We cried, but we didn't want to make others cry!Sun Haiyang Sun Yue's father and daughter co -authored the new book "Go Home"

Sun Haiyang Sun Yue's new book "Go Home" cover

The new book "Going Home: 14 Years and 57 Days" written by Sun Haiyang's oral and daughter Sun Yue was released this month. Less than a week after the shelves, it sold over 80,000 copies.

"Going Home" mainly tells the story of Sun Haiyang's long -lasting story after Sun Zhuo's lost. When telling Sun Yue, Sun Haiyang was relaxed and calm, because for him, "Sun Zhuo has found it, and those things have become the past." But for Sun Yue Her father's difficulty of finding a child, she cried and cried, and had a new understanding of her father.

In the ending of "Go Home", Sun Zhuo went home and a family of five reunited; besides the ending, many parents -finding parents still ran on the road.

On September 20, in an interview with Jiyu Journalists, Sun Haiyang's father and daughter said that he hoped that this book would allow more people to pay attention to those families who have not found their children and the country's efforts that the country continues to make in judicial change.

On December 6, 2021, Sun Haiyang and his son Sun Zhuo recognized Xinhua News Agency in Shenzhen

The whole family discussed the cover of the new book to select the tears and collapse the family picture

Whether it is Sun Haiyang or Sun Yue, I did not expect that this book can attract so much attention. Less than a week on the e -commerce platform, the sales of "Go Home" have exceeded 80,000 copies.

The cover of the book is a comic, which is based on the picture of the three people hug tightly when the Sun Ocean and his wife and Sun Zhuo recognize each other on December 6, 2021.

In Sun Yue's original idea, this is a story that belongs to his father Sun Haiyang. She suggested that she uses a facial feature of her father as a new book cover. "If I use my close -ups, it will look heavy. In fact, the tone of this book is bright and warm." Sun Haiyang said. Later, after discussing, the whole family chose the current cover.

"The picture of the three people is very moving, and everyone is very familiar with this picture." On September 20, Sun Yue told Judu journalists.

Since the new book is on the shelves, the private message and comment area of ​​Sun Yue ’s social media account has become a large -scale reminder site for netizens. Among the book buyers, there are netizens from abroad.

"Everyone's enthusiasm makes us flattered. I didn't expect this book to sell so well, and the publisher was printed." Sun Yue said. Some readers have finished reading and sent her a sense of reading. One of the evaluations she likes: "This book does not want to make people cry, but to give people strength."

Sun Haiyang Sun Yue's father and daughter photo Sun Haiyang's picture

Creation spent more than four months, my daughter met her father again

Why write such a book? This is the problem that Sun Haiyang and Sun Yue have often been asked recently.

Sun Yue told reporters that a long time ago, she heard her father talk about some of her experiences and felt sighing and shocking. At that time, she thought that these should be recorded, just like writing a diary. By 2020, this idea has become more clear.

"But at the time, my mood was more frustrated. By 2020, we had found Sun Zhuo for 13 years. One thing continued for so long, and it would become the norm. Great hope, "Sun Yue said.

Until December 6, 2021, Sun Zhuo found that the story of the Sun Haiyang family had a successful ending. Sun Yue finally made up his mind: "I must write this story."

In this way, Sun Yue became the teller from the standbye and personal experience of the story. In April this year, she officially started writing.

For Sun Haikai, writing this book is to hope that more people can pay attention to those families who have not found their children, and they are still on the road. In order to fit his experience, Sun Yue chose to tell his father's tone. For her, this is both novel and challenging.

"I want to imagine that I am Sun Haiyang. What kind of mood was when he shouted on the square? When he looked at the door of the stranger's door, how did he feel? When Zhuo Zhuo was lost, he was in Shenzhen, and he was in Shenzhen. The streets and alleys are running wildly, what psychological activities ... "Sun Yue said. She knew some of her father's experience, but when she stood at her father's perspective, she looked back at the experience of seeking their sons in these years, and her mood was very different from before.

Some netizens commented on this book: "This is to unveil his scar." Sun Yue did not agree with this statement. She felt that it was a lot easier to describe these experiences.

Write during the day, write at night, and write on the road. From spring to midsummer, more than four months later, Sun Yue finally finished writing.

But it is difficult for a book to fully describe Sun Haiyang's life experience and journey. "After writing the book, I once thought that I had pointed to my dad's life. But after the handling, he sometimes told me that he had started the factory and abducted the volunteers to rescue the abducted child. Will say to him: "Why don't you tell me when I write a book? '" Sun Yue said. The experience she did not know before, in her opinion, gave her a new understanding of her father.

However, Sun Yue also hopes to restore his father into a "ordinary and extraordinary person", not a hero. "As I wrote in the book, people experienced the suffering, despair, and the effort will be. The vocabulary of 'hero' is more powerful. "

On January 25, 2022, the Sun Haiyang family returned to the New Year's photography of Jianli hometown in Hubei: Huang Zhigang, a journalist of Chutian Metropolis Daily

No matter what suffering you experience, you can change if you work hard

The book "Go Home" records Sun Haiyang's long way to find a child, 14 years and 57 days, witnessing his time from youth to middle age. Sun Haiyang told Sun Yue a lot of family search stories. In the process of telling, Sun Haiyang is relaxed and calm, because for him, "Sun Zhuo has found it, those things have become past, and it is easy to talk about. ","

But for Sun Yue, this is the first time she has faced the suffering of her father in the process of finding her son. These stories, Sun Haiyang told the media, but he never disclosed half of his children.

