A "Princess Little White Snow" compared to the hot search, how many high "good people" have been exploded.
Author:reader Time:2022.09.20
Some time ago, some netizens took such a healing photo.
A little girl who looked only six or seven years old, wearing a skirt of Snow White, but a pair of old slippers on her feet.
She held a large red bucket with one hand, and there were some empty bottles in the bucket; the other hand grasped three pieces of cardboard.
The naive little hand has a great power. Her face with a faint smile, running like the wind.
At a young age, she was able to help her family sell them to waste. She was wearing the most beautiful skirts and her eyes flashed.
A beautiful scene, who can deny such a brave and powerful little girl, is a real princess?
However, in the comment area, some messages are particularly beautiful, which makes people feel uncomfortable:
"Nothing to be moved, I can only say that my life is wrong in my life."
"This is the most pitiful princess."
This reminds me of a photo that was recently circulated on Weibo. On the night market stall, the family was giving the child a birthday.
Dad inserted a candle to the little cake, and carefully guarded the flame on the candle with his hands, fearing that it would be blown out of the wind.
The little girl wore good clothes, with a birthday cap, and wished with her hands in the cake.
Mom looked at her daughter with a smile, and her love seemed to overflow.
The family is together, warm and happy.
But in the same way, some people are stabbing from their parents' wear, the simple stalls, and the size of the cake, and judge others on the ground:
"This kind of happiness may last abruptly until the child is in junior high school!
"There are seemingly indifferent discrimination and seemingly comparison, which will make children fall from the so -called cloud into the mud.
"Very shameful scenery! But this is reality."
Please, don't use your limited views to disturb the happiness of others with your narrow three views.
Not to mention whether people are really difficult to family, and unknown all the full picture will not be criticized.
It is not only the princess who was wearing a long skirt in a car and was sent to the kindergarten. If you help your family sell waste, have a birthday on the night market stall, or the princess who is held in the palm of your hand.
In an unintentional word, you may destroy the happiness that others have accumulated for a long time.
You seem to be full of compassion, in fact, just to promote your deformity, show off your sense of superiority.
Don't easily determine whether a person is happy, let alone disturb the happiness of others.
In the past few days, such a video on the hot search list has caused controversy.
In Lianyungang, Jiangsu, a coach saw a student's dining plate when eating in the cafeteria. Except for rice, there was only one stir -fried potato shredder.
The coach picked up the video and asked the student, "Why do you only eat one dish?"
The student was stunned, and then smiled and said, "I'm not hungry."
The coach took his dining plate over and gave him two another amaranth.
The coach put the plate on the student's desk again, patted his shoulder and said, "Eat some meat."
While saying "thank you", the students wiped the tears at the corner of the eyes with their fingers, and also saluted the coach.
I don't doubt the coach's kindness at all. He may really be unbearable to see the child who is growing up and want to be better to him.
But to be honest, adolescent students are still more sensitive, especially in the cafeteria of people who come and go, so many classmates around them, the coach takes away the dishes of others in public, and also takes the video throughout the process. It really needs to be discussed.
Reporter Liu Gang, a lot of photos about poor children. Once, a teacher said emotionally to him:
"Thank you very much for donating funds for school, but can you not let your children come to the stage to accept donations. Don't stand on the stage to take a photo with the donor?
"Most of the poor students do not want to disclose the identity of poor students. Once they are public, they often lose optimism and confidence while they are rescued."
Liu Gang was touched by this remark and reflected in the article:
"Doing good deeds can not be based on a kind heart, because many times, inappropriate help will insult the self -esteem of others.
"What's more tragic is that the good deeds have nothing to notice."
Many people always like to stand on their own perspective, evaluate the lives of others, and point to the earth and give me mercy.
But life is like drinking water, knowing warmth. If you can't feel the same, please at least not disturb.
Nothing is more likely to burn a person than the so -called "goodwill" that does not cover it.
The most precious thing in the world is the calmness of the motionless.
A reader once said such a story.
When she was in junior high school, a classmate wore "Aibidas" for 3 years. Everyone around him saw it, but no one had a joke that classmate.
The warmest goodwill between people is there.
A young mother took a bus with her baby.
Perhaps it is because it is not convenient to put the baby down and carry it, so the mother did not put the baby down from the back towel.
The baby fell asleep, his head kept leaning backwards, and he saw it on the back of the chair.
At this time, the girl sitting in the back seat stretched out one hand to hold the baby's head and kept this posture and sat all the way.
It wasn't until the young mother got out of the car that she got off at the next stop.
A boy who was suffering from cancer, because he lost his hair because of chemotherapy, was afraid of being seen by others, he wore a hat to class. Without thinking, in order to protect his self -esteem, more than a dozen male students in the class all shaved their heads or plates.
The real kindness may be that I understand your embarrassment, so I do my best to make you not embarrassed.
On the subway, a man was sitting in a wheelchair and holding the railing tightly, fearing that wheelchairs were sliding.
A young man sitting next to him, one hand continued to play with his mobile phone, the other hand grasped the wheelchair, and stretched out one foot and stuck the wheels to fix the wheelchair.
He pretended to be nothing and insisted silently for more than 20 minutes until the man in a wheelchair off the subway.
Real kindness is not a low -level performance, but not to disturb the lives of others. It is a warmth without trace.
A restaurant in Beijing posted a notice on the glass to provide free dinner for the people who are in trouble, and protect the privacy and decentness of others:
"Just tell the clerk to set meals a, find a place to sit, and go straight after eating."
In life, everyone has their own sadness and difficulty.
You can send your own light to illuminate the road of others, but remember not to blow out the lights of others, even if the lights are extremely weak.
After reading a word: "High -profile kindness may have their own purposes, and unknown kindness is true kindness."
True kindness, do not create embarrassment, do not judge at will, it is difficult to expose privacy, it is just the right warmth.
Thanks to this world, all the kindness of unmoved, but the kindness of refreshing.
mutual encouragement.
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