"What happened to the 40 -year -old unmarried without a house? The second half of my life has just begun"
Author:One Time:2022.07.04
"Vulgar Female Development" swipe the screen,
More than once.
The first time was 2019,
That 40 -year -old, no house, no car, no job
Unmarried female Chen Jialing debuted for the first time,
I hit all women who are experiencing the same anxiety,
Won 3 major prizes such as the Golden Bell Award Best Mini Erad,
Douban netizens scored 9.2.
In the second season, Chen Jialing returned to her hometown to buy an old house and started a new life
Then it was 2021,
"Frequent Female Development 2" was broadcast in Taiwan,
With Chen Jialing's return to her hometown to start a new chapter, the difficulties she encountered also upgraded.
The new work breaks the curse of "sequel to rot",
Take 9.3 points in Douban.
Soon, "Frequent Girl Development 2" will be launched on the mainland network platform.
We interviewed Xie Yingxuan, who played "Chen Jialing".
Self -report: Xie Yingxuan
Edit: Bai Wenping, Hong Bing Chan
Responsible editor: Ni Chujiao
In the second half of life, Chen Jialing still has a lot of difficulties to face
When people reach middle age, a woman who is "unable to move" is ready to restart life. This is the story of the first season of "The Journey to the Frequency".
Chen Jialing, an ordinary heroine, was born in the 1970s. She was asked to sit in a sitting, standing and standing in the 1970s.
In the first season, Chen Jialing and his ex -boyfriend Jiang Xianrong were more like a roommate
Full enough boss, Chen Jialing resigned smartly
However, she was 40 years old but was defined as a "loser" by society: he has worked alone in other places for more than ten years without promotion, no house, no car, no deposit, and a boyfriend who has been in stable for 4 years. Then, then, then
With a seemingly brave determination, she returned to her hometown Tainan.
The story of the first season stops here, it seems to indicate such an ending- "Since then, the prince and princess have lived a happy life."
The heroine Xie Yingxuan
Xie Yingxuan, who played Chen Jialing, was born in 1979 and was almost the same as Chen Jialing. For 18 years, she is a theater actor and the main supporting actress. It wasn't until the age of 35 that she officially entered the performing arts circle, making movies and TV series.
Similarly, she has no marriage, no children, no car, no house, and even not much deposit for a while. Before getting the film, she laughed at her seemingly a "loser".
Chen Jialing grew up in a stumbling trip
In the second season, Chen Jialing will face the trouble of fully upgrading: how can she get along with her parents after returning to her hometown? How to carry out new jobs? Being pregnant at the beginning of menopause, should you leave a child? Who should my body be controlled?
The following is Xie Yingxuan's narrative:
Xie Yingxuan accepted the "one" interview
I am Xie Yingxuan, and also Chen Jialing of "The Journey of the Frequent Female".
If the template idol drama is concerned, Chen Jialing is certainly failed. Even the choice of actors, her face value can be called a failure, she is not good -looking. Generally, the heroine has a halo, but she does not.
We want to show their real appearance. Don't tell me that you don't pull your feet and dig nostrils at home. I believe that this character overlap with all women.
For a long time, Chen Jialing made a lot of courage. This matter is actually very realistic. In our lives, constantly making decisions or choices may be failed.
At the end of the first season, she decided to return to her hometown. Many people feel that she has a bravery and laid a directional decision for her life. But after making a decision, will her life live like a princess and a prince, living a happy life?
Life should be rolled at the lower stage. After returning to Tainan, she is bound to encounter other problems. So after more than a year, she took the second season. Chen Jialing was 41 years old, and she was a little older. The topics they were facing were completely different from before.
Menopausal signs appeared, Chen Jialing was informed of "ovarian function decline" by the doctor
One of the crisis is physical function.
At the age of menopause, there is a seemingly stable boyfriend, do you want to enter the relationship of marriage? Do you want to have children?
This involves body autonomy.
Regarding the relationship between women and children, do we have the right to dominate our bodies? Is there a right to determine the existence of a child? Chen Jialing had a lot of confusion in the process of deciding to leave a child and no child.
For boys, he will feel that when you decide this matter, he did not tell me. He thinks he has the right to know.
But for girls, the future she faces is actually completely different from her partner. If so, why can't women have autonomy?
Because of the child's problem, Chen Jialing and her boyfriend Cai Yongsen burst into quarrels
There is a line in the play: "If I walked into this house today, children are not there, would you think I was a bad person? All the processes of getting along before, because of this decision, do you want to reject me as a person? At this moment, I should be crucified on the cross, and you throw it with stones? "This big question may not be answered so far.
After deciding to leave the child, wait for the child to develop slowly from a girl's body. Many times, you have to give up your body that belongs to you, as if everyone has the right to tell you what you should not eat, how you should lie, and how should you raise it. Chen Jialing personally renovated the house
Parents often "do not please"
Another problem is parent -child relationship.
Back to their parents, they will excessively protect and interfere. How can we compromise and fight for them?
In the first season, Chen Jialing was looking for a new job, and her mother had a lot of concerns. But her mother had forgotten a little, she was getting along with an independent woman who was 40 years old. His daughter has lived in Taipei Metropolis for so long. Parents often have wrong cognition when they choose to let go and do not let go.
Chen Jialing and the meticulous father when they were young
In the second season, Director Yan Yiwen did a handling on the picture. When Chen Jialing told her parents, you really don't interfere with my life. When you have to control a sofa, she turns her head, and everything is the uniform that she is wearing Xiaoling in middle school.
I like that scene very much, because parents will always treat us as children, and we will always fight with them. Until they started to treat us as an independent person, in the way of friends, in an equal way to talk to us.
