Why does the "Song Dandan -style Elder" who was scolded on the hot search, do you want young people to be unhappy?

Another old artist turned over.

A while ago, "Song Dandan suffocated" and rushed on the hot search, Bai Yun and Liu Mei filter could not save her being crazy.

Since the announcement of his retirement in 2020, Song Dandan has filmed a lot of variety shows, but each one will be embarrassed and suffocated by netizens.

I still remember that a few months ago, she was still circulating on the Internet when she was young. It boasted that she was the princess of the Beijing circle. "No wonder she thinks Yang Zi is not beautiful."

Why is the wind direction changed again now? How do young audiences have such an opinion on the older generation?

The name of Song Dandan's overturning is "Taohuawu embarrassed for 9 minutes" this time.

It happened in a variety show called "Fifty kilometers of Taohuawu". The scene was a group of celebrity guests to meet together. Repeat today and arrange tomorrow. I did not expect a serious intergenerational difference.

Song Dandan specially wanted to hold a bonfire party, because she felt that the party was a good opportunity to get closer to everyone and know each other.

So whether Li Xueqin was boring, Wang Suzhen played a round field, Wu Dajing proposed to hold a sports meeting, which failed to stop her from voting for the second time.

As soon as we said that we did not force the show, we said that we came to a female group dance, and finally expanded into a collective dance.

None of the young people sitting underneath wanted to participate in the Literary and Art Show, but their opinions and suggestions were suppressed without exception.

Only "Tuan Jianxia" Wang Chuanjun said, "I just don't want to participate, I won't participate", becoming the most enviable existence.

In just 9 minutes, a lot of resonance on the Internet can be pulled out and discussed alone.

The topic of "Song Dandan's suffocation" also appeared on the hot search, but this is not the first time that Song Dandan has been talked about by netizens.

As early as 2016, in the first season of "The Life", she took her son Batu on the show, showing a typical "Chinese -style parent".

In a total of 75 minutes of programs, Song Dandan was in front of He Yan, Huang Lei, Liu Xianhua, and a group of people in the show group.

After a while, Batu ate a lot, and he would not work after a while.

A golden sentence was born: I gave birth to a waste, but the waste had to be used.

The characteristics of her love for "holding the party" also appeared in this episode. After dinner, the CUE people came out of the show. First, Huang Lei "You sing a song", and finally evolved into the chorus "Heartfire".

But in that year, Song Dandan had not yet waited for the embarrassing painting, making her a variety show that made her embarrassing synonym.

You must know that the program setting of "invites 15 guests to live together for 21 days" itself is embarrassing. 15 people come from various fields and have their own habits. It is impossible for everyone to be familiar with each other. Familiar process.

However, in the first episode, Song Dandan stepped from "know but unfamiliar" to relatives who urged to marry.

Either caught you and ask if you find the object, or you want you to say what you have.

Guo Qilin and Wang Suzheng are still face -to -face, and they will constantly insert the subject and cut off the topic. When Zhang Han and Wang Chuanjun are not cooperated with it.

It can be said that Song Dandan has caused a lot of resentment, and how much the young guests under her hands resonated.

Because this "big family" role may be our mother or our leadership in life.

Xiaoning is a survivor of strike education. It is difficult for her to hear a praise from her parents since she was a child.

"I took 90 points, and the" encouragement "I got was 95 points for the next time; the next time I took 95 points, I would be asked why I didn't get 100 points, where did I lose points?"

Even though she has entered the society now, there is no such unified standard for scores, and she still cannot meet her parents' expectations.

Xiaoning felt that her parents were far from "looking at women into phoenixes". They were "looking at women into the universe invincible first phoenix". They always had higher requirements waiting for her, and also involved all aspects.

In terms of work, evaluate her salary, post and company;

In terms of marriage, love, reminding marriage, and giving birth to children's one -stop;

Even when talking about the future of having children, her mother would abandon some of her parenting theories.

Therefore, Xiaoning usually completes KPI, and has to complete the rising family OKR.

