Zhou often tells us their love stories, work experience, their children, grandson.

I once asked quietly: "You are 77 years old, why don't you ask the caregiver to help?" Before I asked me, my grandma replied: "On the one hand, I want to reduce the economic pressure and spiritual burden of children, on the other hand The old man is inseparable from me, only I understand him. "

A few days ago, due to the severe epidemic situation, the ward was prohibited from visiting, and only Grandma Zhou could accompany him.

On the third day of the Tsinghua Line of the grandson, Hu Yan was emotional again.

I came to Hu Yan's bed, held his hand, guessing a lot of possibilities, he shook his head and looked at me and his wife with an anticipated look.

Grandma Zhou also looked at me with helpless, almost praying eyes.

On that day, I had to deal with it according to special circumstances. On the premise of meeting the relevant requirements of the hospital's epidemic prevention and control, Hu Hu's daughter, son -in -law, and grandson were invited to the bed.

His grandson sat down quietly, put his grandfather's hand on his face, and said slowly, "Grandpa, I exceeded the Tsinghua Line, I went to Changsha to take another cultural written test yesterday. I will go to Beijing for an interview next week. , I am preparing for the exam these days, Grandpa, you must eat well, treat well, wait for my good news ... "

At this time, Hu Yan listened seriously, so docile like a child.

"Eat fruits and candy!" Hu Yan's son -in -law came to the nurse station with a large bag, bringing good news admitted by Tsinghua.

After receiving the Tsinghua admissions notice, the sensible grandson rejected many media interviews. He accompanied Grandpa every day, gave food, feeds the water, and stroked his grandfather's hand to touch the exquisite admission notice.

Talk to Grandpa's future, ideals, and thank Grandpa, grandma, father, mother's careful training and guardianship, talk about the naughty and naughty past when he was a child, please forgive him to forgive him. Talk about what books and news I have read recently.

Every day, we can see this happy and warm picture.

Their family interpreted the four ways of tranquility (thanks, apology, apology, forgiveness, and goodness), the concept of the whole person, the whole family, the whole family, the whole process, the whole society) of the treatment.

Grandma Zhou told me: "On the day of my wife, meals were unusually smooth at lunch. I don't have to coax. After lunch after lunch, I walked peacefully and calmly in my sleep. There was no sign and pain." Of course, there was no regret.

The old man has no abandonment in his life, loves his wife deeply, has a filial piety, and the medal of revolution, no more successful than this!

Four days later, I received a letter from Grandma Zhou and told me that she was good. In a few days, their whole family went to Beijing and sent grandsons to Tsinghua to go to school.

Hu Yan's life gave us inspiration: life needs wonderful, and death needs dignity.

The ending care service (Anning treatment) is a basic right enjoyed by everyone.

The implementation of spiritual care will be the most effective way for patients to facing death peacefully and calmness.

There are always some diseases that we cannot cure, there are always some lives, we cannot retain. When cure is no longer possible, the hope of the beauty of dignity, comfort and the end of goodness is still there.

It is the responsibility of helping patients to "die dignity". We can only grow up in the practice of often helping and always comforting.

Give life with dignity and let love flow!

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Hunan Medical Chat Special Author: Li Weijun, Yiyang Central Hospital

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