The scene of "Sister Lang 3" is exposed: your level determines your social circle

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Previously, "Sister Lang 3" released the latest issue, and the upgraded new game system made the show more exciting.

According to the new competition system, my sister will re -form a team to form a fixed group of 5 people and sprint the game behind.

The principle of the team formed is to be carried out by the team captain for a limited time.

In the show, the "grabbing" scene of the captains and sisters made people feel impressive.

One of the favorite objects of the captain Tan Weiwei was Xue Kaiqi, so she was trying to recruit the opponent into her team.

The reason is also very simple. In the previous performance, Tan Weiwei found that she was a person who could constantly adjust and improve when rehearsing.

In order to successfully let Xue Kaiqi join the team, Tan Weiwei sent a team member who had joined his team to take the initiative to attack the "grabbing" as soon as possible.

Captain has the favorite, and naturally he also has the favorite captain.

Freedom member Zhao Meng's favorite among the 5 captains is Tan Weiwei, who is more prominent in all aspects.

When Tan Weiwei sent a team member to "grab" Xue Kaiqi, Zhao Meng just sat next to the two. When she heard the planning of the Tan Weiwei team without herself, she lost her face.

In the end, she could not choose to take the initiative, she could only retreat to her second choice.

This scene must not make people feel the cruel truth of the social world.

I remember Teacher Fan Deng once said:

"If a person wants to mix into a seemingly closed circle, the most effective way is not to give giving gifts to dinner at all, but you do things.

When you see things, you can naturally enter this circle. "

The so -called upper socialization is actually just your ability.

When you have enough strength and can be fully displayed, you have the opportunity to integrate into the seemingly high social groups.

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After the college entrance examination, the college entrance examination scores were released, and many Xueba also frequently received the competence of prestigious schools.

A candidate in Lishui, Zhejiang, has a score of 698 in this college entrance examination, which can be described as a super high score.

Candidates' father stated in an interview that their local exams were conducted in two times. After the first exam, the teachers of Peking University paid attention to their children. Before the second test score was released, Peking University admissions teachers were even more advanced in advance I came to the house and talked for more than an hour.

Coincidentally, on the afternoon of the results of the results, Tsinghua's enrollment teacher also contacted the candidate's father, and hoped that the other party could consider Tsinghua.

Similarly, a candidate from Xiangyang, Hubei scored 691 points.

What made people unexpected was that at 3 o'clock in the morning, Tsinghua's admissions teacher called his parents, expressing the school's strong want to recruit him.

As the two top schools in China, how many students are the students of Tsinghua University.

But the fact is that as long as you are high enough and dazzling enough, you can choose them freely.

Rona Byan said in "Power":

"Everyone has a magnetic field around. No matter where you are, the magnetic field will follow you, and your magnetic field also attracts people and things with the same magnetic field."

In this world, it is not important to know who you know, and the important thing is who you are.

The maximum capital of the upper social is your ability.

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Ni Hongjie, the actor of Wushuang in "Wulin Wai", has personally experienced an unusual experience.

After the TV drama version of "Wulin Wai Biography", the staff then prepared to shoot the movie version.

When the movie version gathered in the original class, when Ni Hongjie arrived in the crew, he also thought that as before, everyone could eat a meal together after receiving work.

But what made her unexpected was that in just 4 years, many things became different.

Until the movie was killed, no one had gathered meals.

Ni Hongjie said with choke and said:

"I thought everyone would make the same play as the original, but they became very busy, and the gap became bigger and bigger.

It turns out that the special family has become a bit alienated. In some small things, there will be some competing companies.

Looking at them, I am very uncomfortable and I feel that the world is very realistic. "

In the entertainment industry, which is indispensable for popularity and traffic, it reflects the cruel social.

When everyone is at the same level, they can eat and drink together; when everyone's level starts to differentiate, when the levels start to be different, the so -called "friendship" will only die with the wind.

Written in "Minimalism":

"When you don't reach a higher level, the connections are worthless. Remember, the connections are not pursuing, but attracted.

Only the equivalent exchange can get reasonable help. Although it is cruel, this is the truth. "

The social interaction of adults is mostly realistic.

If you are not in the circle, no matter how pleased it, you will not be integrated after all.

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Have seen a story.

A young man went to the streets to buy bowls. After arriving in the store, he picked up a bowl and then gently hit it with other bowls.

When he heard the turbid and dull sound made by the bowl and the bowl, he always shook his head and tried the next bowl disappointed.

But what made the young man depressed was that he tried all the bowls in the store, but none of them satisfied him.

The boss on the side asked the young people.

The young man told the boss in the store without any concealment that he learned a skills of picking a bowl from an elder.

That is, if a bowl touches with the other bowl, if the sound of the sound is crisp and pleasant, then it means that it is a good bowl, otherwise it is not a good bowl. After listening, the boss suddenly realized that he re -handed a bowl to the young people, let him knock on it, and tell him that he would find a satisfactory bowl.

Young people are a little puzzled, but they still do it.

Sure enough, the bowl he took in his hand quickly hit a brisk and pleasant sound.

The young people didn't understand, so they asked the boss.

The boss laughed and said:

"The reason is simple. The bowl you started at first was a second product.

You use it to try the bowl, and the sound you get must be turbid.

You want to get a bowl, the premise is that the one you take is also a good bowl. "

After listening, the young people suddenly opened up.

Writer Lian Yue said, "Don't worry about you have no connections, you must worry about your growth."

The so -called upper socialization is really not working hard on others, but to work hard on themselves.

Many times, society is like a cone, and everyone climbs to the top of the cone on the surface of the cone.

The distance between you and people in different fields is the radius of the plane round.

Only the higher your level and the closer to the top of the cone, the shorter the distance you can contact people in other fields.

On the contrary, if your ability and status are not worthy of your ambitions, all your social interactions are just useless.

Remember: your level determines your social circle. If you are in full bloom, the butterfly comes.

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