Zhai Tianlin incident: Real kindness, with teeth

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The greatest misunderstanding of human nature is that as long as it is human, it is human and conscience.

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Let's talk about three things first.

The first thing is the finale of "Know not".

"Know not to know not" has finally been broadcast,

But the finale makes people cry a bit crying and laughing,

The decents have all left deep hatred,

And the big villains have turned their enemies as friends.

Molan repeatedly calculated Minglan,

But Ming Lan forgive her about the suspicion:

"We two, after all, they are a family."

Xiao Qin has repeatedly designed to kill the Minglan family,

But Ming Lan came to the end:

"Mother -in -law, I forgive you, don't think about it!"

..............

The finale becomes "Hejiahuan":

Although you have killed my mother,

But it doesn't matter, I can reconcile with you.

Although you have to seize my title,

But it doesn't matter, I can reconcile with you.

Although you have killed me several times, you

But it doesn't matter, I can reconcile with you.

Everything is quiet because of "forgiveness".

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The second thing is about actor Zhai Tianlin.

Zhai Tianlin's academic incident,

In the past ten days, he has not been searched.

At the beginning, he refused to admit it,

"I said I don't know 1+1 = 2 someone believes it."

But then he was revealed by netizens:

Lie in the college entrance examination,

Plagiarism of a master's graduation thesis,

Doctoral dissertation also plagiarized.

On February 14, Zhai Tianlin finally couldn't carry it anymore,

A letter of apology was sent on Weibo:

"I regret it, and blame myself in depth ..."

As soon as the apology letter came out, many netizens left a message below:

"Brother! Just apologize, we still love you as before!"

"I believe you are inadvertent, don't be too blame."

"Those who spray you are not very good."

But there are still many netizens who refuse to forgive him,

"A lightly fluttering letter is over?"

"No matter how you apologize, you must be punished."

Therefore, the previous group of netizens felt that everyone was not tolerant enough:

"People have apologized, why are you endless?"

"Is it necessary to do such a small question? Scholars are not important for an actor."

"Let him go, after all, vanity is everyone."

"Did you make mistakes in your life?"

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The third thing is the case of young Wu Mou's mother.

December 2, 2018,

Because of being scolded and smoked by his mother,

The 12 -year -old boy Wu had cut his mother with a knife,

"After cutting more than 20 knives, and cut off my mother's hands."

After killing his mother, he replaced the bloody clothes,

Then throw the kitchen knife in the fish pond,

Then imitate the mother to send a message to the class teacher:

"Teacher Hu, Wu × I will take a leave tomorrow, he has a cold."

A 12 -year -old boy,

After the killing, it can be so calm,

It's really creepy.

Since Wu is not 14 years old,

So I was released home soon.

After release home, my father wanted to send him back to school to study.

But many parents of students disagree,

"Such a terrible child, don't get it off for discipline, how can you immediately put back to school to study?"

"I don't agree, I don't want my children to study in a class with such people."

These parents who do not agree with Wu to return to school,

So he was accused by many netizens:

"Whoever did not make a mistake in this life, not to mention that people are only 12 years old."

"This child is also very pitiful, why can't he forgive him?"

"People are only 12 years old, why can't he give him a chance?"

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Why should I say these three things?

Because I think the Chinese like to forgive me too much:

"Everyone is dead."

"It's not easy."

"Friends."

"Still children."

"He is just an impulse."

"Who hasn't made a mistake in my life?"

We not only like to forgive others,

I also like to ask others to forgive others,

We always think,

As long as we treat others with sincerity, others will treat me sincerely.

As long as we tolerate others, others will change from the new.

But in many cases, this is not the case,

We have the greatest misunderstanding of human nature,

I just think that as long as it is a person,

They are human and conscience.

If you think people are human and conscience,

If you can easily forgive some of the bottom line,

Then you are making two troubles.

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The first trouble is what you made for yourself.

I said some time ago, Mr. Wantang,

This example is very typical,

I will talk about it again today:

A girl is working in the hotel,

Suddenly received a call from a friend and said that he took her to get rich.

You don't need to guess you know, just engage in MLM.

As soon as she arrived in Beihai, she was locked in the room by her friends,

It is equivalent to mortgage to the local underworld,

Then the friend fled alone.

The girl said: I feel like I will die.

Fortunately, she escaped.

After rebirth, she said, "I will not forgive that friend if I die."

Back in Shanghai, a rich second generation fell in love with this girl.