"Sometimes when he talks, I cried. Sometimes when I organize the information alone, I will suddenly collapse and cry." Sun Yue said.

Sun Haiyang's experience of going to Ningxia Xunzi was particularly deeply touched by Sun Yue.

It was August 2008. The person in charge of the baby's home website told Sun Haiyang that there were reports that a lost child in Ningxia was sent to the police station, and the photos in the news were like Sun Zhuo. Sun Haiyang looked at the photo and felt very similar, but was thinner, so he asked the Shenzhen police to help investigate. The Shenzhen police asked Sun Haiyang after asking the local police station in Ningxia. The child was just lost and had been led by his family.

Sun Haiyang was very lost. He turned over and looked at the child's photos. The more he looked like Sun Zhuo. He said that the child must have been starved to frozen for more than a year, so that he would be thinner than before. He decided to go to Ningxia to see the child with his own eyes. At that time, there was no direct car from Shenzhen to Ningxia. He moved to Zhengzhou and Xi'an and finally arrived in Ningxia. He found a reporter who reported the matter and met the child in person, and then confirmed a cruel fact: not Sun Zhuo.

"Go Home" wrote that this is a "closest to desperate journey". Hope that Sun Haiyang cried loudly again. He was very confused. He didn't know where to go next, and he was afraid to go home to face the eyes of his parents and wives.

Fourteen years later, Sun Haiyang saw the scene described in the book, and the pain was like a cloud of smoke. He even mocked himself that in fact, various clues showed that the child was not Sun Zhuo, but he just didn't believe it. He found many excuses, and even paranoid the Shenzhen police who was deceiving and had to go for himself.

However, in Sun Yue's view, Sun Haiyang's "paranoia" is a kind of "energy" against fate. Not only is it a trip to Ningxia, but in the 14 years of Xunzi, Sun Haiyang has been in despair many times.

"But he kept resisting this despair, even if there was a durate, almost impossible hope, he must catch it. I think this is very moving." Sun Yue said.

In the end, these struggles and resistance ushered in the result of Liu Dianghua. Because of this, Sun Haiyang and Sun Yue believe that the overall tone of the book "Go Home" is bright and warm.

"I hope this book can give you a kind of power: no matter what suffering, it is not a matter of trouble. As long as you work hard, you can change." Sun Haiyang told reporters.

On February 12, 2022, the Sun Haiyang family (first from left to 5th) was a guest pole news photography: Chutian Metropolis Daily Ji Mei Journalist Liu Zhongcan

I hope all family -looking families can enjoy the sweetness of reunion

The last chapter of "Go Home" is entitled "Beyond" Ending ". "Ending" refers to Sun Haiyang's success and family reunion; outside of "ending" is that many parents still running on the way to find relatives.

The book mentioned in the book that Zheng Chuze's father, Zheng Chuze, would have a birthday to the lost son every year; looking for Luo Miaoquan's father, he hoped that his daughter was going home for 32 years; and finding the post -90s parents who were looking for Tong Yunjing and Tong Renqian. One of the parents of relatives ...

After Sun Zhuo returned home, Sun Haiyang did not stop helping other parents of relatives. He will spread the information of the abducted children on the social platform, and will also go to the scene where the new clue is directed with the parents of relatives.

"I can be tormented by my parents -in -law parents. Some of them have walked for fourteen or five years with me on the road to seeking relatives. I really can't let them go. I hope they can find their children so that I can rest assured that I can rest assured that I can rest assured that I can rest assured that I can rest assured that I can rest assured that I can rest assured . "Sun Haiyang said.

Sun Haiyang talked about his many years of friends Du Xiaohua. Today, in the four prototypes of the movie "Dear", only Du Xiaohua has not found children Xiaomic.

In the middle of this month, Du Xiaohua rushed to Changde, Hunan from his hometown in Jiangxi to compare with a boy with a DNA. The child looked like Xiaomic, but DNA failed.

"Similar situations we have experienced too much." Sun Haiyang said. Sometimes the child looks very similar, and the time to go to the hukou is also worthy, but the comparison is not.

At the beginning, whenever there was a new clue, Sun Haiyang would tell his wife and daughter. Later, the number of disappointments was more. He chose to conceal, and a person carried up all the pressure.

But whether it is Sun Haiyang or Du Xiaohua, they never give up hope. They told themselves: "You can find it!"

After recovering Sun Zhuo, Sun Haiyang passed this sentence to many other parents of relatives. This is a consolation, but also an encouragement. He hopes that parents -finding parents will be strong and confident. "Take care of the family, take care of yourself, and wait until the day when the child returns." Sun Haiyang said.

The movie "Dear" and Sun Haiyang, Peng Feng, Wu Liping, Du Xiaohua and others have allowed relatives to find more people to enter the public's vision. Since the beginning of this year, many abducted children have found family members, including Li Fangfu, including hand -painted home maps, Xu Jianfeng, who has been looking for 31 years ago, Zhang Yangyang, who was deceived by a pack of instant noodles 24 years ago ... Sun Haiyang said that this is with public security from all over the country. The agency actively carries out work, and it is inseparable from high -tech methods such as DNA database and face recognition. He sincerely hopes that the society will give more attention to the group of relatives, and he also hopes that the laws and systems that crack down on population traffickions will be more perfect, and "no abduction in the world" as soon as possible.

At the end of "Go Home", Sun Yue wrote: "There will always be a day of snow to disappear. At that time, we looked up and saw everyone holding a torch in their hands." This is for this The interpretation of the "ending" of the book is also a good wishes for the finders who are "outside the end".

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