The new features of WeChat are online, exposing the cruel truth of the adult world: shielding can be canceled, and feelings are difficult to look back

I don't know when to set up the "Sixty -Nine -nine" viewing permissions for the WeChat circle of friends from the circle of friends, which has become an unsuspect rules for the adult world.

Without sharing desire, it is the beginning of the adult world.

Recently, the new function gray test of WeChat.

Many netizens found that the circle of friends in the iOS version of WeChat "can be modified and visible."

New or deleted friends in the label show that the range will also be updated simultaneously.

In general, the circle of friends that has been sent can be modified by itself, instead of setting it to a private state or deleting.

As soon as this feature comes out, many netizens cheer immediately.

"I will not delete this circle of friends for nearly a year!"

"Finally, you don't need to be a colleague, so you lock the circle of friends!"

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The rhythm of the world is getting faster and faster, and adults are in a hurry day after day.

In the panic, there was a friendly friendship that was lost together.

In WeChat, after the "friends circle dynamic" shield, editors can be edited and recovered.

In life, once the "circle of friends" is shielded, it is difficult to look back.

The shielded circle of friends, pulling away from each other's distance, also dilute the once deep feelings.

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Some friends, go away, it is difficult to look back again

Some people say that the distance will change everything.

In a word.

I remember there was a period of "Life I yearn for". A young male guest in the show, when chatting after meals, raises the question that has troubled himself for a long time:

"A former best friend, after a little fame, gradually alienated me."

He Yan enlightened him and said, "For so many years, there are a lot of friends around me, and I also care about the friends around me.

But I have never hoped, and I will keep a person around myself.

Some friendship is destined to be staged, and some people are destined to accompany you for a while. "

Indeed, adults' emotions sometimes become extremely fragile with the test of time and distance.

There is a kind of unjust, but the distance becomes far away.

It can no longer participate in each other's life, and the intersection is getting less and less, and the relationship will be fading unknowingly.

Some people have said that no matter how good the relationship is, it can't resist the erosion of years, the overdraft of distance, and the reality of each future.

Although it is sharp, it is difficult to refute.

In "The Sisters of Bankruptcy", Max retained the homeless rich woman Caroline, but Caroline would one day leave.

Before moving, Caroline promised that they would be a good friend of a lifetime.

But Max's answer was indifferent and real, she said:

"In the first week after separation, we may squeeze out time and drink a cup of coffee together every weekend.

"After a few weeks, you have something else that you can't come, and I don't have anything to do."

"Then in the next 60 years, we won't meet again."

Indeed, maybe people come and go is the normal state of life.

Just as the writer Liu Tong said in "Your Lonely, even though he was defeated":

"Those friends who thought they were very good, those who thought you would have been working together, I don't know when I will go on the way."

After the separation, the connection between each other gradually decreases, and we will absence important moments in each other in each other.

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The trajectory of our lives will gradually occur. When our distance starts to slowly get away, an inadvertent, from the original fierceness and intimacy to the last flat as water.

In the past, there is nothing to say, and it will eventually become nothing to say.

The distance and time are like a deep strait, and you and I are separated from both sides of the strait.

When we miss it, friends have long been far away.

Sanxing, such as shrinking clothes, can never go back to the past.

Human sentiment is thinner than paper.

I saw a question on the Internet: How did the relationship between people fade?

One of the praise answers: one does not ask, one does not say;

Precious friendship should be protected, not consumption.

The world of adults cannot stand perfunctory. Once ignored, they will be alienated silently.

You don't smell it, I don't ask. Slowly, each other becomes no longer important.

Over time, you don't understand my pain, and I don't feel your happiness.

Between people and people, only the two sides can be closer to both sides.

In the TV series "Little Happy", Fang Yuan and Ji Shengli are old classmates. After more than ten years, they have not seen each other.

Faced with the excellent season victory everywhere, Fang Yuan wanted to talk about the old, but he didn't know how to speak.

It wasn't until one day that Ji Shengli took the initiative to find Fang Yuan to help, and the relationship between the two gradually got closer.