At a party, the girl met that friend again.

She asked for forgiveness with a nose and tears:

"My parents were seriously ill. If I didn't leave at the time, I couldn't see the last side of my parents."

The girl shed tears and forgive her.

After a month, the rich second generation said to the girl: "Let's break up." The girl didn't understand: "Why?"

The rich second generation said, "I live with your friend."

The girl was sitting by the Huangpu River, crying for a whole.

Half a year later, the friend came to her again:

"I broke up with the second generation of rich. He has many women. Fortunately, you are not good at him."

The implication is: Fortunately, I helped you, and you were not deceived by him.

Because of the enemies of the rich second generation,

This girl reconciled with that friend again.

Later, that friend wanted to buy a house,

Come to her for help, saying that she was helpless.

With a snot and tears, the Huangpu River was crying.

So the girl lent her 200,000.

But from then on, the friend had no news.

Why do I tell this story?

I just want to tell you two points:

● Don't forgive people who do not have the bottom line

● Don't easily believe that such people will get better

There is a summary of the Chinese master Ji Xianlin:

"Bad guys, the same toxic animals and plants, the same,

I don't know if I am a bad person, to poison.

And I also found that the bad guys will not change.

The bad guys I observe,

This was the case for decades, and it was still the case today.

I want to defend them, I can't find a word. "

The bad guys often only get old and will not get better.

If you easily forgive a person who has no bottom line,

It may be harmed repeatedly like this girl,

Not only will you be hurt yourself,

You will also hurt your family and friends.

Guo Degang has a saying particularly good:

"I hate it for a person,

I don't understand any situation,

I persuade you to have a generous person.

You have to stay away from him like this,

Because the thunder will affect you when he splits him! "

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The second trouble is made by you to the society.

September 2, 2018,

Mr. Teng, a post -80s young man in Zhejiang,

When riding an electric car passing the road,

The old man who was riding an electric car Cao fell,

The fall was severe, the rib fractures, and the lungs were broken.

Mr. Teng stopped the car and came to help him,

He never expected that this support was on the way.

After the traffic police came, Cao pointed at Mr. Teng:

"He hit me."

Because there is no monitoring of the section of the incident,

Mr. Teng can’t tell clearly,

Not only is the electric vehicle detained by the traffic police,

He was also scolded by Cao's wife,

Mr. Cao also had to bear all the medical expenses.

Fortunately, after a few days of investigation, the traffic police

Finally discovered the truth in the monitoring of a steel shop:

"Cao Mou really fell on his own bike."

After watching the monitoring, Cao's wife not only didn't apologize,

He also said to Mr. Teng with a lot of words:

"Hello people to the end, go to the hospital to see my husband."

Mr. Teng was shivering,

Cao was brought to court.

After being reported by the media, I did not know this,

Some netizens even said that Mr. Teng was "too small."

These people who say Mr. Teng's "small question",

I do n’t know if I thought about something: If the traffic police did not find this monitor, would Mr. Teng really go to it?

This society now,

Why do you always touch porcelain again and again?

Why do you always do good things against blackmail?

In fact, we are used to it.

We like to forgive and tolerate others,

As a result, the cost of evil people's evil is too low.

The world's worse is from we like to forgive others too much.

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The Chinese are most respectable -resentment with virtue.

When we were young, we were often educated,

You should learn how to forgive someone,

But we have never been educated,

You should learn why you don't forgive someone.

Easily forgive some people who do not have the bottom line,

Easily forgive some people who have committed a big mistake,

Not only to the unpopularity of the victim,

It is also destroying the justice and fairness of society.

Let's talk about an allusion:

The disciples asked Confucius: "How about resentment with virtue?"

Confucius replied, "Report with virtue, why should you report to Germany?"

Disciple asked, "What can I do?"

Confucius replied: "It is necessary to report virtue with virtue and resent it directly."

To treat Ende, you should return Eunde.

Treating fierceness should be returned with teeth.

I write this manuscript today,

In fact, just want to emphasize two points:

● Don't forgive those who do things without the bottom line

● Don't ask others to forgive you for you who do not have the bottom line for you

There is a premise for all forgiveness:

After the person who makes a mistake gets the punishment they deserve,

People who make mistakes expressed repentance and corrected,

Then we can talk about forgiveness or not forgiveness.

The world must be better and the society must be better,

It starts with the punishment that every bad guy gets due.

True kindness has teeth.

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