Congratulations to you, enter the 30 -year -old who is embarrassed

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I want to talk about a little old topic today:

30 years old.

The reason is that the female friends around me have reached the age of 27 or eight, and 30 is a blink of an eye.

When talking to colleagues, when I was just 20 years old, I mentioned that I was 30 years old, and I was still confident ——

"The female leader encountered during the internship, in her 30s, is the main pen in fashion magazines, and also opened a small bookstore. The family is full of tattered things collected everywhere, long hair, COS, carrying freitag, raising cats, generally cats, generally I do n’t speak, I have a lot of words, I have a boyfriend, but I have never heard her mentioned my boyfriend. I think I will be like this in the future. "

"When I graduated from graduation, I felt that when I was 32 years old, I should be the editor -in -chief of a magazine."

"I kept being single at that time, and I won't talk about falling in love, but I always feel that there must be a stable lover. Maybe I am a mother."

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In short, everything is better at 30 years old.

However, when we were getting closer to this age, many myths appeared.

A few years old and 30 years old, the reliable boyfriend still hasn't handled a few;

There is a small job in work, but there are still more questions than answers;

My friends' lives have entered the next stage. Only I still live in the nine palaces of my circle of friends every weekend.

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Can't help but be curious, what is the difference between 30 and 20?

Can't help doubt, will it really be good at the age of 30?

I thought of the Taiwanese drama that I had imagined 30 years old for me, "I May Not Love You".

The story starts with the 30th birthday of the heroine Cheng Youqing. Family friends and friends sent a blessing email to tease her "old old".

But Cheng Youqing said categorically:

"I don't oppose your 30 -year -old old age, I am old,

But my 30 -year -old is a climax of life.

Because this means that I finally said goodbye

Naive and ignorant, the pockets are flat,

Always have the mental retardation of men who have been cheated by men. "

She once perfectly consistent with the ideal 30 -year -old image in my heart:

Economic independence, freedom of thought, and sharp teeth.

Until when she was almost 30 years old, she saw the truth about the 30 -year -old side on her--

The old problem has not been resolved, and the new troubles are constantly.

You can't even say that you are decent, you can only say yes,

30 years old.

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The 30 -year -old glimmer of imagination is generally not 30 seconds.

Long hair shake, walk with wind, high heels.

As a result, after entering the office, he abandoned himself with a messy environment.

There are few highlights in the work, most of which are bland and ordinary daily life. For better performance, he was squeezed into the snapped auntie pile to maintain order.

From time to time, they have to seek people everywhere and survive the "project period".

After get off work, you must not be free for a moment.

Today, I have to deal with family relationships and enlighten my brother who quarreled. You have to send a bunch of gifts to coax the fun.

Tomorrow, you have to help the girlfriend who is frustrated to the love field again, and drink drunk and sit on the road to teeth.

There was no arrangement the day after tomorrow, and a person went home to tears in a love movie.

Then she learned one day that my mother informed the uncle and aunt in the community to find an object to herself.

All the bright and beautiful credit cards are overdrawn. The moment of refreshing is the moment when you swipe the card. After that, you have to put down your body and pay off the debt.

And more and more clear, most of your expectations will not be achieved at the age of 30.

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Love is also a game that cannot be cleared.

At the age of 30, I came back and forth in love. I can always find the traces of my lover in various gaps in life.

The fantasy of idol dramas has long been crushed, and her lover's ability has also gained a lot.

But it is still not good to deal with love.

Single younger, it is a problem that is difficult to solve--

Several of three differences, you will receive a wedding of a ex -boyfriend. The proposal is still loud, for fear that I don't know.

A blind date was arranged by family and friends, and the people they met were getting more and more crooked.

After a long time, the confidence of mature women has become more and more dull--

Although it emphasizes his maturity, strength, and bravery over and over again, he still defeats the real details.

It is really good to say that it is 30 years old and will never be deceived by men.

Turning his head, he would jump his feet because of the young colleagues who shouted his "younger sister".

Seems to be able to exude sexual charm naturally and be confident in your sexy.

Turning his head was changed to a whole set of sexy underwear before the date.

When you really encounter love, your mind is incredible.

When the 25 -year -old young and handsome male assistant NIC actively showed goodness, Cheng Qing persuaded herself again:

"People just want to do the assistant's job well,

Don't you like you. "

Obviously my face, I wanted to ask in my heart, do you like me?

But the mouth said:

"Are you lacking motherly love?"

Behind this is a lack of love, another broken heart-

Once you encounter injuries, he immediately deny himself from head to toe.

Even knowing that the other party had a problem, he returned to his ex -boyfriend over and over.

Seemingly clever, sober, seemingly independent,

In fact, I still crossed the river in the love of love in love. After 30 years of age, experience and economy became the capital in their hands, piled up the surface self -confidence.

But the tall building in my heart was still pushing down and rebuilding again and again, and it was not sure when to truly stabilize the foundation.

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So today's article is written for people who are confused about 30 years old.

The closer to the age is closer, the more you discover, the more you find it,

"Wait until 30 years old", it is really a lie.

Those "good" are very specific: there are indeed higher income, more emotional experience, and more courageous shoulders ...

But the uncertainty, uncertainty, and unclear in life still occupy a greater space.

The colleague of the female lead of the fashion magazine who will live as a FREITAG bag will be 30 years old at the age of 30. He is still carrying dozens of dollars cottage bags, and his mind seems to stay at the age of 25.

The colleague who felt that he would become a magazine editor now deviates from the traditional media, and has a new media river that he does not understand.

The colleague who felt that he was 30 years old should be enjoying the fun of being a mother, and so far he is still entangled in the unreasonable relationship that cannot be explained.

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At the age of 30, I became more affirmative:

I can't see the truth of life at the age of 30,

I can only see the wolf of life more and more.

The work is not connected, love is trapped in place, and the troubles of family and friends are more difficult to solve than one.

So I even think that the ending of "I May Not Love You" is "rotten" because it gives a crispy answer:

Cheng Youqing found Li Daren and the so -called "destined to live". They held hands, they got married, and they had Happy Ever after (happy to live together happily).

But every person who has struggled on a 30 -year -old life line will know:

There is no simple, direct, accurate thing or person that can become your lifebuilding circle. Whether it is a sudden "annual salary million" or the "Li Daren" tailored for you.

More, it is just the same daily as in her 20s. Still have to go step by step, closed.

There is no shortcut.

Is there really no benefit of 30 years old?

Of course not, look back, what you have seen and the people you love are all gifts, all in your backpack, you can give you a little more courage to face the problem after the age of 30.

This is the 30 -year -old brought to you,

The biggest surprise.

Writing: Turala

Editor: Ding Ding

The ancients said,

Thirty standing.

But if you can't stand for the time being,

It's not impossible to squat for a while.

Go step by step,

Once closed.

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