"Guo Jingjing was crowded out by the lady in the port circle?": Wake up, what kind of giants to marry!

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Recently, a hot search of "Guo Jingjing's collective rejection of the lady in the Hong Kong Circle" is very attractive.

The reason is that in a group photo of the Hong Kong "Lady Sky", everyone did not see the giant daughter -in -law Guo Jingjing.

In this photo, many hundreds of billions of ladies including Xu Ziqi, Li Zi, and Li Jiaxin were included.

They are either a wealthy daughter -in -law or a rich N generation. It can be said that everyone here is either rich or expensive.

These wealthy ladies, their daily life is to open Party and attend various celebrities.

This party is also properly a feast of giants.

However, there was no Guo Jingjing in such a feast, so it began to spread online: "Hong Kong's lady circle collectively rejected Guo Jingjing" ...

But is this really the case?

Guo Jingjing, who doesn't see the trace in the photo, what's the way?

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Guo Jingjing, who was not in the photo, was busy walking away after the child was going to school.

The media also made a news about this: "Kuota Guo Jingjing climbed the mountain photos, and sweat the skin red."

She looked good and shared some photos along the way and her hiking path.

At about 1 hour, she shuttled 6 kilometers in the mountains. It was indeed a athlete.

Over the years, Guo Jingjing has been regarded as the most typical giants.

As we all know, she has always been frugal and was photographed by Hong Kong media that "wearing five cents with five cents and a piece of clothing for many years."

Huo Qigang also exposed himself, saying that Guo Jingjing would give him the stars he had folded by himself, and he was preserved so far.

This is obviously very different from the celebrities who like luxury.

In the face of the media Guo Jingjing's saying, Huo Qigang also responded:

Many things, she is casual and indifferent. Her son is picking up and school, and many things are not the image of young grandma who are projected by social projection. She is definitely not willing to do so. It is a very hard thing to be athlete, so she has a lot of things to do it by herself now.

In Guo Jingjing's life, he did not treat herself as "young grandma".

For example, during the military parade, other ladies memorized the brand bag, Guo Jingjing was carrying the cabbage price of cabbage, and the hair circle with 3 yuan was made;

For example, you will buy the clothes of 20 Hong Kong dollars for your son on the side of the road;

For example, when moving, it is also self -dedicated.

Do not be proud of the Jinyi jade food, nor embarrassment or embarrassment because of the roadside stalls on the side of the consumer street, always confident and generous.

All of this is because she has enough confidence.

As Guo Jingjing himself said, "There are many giants, but there is only one champion."

A person who has a strong and confident bones will not follow the waves, pay too much attention to the eyes and evaluation of others, and be able to be brave and free to be yourself.

03

Do you remember Zhou Lanjun, a girl who "only married 50 million rich two generations"?

Eight years ago, Zhou Lanjun believed that his excellence had to match the rich second -generation rich second generation with a net worth, and his performance in the show was criticized. Of course, the blind date ended in failure.

Many years have passed, and 30 -year -old Zhou Lanjun has also grew up. She no longer has the obsession of "the second generation of the rich", but is working hard to develop herself.

She opened her own online company, intending to do her career and be a rich generation.

Today, Zhou Lanjun reads a few more books in his spare time, practicing various skills, cultivating sentiment, drawing, swimming and tea art, and so on.

Zhou Lanjun in the eyes of everyone is already a gentle and generous and exquisite girl.

Her brand new transformation made people completely associate her that she was a strange female college student who had a lot of words on a blind date show many years ago.

Today, Zhou Lanjun also proves us a truth that if you want to get and achieve, you still have to rely on yourself.

Just as the intensive reading of the Juntong dictionary "184: Independence" said:

"The so -called freedom is not as you want, but self -domination."

Those who want to pursue freedom and self -realization must improve their independence and so as to dominate their own lives.

Guo Jingjing is like this. Even if she marries into the giants, she will not be restrained.

Because she has the strength to refuse something she does not want to do, she can focus on her life and live her life.

04

There is a popular question on Zhihu: "Will the rich second generation look at the poor girl? What do those who want to marry into the giants finally think?"

A respondent shared his true encounter.

She and her husband are also a combination of rich second generation and poor daughter, but after giving birth to a child, her husband was derailed.

When she was found, her husband would apologize to her, saying that she had broken with the other party.

But later I learned that this was actually a perfunctory word that spoke verbally.

The respondent said that she would leave without hesitation before, but her eight -year marriage life made her lose this courage.

She did not work at home to bring children, and she lived on her husband's income, and had lost her capital that could be discussed with him.

The story of Cinderella and the prince in fairy tales always usher in a happy ending, but in reality, it is often living in the value of others, often falling into two slaps.

In this topic, there is another answer:

"I can see it, but what I see is not an ordinary poor woman."

What is ordinary and not ordinary?

The respondent explained that the difference lies in her inner.

What they can see is at least the poor girl who is about to become rich women -that is, this girl does not have poor into the bones, and people are not short. In the future, they can do it with themselves.Yes, marriage is not charity, all relationships are value exchange, and love is no exception.

In the final analysis, whether it is material or mental, there must be one door to be the door.

Otherwise, even together, marriage may be reduced to a shackles.

Therefore, the ultimate point of love is never marriage, but self -growth.

Don't think about relying on others and marriage to change your destiny; don't give up independence after marriage and give up self -growth.

Real outstanding women never bet on marriage.They all choose to live themselves into a giants and enjoy their true love.

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