Quick comments 丨 Li Yifeng has been detained many times. How do fans get out of the shadow?

You don't have to equate your idols with yourself, let alone the right or wrong of idols and wrongs, and even "the enemy of the world". May wish to try rationality, calm down, and try to examine the years and things of "you and him" from the perspective of "others", maybe it may be much more open -minded.

Actor Li Yifeng was detained by administrative detention for many times. In response to this illegal act, Chinanews.com evaluated: I do n’t know how to repent after making mistakes, which is more unforgivable than simply making mistakes.

The network is not a place outside the law, and the reality is not.

From September 10th, the news of the trails spread to Li Yifeng and his studio issued a statement, and to today's "official announcement", which may be the most ups and downs of their fans. Looking at Li Yifeng super talk, the fans' emotions can be roughly summarized as the following types: immediately indicate the "lower head" to take off the powder; unwilling to believe but have to believe it; realistic……

As a former chasing family, I understand and understand the various feelings of fans at this moment. Therefore, I also want to take this opportunity to discuss some issues that should be explored, such as how do idols and fans get along and how to get rid of the impact of idols on the individual? Clarifying these may allow fans to get out of the shadows faster and return to normal.

A relationship that is alienated

In all fairness, this is an era when the relationship between fans and idols is too close. Idols can share personal work and life on social media, and even airborne the fan base to talk to fans. Fans can also communicate with other fans in super talks or fan bases. and many more.

If the relationship is too close, it is easy to make fans illustrate and make cross -border moves. For example, interfere with the idol work "in the name of love", do not allow some dramas, accusing the studio of not maintaining the idol image, poor ability of the agent, etc., such as "the police" everywhere, and when you see the unfavorable remarks of idols, you will attack In this way, swipe the screen under related news, corrupt the "passers -by" of idols; and even interfere with the private life of idols and so on.

To enter the idol fan group, the threshold is not low, and you must do various tasks every day -likes, send Weibo super words, pull people, do publicity posters, and so on. There are also strict grades within the fans. Fans at different levels have mastered different levels of idol private information. The organization is tight and the level is clear. It can be said that the fan base has become a differential pattern of the idol as the center of heart.

Therefore, it can be seen in Li Yifeng's superior words that someone signed in for more than 2,000 days, "My Eight Years", "My Youth" and other lament. Pickup and sign -in -like expressing the love and support for idols, of course, not only exist in Li Yifeng, but also generally exist in various other types of idol super talks. Between celebrities and fans, a unidirectional and lasting emotional output is formed -idols are already the most familiar strangers of fans.

Fans can count the birthdays of idols, idol preferences, and even small details that idols have forgotten, they all remember clearly. The high enjoyment of the personal information of idols allows fans to have an unspeakable intimacy and even lose into this unilateral relationship. What must be pointed out is that this is a relationship of alienation. A heavy love and being loved, which is a huge pressure for idols, and is also huge for fans.

How to get along with?

When talking about chasing the stars, Sabenin said, "Chasing the stars, you are actually chasing yourself. You are actually designing a state of life in your ideal life ... You want to be as good as him, like it He is as successful. "We all want to be a better ourselves, and idols can also stimulate our potential and make us work harder and better.

In my youth, because of the star chasing, I also wrote some prose and poetry, published in journals and magazines, and since then I have opened my life that I rely on text. In my experience, the most important thing in the star chasing is how to look at and deal with this relationship.

First of all, the idol should be regarded as a person. Because of severe fan filters, idols are always tall in the hearts of fans, and they are "deified" into "vacuum people" and were put on moral highlands. If the fans wish to think that idols would not make mistakes and full of morality, they would naturally be unacceptable in the face of a sudden collapse and even collapsed.

Second, it must have its own subjectivity. The star chasing cannot lose its own idol. We must have their own opinions, right and wrong judgment, and understand that idols can give us spiritual strength, but more importantly, our own efforts. The reason why we can be better and better people is because of idols, even more because of ourselves.

Finally, it is necessary to know that idols are related to fans but have little relationship. The glory and stains of idols are their own. We can celebrate or sad, but do not have to equate the idol with ourselves, let alone the right or wrong of the idol or the wrong. "For the enemy".

Of course, in the face of the idol suddenly becoming a "legal coffee", whether it is to continue to support it, or immediately "below", or healing alone, huge emotional stimulus will inevitably make people feel uncertain, sit hard, and even cry. However, life has to continue, and our world is not only idols. The road of life is still long, our ideals are waiting for us to realize, and our career is waiting for us to work hard.

In this way, try more rationality, calm down, or let yourself be detached, try to examine the years and things of "you and him" from the perspective of "others", and those things may be much more open -minded.In the end, I want to make a word in a word of He Yan, "TA is a star, but you are your own sun."May you be your own sun as soon as possible.

Edit Wang Yitao

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