Yu Xuan's cousin married into the giants, but was violent by domestic
The relationship between Chen Jialing and her mother has conflict cold war and mutual support
When discussing women in the play, we are discussing from the perspective of three generations. She, big cousin, mother, grandma, the problems they encountered, and the atmosphere of the social environment, are actually different.
Later, although Chen Jialing was the protagonist, I actually hope that everyone can put some concentrations on the women around her to see how they decide their lives.
The crew group photo
When I was in college, a teacher asked us to write a letter. The letter was to write to my 35 -year -old, about the expectations of the future.
It is wonderful that after the letter was written, I didn't know where to go. However, whenever I happen in some special circumstances, it appears.
In the twenties, there have been once, and in their thirties, once again. Every time I read it again, like a space -time capsule hidden at home. The letter wrote that I already have a car, a house, a very stable income in the age of 35, making my favorite industry.
Now, I do n’t have a car, no house, and the house I live in is that I rent it. The income in the account is less than 1 million (Taiwan dollars), and I am still doing the actor's work.
Is it not good? It seems pretty good. It was actually going in the direction I was at the age of 20. I did not deviate too much from the track, and it was more rich, and slowly completed the list of things above the list.
After taking the film for a while, someone asked me to give some lectures. To be successful and inspirational, I don't think I am qualified to speak.
All my goals are very small, and there is no so -called Gao Yuan's dream. For example, I played a role today, as long as I do her. I want to cooperate with a director and talk to each other a few words. I don't care about other things.
Chen Jialing has the rich love from his family
I'm single now, I don't think it's bad, I never think it's single.
I prove that my professional ability has not disappointed my family. And always, I will not know about my good choices at the moment, but it is not necessary to learn what things are learned from each stage, and what kind of person's personality is not suitable. Just like the idols I like when I was a kid, it is different from the idols I like now.
I don't know what kind of objects will I hope to have any other people's 40s. For me now, the focus is on the choice of honesty. The person I like to understand is the tenderness of human beings, understand each other's needs, and can talk well. Two people can understand each other's difficulties or moods with a look or a physical movement. But this is what Xie Yingxuan, 40, may not be like this at the age of 50. People are always changing. The change is very good.
Chen Jialing and her boyfriend Cai Yongsen, two independent middle -aged people soothe each other
As for getting married or finding a person, my urgency seems to have passed.
Because I think the company's company is not for safety or exclusion, but to grow with each other. If we get along now, after 10 years, we find that there is no change in each other, or it will have a bad impact. We no longer need to be with each other, so we will separate.
Do you want to sign the paper? Is there that piece of paper, it is not important? The important thing is that there is a time to get along, and we must be prepared to be separated anytime, anywhere, and can maturely face separation.
Back to Chen Jialing, she has always been enviable to be brave. She dares to rush and is crazy. When I was watching this role, I was envious of her bravery that was not afraid of being evaluated.
This show is called "development", how do we become ourselves now? Is it because of the education when he was a child, or the entire living environment?
In Asian society, the development of a girl is the process of being evaluated. We have been restricted from childhood to big. How to sit in sitting, how to eat, how to eat, how to eat.
But Chen Jialing completely opposed this routine. She has been making mistakes, repeatedly, and unknown. Of course you can say that she is terrible, but I am 40 years old. When I want to break the evaluation and limit, I encounter this role. Chen Jialing gave me a little courage. Xie Yingxuan's ordinary living conditions, reading, listening to music, setting up the subway
In this industry, I will also be puzzled.
Why are girls always loved when they are youth? Why can a woman receive a mother after 40 years old?
It is not that we are unwilling to act as a mother, we are willing to try all kinds of possibilities. However, I will find that many characters are very vague. It seems that women of this age can be imagined, or high -end white -collar workers in the workplace, or hard work, and not so many styles.
But in the reality, you see Yang Yan, Yang Yan, who talks about the show, she is also a vulgar woman and a very special woman. There are also reporters Yi Li, and she has a personality on the show. What we see has so many different images. Why are there only a pale and flat 40 -year -old woman in the drama?
Chen Jialing's role, she is not a stereotype, she really relaxed me, delaying the arrival of that moment, and the moment when I was fixed in a typical character.
Chen Jialing ran away with her mother and cousin. Each female character in the play has her own unique luster
In the previous 10 years, my life was only work. So how I think of my value is often judged in the dimension of work to judge unsuccessful.
In fact, it is fear. What I want to seize, so I lost room for life or let go of myself and talk to myself. This is my current homework. When I think about it again, when will I be afraid? Where to go in life?
Xie Yingxuan and Wu Yihan, who plays Xiao Chen Jialing
A while ago, I talked to Yan Yiwen and wanted to write a unicorn. After talking for a long time, it has been put on hold.
I hope I can do it in the direction behind the scenes. There is no way, because you can't always be a waiting person, waiting for a script that suits me. So I want to start that step and become a person forward. Maybe I don't have the courage to be a director, then try to see the screenwriter first.
Choosing the sofa you want is a good day
Either Chen Jialing or Xie Yingxuan. The appearance of such vulgar women, I want to remind everyone that maybe something can be relaxed, and may not have to do something at a age. Also need to reflect on our excessive rigid imagination, let the woman go, and let the men go.
I recently discussed with some friends in the theater. It is better to find a house to live together and take care of each other. This is also a model of life.
So tell everyone to let go of it, we are stuck in the vortex, giving each other a huge anxiety. The people around them got married, and children who gave birth to children went to the next life task. But that is a social atmosphere, or an illusion, don't be scared by it.
It doesn't matter, as a girl, we don't have to pass such a path.
Some pictures are provided by China Television, Catchplay, Heaven and Entertainment Entertainment and guests
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