Chen Daoming: I am a person who does not go to the crowd

Author: Insight on onetong

Outside the crowd, there are also clear love.

"Knowing the world but not the world, it is far from rivers and lakes." This sentence is used to describe Chen Daoming.

For decades, he has high morals and profound qualifications, but it seems that if he is left with the entertainment industry.

In this regard, he explained: As soon as people's hearts are chaotic, everything is messy, and they are willing to be lonely.

Do not go to the crowd is the best way to live alone.

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Staying alone is a maturity that pleases self. In Tie Ning's novel "How far is there", a girl is called Bai Da Province. She is a typical "flattering personality".

When she was a child, her friends teased her as a fool. Instead of being angry, she also cooperated with the performance to coax others to laugh.

At home, I never gave her a good look, but she was very fond of her brother.

She was sad, pretending to be careless, and more diligent in cooking housework. She only hoped that she could treat her better.

After growing up, Bai Da provincial talks three times in love.

In each relationship, she was good at her boyfriend, and she took care of them like a servant, and even made surprises for them.

However, her humbleness and obedience were in exchange for her boyfriend's neglect and humiliation, and three love relationships were abandoned.

In real life, many people are like "White Provincial", in order to integrate into the group and make a whole.

But Fushou is small and puts down, and often can't change the real respect.

Learn to get along with yourself and please yourself, is the sign of a mature person.

From 1993-1999, Chen Daoming should have been the hottest, but he was basically in a state of semi-retreat.

The huge fame and fortune made him breathless, and the Ah on the wine table made him feel annoyed. He did not hesitate to choose to escape.

Reject countless script invitations and pushed away the entertainment of the wine bureau. He returned to the study and traveled freely in the huge world constructed and appeased his impetuous heart.

When the book was tired, he sat down and played the piano, blowing Sax, pulling the piano, and the melodious music comforted the dry soul, and the spiritual world was greatly satisfied.

He said that after bidding farewell to the crowd, after returning to himself, his life was relieved, and the whole person was more comfortable.

During the 70th birthday of Chaplin, he wrote a poem to himself:

"When I start to love myself"

When I start to really love myself

I started to stay away from all unhealthy things

Whether diet and characters, things and the environment

I stay away from everything to keep me away from the true thing

In the past, I called this "selfishness" pursuing health

But today I understand, this is "self -love"

The color of life is not how many friends and how much praise received, but the abundance of the heart.

There is no need to find some people who are not three or not, say something that is not painful and itchy.

Stay away from the hustle and bustle and please yourself in the solitary place. It is a high state of life.

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Coolness is a soberness that adheres to his heart. Some people say that Chen Daoming is arrogant and does not understand human affection at all.

For those who don't like, he never caters, and he never avoids it.

When he appeared in "Black Hole", he walked in a house, and his face changed on the spot: "How can there be such a furnishings at that time, the taste is wrong!"

The director had to decorate the workers to reinstall it again.

When Zheng Xiaolong and Feng Xiaogang filmed "Beijingers in New York", Chen Daoming played the protagonist. After the crew set up a scene in New York, he said: After watching the script, he said:

"The plot is wrong. In the play, I am a native American Chinese who cannot use illegal workers!"

Feng Xiaogang hit his eyes: "Old Tao, the times have changed!"

But he still couldn't accept it, and turned away.

After the famous Chen Daoming, the film continued.

"Teacher Daoming, there is a show to invite you, you can see the script."

"Don't go, I want to take a break."

"Teacher Daoming, there is an advertisement to find you to take a picture, good money!"

"Don't go, I want to take a break!"

In the era when everyone desperately headlined, he maintained a rare restraint.

In my opinion, this is not indifferent, but insistence on self.

In "The Story of Qi Qi", Xiao Xiao said such a sentence: "The most difficult choice in the world is not the opportunity God gives you, but the choice that the devil gives you."

In front of the fork intersection, is it followed by the crowd, or is the road that is inaccessible? Different choices, the height of your life you can reach is also different.

In the early 1980s, most painters learned classical painting, but Liu Xiaodong insisted on "painting myself, my life, my time."

The mainstream painter circles extended an olive branch many times, and he turned a blind eye.

He recorded the daily life of ordinary people one by one, and launched a series of unique new works.

Later, with these paintings, he became a hot figure in the Chinese oil painting industry.

Smes said: "A person without self, like a boat without a compass, he will change his direction at any time with the change of the wind."

Many times, the life is cool, not in the eyes, pretending to be a posture, but always keeping a sober.

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Zidu is a kind of power to see the reality. Chen Daoming entered the Tianjin People's Art Theater to study and perform since he was 16 years old. Before he became famous, he had a long running experience.

"Today played bandits, played agents tomorrow, the Eighth Route Army ..."

He shuttled around every day and did a miscellaneous work. Sometimes the staff was anxious and was scolded. But he did not blame himself, complaining about the bad luck, but spent more time on polishing acting.

In the early morning of the crew, he watched it in the early morning; if no one played the play, he decorated two corners;

He carefully studied the script and recorded his experience with dense annotations.

Later, in an interview, he laughed and talked about the past:

"At that time, I didn't feel how pitiful I was, but it was normal acting. Everyone would have such a process. Temptation, the kung fu, naturally one day."

Ji Xianlin wrote in "Sadness and Houring": "Thousands of lights in the world, bitter joy and worry, ups and downs, except for self -crossing, others can not help others."

When is isolated and helpless, Hu Tian is useless to grab the ground.

In May 2022, the famous artist Qin Yi died.

Throughout her life, she was wrapped in fate and the storm was endless.

But she described it as a writer Huang Tongtong: "How many past things carry, and spend it brave and beautifully in a lifetime."

When Qin Yi was young, he was abandoned in the childcare hall. When he grew up, the first marriage was unhappy;

In the second paragraph, her husband was alcoholic, and his son suffered from mental illness.

She herself suffered from cancer many times and passed by death.

For other people, I am afraid that I have been bent bending the back of the wind and waves, but Qin Yi said:

"The pain of life does not erode my spirit. The depression is just a moment. I can get the strength from the pain."

She nourishes her soul with her career, fights against suffering, and keeps walking on the way of art.

Even at the age of 93, she did not stop. Write a movie as the heroine and go to the plateau to make a movie.

The gift of destiny, whether good or bad, she smiled frankly and resolved them one by one.

Life is alive, and the wishes of the world are the norm.

At a certain age, you will definitely understand that there is no real feeling in the world and no universal prescription.

The real strong people livelessly became their own ferry. ▽

Some people say that the road to wisdom must pass through three stages:

The first is the cluster period, respect, obedience, and imitating people who are stronger than themselves.

The second is the desert period.

The third is the creation period, and re -affirmed on the basis of negation, not because of a certain authority, but only because I am destiny.

Without catering, not blinding, and not dependent, you can be strong and stable.

Like a praise, stay away from the hustle and bustle, return to the true, and outside the crowd, there are also clear love.

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