"They are just doing my Lord, and some things must be done according to their intentions. This is a habit. If I refuse and resist, it will be like Song Dandan facing Wang Chuanjun and wide eyes. Attending, this time I will be soft again. "

So many times, Xiaoning adopts silent resistance and delay, and does not propose a contradiction between parents and her.

Under the hot search topic related to "Song Dandan's embarrassment", some netizens said: "This suffocating environment is actually not made by Song Dandan, it is jointly made by all those juniors who do not speak."

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But Xiao Wang, who has experienced such a workplace environment, said that it is really difficult to say such a leader.

The team she once worked has a leader of Song Dandan+Huang Xiaoming. She also has intergenerational differences with her post -95s. Each meeting must be transferred with his will, and she likes to create a superficial democratic atmosphere.

A colleague of Xiao Wang is patience, trying to achieve the goal of leadership and achieve the standard of leadership. As a result, after working overtime, after a few nights, the work is still not recognized. Finally, at the weekly meeting Scolded the table while patting the table. The leader was furious at the meeting and fired the employee on the spot.

Xiao Wang claimed that there was something straightforward. At another departmental meeting, there was a dispute with the leader about one of her own work, and directly rejected the leader to pointed at her professional scope.

So what is the result of this conflict?

Although the leader went on the spot with a loss, she was slowly excluded from the team decision circle. Don't think about promotion, and he was interviewed by the team leader. Essence

"Of course, the juniors can say something straight, but that is based on the predecessor and respecting you, otherwise you will pay some price, and it is also said, especially in the workplace." Xiao Wang said.

Why does "Taohuawu 9 minutes" cause a lot of discussions because many people are familiar with this environment, such elders or leaders.

Everyone envious Wang Chuanjun dare to refuse, but everyone is Li Xueqin, so he can only pump his mouth.

The intergenerational differences between the elders or the seniors and the juniors are too strong in the older generation, or do they have something to say?

I have to say that whether it is the older generation or young people, many people are asking for a tacit understanding in the process of socializing, that is, I don't understand, and you should be able to understand the voice of my string.

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Just like countless old TV dramas in recent years, we can't praise the lines well. Everything is selfless, while asking everyone in the real society to say something straight.

I believe that many young people have been abandoned by the elders at home, and "don't understand" and "not sensible", so the information you receive is that the words cannot be said, but you have to understand, especially with the elders or older seniors. when.

And most of the reason for most young people will follow the older generation, that is, elderly people usually have more power.

Just like Song Dandan in this embarrassing 9 minutes, although she was not a "dock", she was just a "big family", but she had the final right to speak with her age and years of achievement.

She does not really respect the opinions of young people, so what she wants to do in the end can still be achieved, at most it is just an individual like Wang Chuanjun withdrawing.

Especially in the workplace, "something straightforward" usually means "head iron" or "thorn head". Unless there is strong personal competitiveness and irreplaceability, when it is mentioned by colleagues and leaders It means long.

In a company, the leader has the right to determine your future in this company, and although you have the right to decide your own future, you can want to be the "workplace man", which means that your future is no longer in this company It is because colleagues sitting underneath may not even support you.

The battle for the right to speak is the truth difference between the intergenerational differences between the elderly and the young people.

The strength of the older generation was because he decided to hold his hands for too long, and of course he took his thoughts as truth.

And of course young people want to say something, but they can't ask them to be talked with their necks while being held by their predecessors?

Do you dare to say so much in reality?

But you can't make all the older generations of "bad guys", because they sometimes do bad things.

She still uses Song Dandan as an example. She always remembers that everyone is recording the show, that is, she wants to play a good show to make the audience in front of the screen happy, so she will say what you will do.

It's just that the times have changed. The "good show" she thinks is not a thing that the "good show" that the audience wants to watch.

Now a group of celebrities are watching with melon seeds

"The times are ours and you are, but after all, it is you."

The conflict and differences between the two generations will never stop. The generation passes away, the one generation is upper, and then there will be a new generation to challenge them and reciprocate.

At this moment, the Song Dandan we laughed at at this moment, all the frictions that happened with older relatives or leaders, were just the pain of our generation to compete for the right to speak.

Creation team in this article

Author | Chongzheng

Planning | Chong Shong

Edit | Chong Shirt

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