Ji Shengli took Fangyuan's stool and asked Fangyuan to teach him soup.

He wanted to make up the lesson for his son, so he asked whether Fang Yuan could help find someone to talk.

Ji Shengli's weak help, instantly broke the embarrassment of the two for a long time, and the relationship was as close as the past.

People are always mutual.

A solid relationship is not exciting, but two -way.

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Small actors Chen Peisi and Zhu Shimao have been partners for many years.

Although they often quarrel because of differences in opinions, the common growth has laid a deep friendship for them.

The two left the Spring Festival Gala in 1998 and created their careers.

Chen Peisi devoted himself to the drama, while Zhu Shimao became the film director.

The two who seem to have no intersection, when one party needs help, no matter how busy they are, they will inevitably help the platform. In 2014, Zhu Shimao made a movie to hold his son, and Chen Peisi once again made a guest appearance.

In a interview, Chen Peis said a word when he talked about the friendship with Zhu Shimao: "I never need to think of it, and I will never forget it."

The world is inherent, owed to each other, and remember each other to resonate with the same frequency.

Keep the friendship of suffering at all times in order to stay in each other's hearts.

Good relationship: more memorable when busy, contact more when you are free

Do you know how many contacts in your mobile phone address book?

How many are in contact with it?

I have seen a social experiment. The program group backup the interviewer's mobile phone address book and asked the following 4 questions:

1. How many people are there on mobile phone communication?

2. Delete those who you won't take the initiative, how much is left?

3. How much is those who can't tell the truth?

At first, the interviewees saw that their contacts were seven or eight hundred, or even a thousand, and they would be happy and felt very satisfied.

But with the expansion of the question, in the address book of more than 1,000 people, there were only 2-3 people who could contact.

Many respondents were silent.

Then, the program group asked: "When is the most recent contact?"

Some people are two or three months, some people are more than a year, and some people can't even remember ...

Reality is always cruel and poked, and even such precious friends may not be connected.

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Those who were so good enough to eat a bowl of rice are now because they are afraid of disturbing. They are embarrassed to ask.

Time and distance, isolated people into two worlds, and unreachable feelings will eventually point to dispersion.

In the entertainment industry, Wu Mengda and Zhou Xingchi are well -known Hong Kong comedy movies golden partners.

The two have known each other for 22 years and have collaborated on 31 works. They can be described as classics, but in the end they parted ways.

In an interview with a program, Wu Mengda talked about this friendship. He frankly said:

"It's really strange. Obviously, the two people who had a very good relationship were suddenly become old and dead."

"Suddenly, everyone connects each other and becomes less and less."

There is a saying in particular: the world of adults, feelings are like a consumable.

If in this relationship, do not inject new common memories of each other, you can only consume it from the previous love.

One day, the previous love points were consumed, and the relationship was faded, and the relationship was scattered.

Therefore, if you care about a relationship, please remember: I remember more when I am busy, and contact more when I am free.

Professor William Rawlins proposed a series of "friendly and dialectical interaction principles" in 1992. He pointed out:

In a mature friendship, the freedom of "emotional and instrumentality" must be included.

Those who enter the middle of adulthood are more inclined to define friendship as a relationship of "knowing where TA is".

This friend can be accompanied and supported when you need it, and will not invest too harshly on your time and energy.

This is a relationship that makes you feel more comfortable and free.

You will be mutually beneficial, but you don't feel that you are using each other.

It is said that people will encounter more than 8 million people in their lives, about 40,000 people who say hello, less than 4,000 familiar people, less than 300 people who are really close, but they will eventually lose them in the sea of ​​people.

We are constantly facing encounter and separation.

As you get older, more and more people are lost, and people staying are more and more important.

What we can do is to cherish it while the relationship is still there.

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Whether you are a friend or a lover, do n’t let your feelings be defeated to the distance and lose to the non -contact.

Because of the disconnected friendship, like a vase falling on the ground, it is difficult to meet once it is broken.

Pay attention to "readers", and are willing to be busy for you and me, always have friends, cherish each other, and miss each other.

Author: Mona Mom, go through the wind and rain with the children, smell flowers!

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