68 -year -old Wang Jianlin drinks cheap sugar water, wears cheap shoes: more controlled the more advanced

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Earlier, a group of private photos of Wang Jianlin appeared in the work occasion, which caused everyone's attention.

It turned out that this character that stood in the rich list gave a strong contrast image in reality.

On the same day, Wang Jianlin wore a blue shirt with ordinary same color pants, which gave a simple and simple feeling.

Some netizens found that Wang Jianlin drank a cheap sugar water that day.

Wearing cheap shoes on your feet.

It can be said that these details are huge differences with the image of the rich in netizens.

No wonder many netizens teased that if it wasn't for Wang Jianlin to follow other staff, it would be no different from the ordinary old man who met on the road.

As a figure in the business community, Wang Jianlin's wealth created is not worthy.

But in life, he has never been wrapped in material desires, but focuses on the way of life and work he really wants.

Zhou Guoping said: "As long as a person is willing to restrain his desire and satisfies a relatively simple life, the territory of life will be wider."

Unnecessary material desires, make life less decoration and more ideals, your life will live more advanced.

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Previously, Guo Jingjing's 75 -year -old father -in -law Huo Zhenting also flowed out online.

In the video, Huo Zhenting was wearing a blue jacket, wearing a baseball cap, and was very low -key.

After entering the mall, Huo Zhenting went directly to the area where the storage box was placed.

After watching a round of storage box, Huo Zhenting picked up two debris, and left the store after payment.

Some people probably estimate that Huo Zhenting's total cost of shopping in the store is only 300 yuan.

As a big commercial coffee, Huo Zhenting usually appears in high -end occasions. Now he personally chooses daily debris products in a cheap store, which is amazing.

Despite the storm in the mall, Huo Zhenting lives simple and simple in private.

I remember Chen Daoming said:

"I think that restraint is the greatest enjoyment of life. The release of material and the release of the spirit is easy, but it is difficult to control. Therefore, the highest mood of human beings is control, not release."

People who are really amazing never want to indulge themselves in the material desire. On the contrary, they believe that Su and Jian can make themselves live more to make themselves go longer.

In the final analysis, a person lives to the extreme is where others can't see. The more restrained people, the higher the more advanced.

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Three suggestions to help you control your desire and have a high -level life.

1. Understand the choice paradox

There is a test: a supermarket shows 24 kinds of fruit sauce. Customers can taste and discount these products at will.

On the second day of the test, there were only 6 types of supermarkets.

How is the result? The fruit sauce sold the next day was 10 times more than the first day.

The reason is very simple. When facing too many choices, many customers instinctively be at a loss. They have a delusion in their hearts: these 24 kinds of fruit sauce must have the best and most cost -effective. If the selection is wrong, isn't it a loss?

Rather than buying it, it is better not to buy it.

This is the choice of paradox, that is, happiness means freedom and choice, but more freedom and choice cannot bring greater happiness. On the contrary, the more choices, the less happiness.

In the age when food and clothing became a problem, our choices were very limited. There were very few dishes on the table. Everyone wore a few styles of clothes. Therefore, when we enter the market economy, after the material has shifted from scarcity to abundant, our happiness has been greatly improved.

It ’s not long before this day. Too many choices have produced new problems. The sense of happiness has not increased, but decreases.

Don't firmly believe that more choices can bring more happiness, appropriately do subtraction, and control your desire, you can be faster.

2. Be wary of the supporting effect

One day, a friend gave the thinker Didro a good texture, sophisticated workmanship, and pattern Gao Yajiu red robe. Didro liked it very much. So he immediately discarded the old robe and put on a new robe.

But soon after, he had trouble. Because when he was wearing a luxurious robe and walking around in the study, the more he felt that the desk was dilapidated for a long time, and the style was not right.

How can such things be matched with this beautiful robe on myself?

So Didro called his servant and asked him to buy a new robe with a new desk with a new robe. When the desk was bought, Didro looked at his new study.

However, he immediately found a new problem: hanging the flower blanket needle on the study wall was scary, and it was not supported by the new desk.

Dad Rome sent a servant to buy a new launch blanket. However, it didn't take long for him to find that the chairs, statues, bookshelves, alarm clocks, etc. all appeared to be uncoordinated with the room after hanging on the new tapestry, and needed to be replaced.

Slowly, the old objects were updated one by one, and in the end, Didro got a bustling study.

This is the supporting effect, which means that after having a new item, people constantly allocate compatible items to achieve psychological balance.

The story of Didro is the origin of the supporting effect.

Because the supporting effect is very common, many people have the following experience:

When I went out, I just wanted to buy a shirt, but after buying the shirt, I felt that it was not suitable for my pants, so I went to buy a pair of new pants. Put on the pants and feel that the leather shoes are not good, and then buy a pair of leather shoes.

Originally, I just wanted to buy the same thing when I went out to shop. It spent hundreds of yuan, but I found out that I bought a lot and spent thousands of dollars. In other words, the supporting effect reflects the "more and more insufficient effect": when people do not get something, they are very stable, and once they get it, they are not satisfied and need more better supporting facilities.

Adults dominated by the supporting effect will eventually only get deeper in the abyss of desire.

3. Do not give up self -implementation

Michelle in the United States, in the Apollo Moon Warehouse, looked at the beautiful earth from the universe to obtain a peak experience.

Suddenly, he knew that "the universe has its own meaning and direction. After the tangible creation, there is a level. The pursuit of human beings must be promoted to global resource sharing, and the world will be sustainable."

After Michelle returned to the earth, he gave up his space for space and devoted himself to the movement of the environment and ecology.

This is self -realization, that is, the various talents and potentials of the individual, which can be fully exerted in a suitable social environment to achieve the process of personal ideals and ambitions.

Maslow's demand level theory, from low to high, divided into 5 levels, the highest level is self -realization and self -transcendence.

If the needs of self -actuality are not met, even if the income is rich, and the success of the world's considers, you will also feel that the work meaning and life significance are insufficient, and from time to time, you will feel empty.

Therefore, putting the goal on the pursuit of meaningful life, you should find your own ideal ambitions and strive to achieve it.

The performance of the big pianist Hollowz is obsessed. He thinks that there is only one secret: control himself.

After playing the whole game, he had no extra expressions and movements, even without any fancy. But the sound of music seemed to be natural with him, listening quietly, and he couldn't help crying.

Horovz later realized: "I used my life to understand that the original is the most powerful."

Don't let your heart lose in prosperity and be slavered by things.

mutual encouragement.

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