Summer watching with my father 丨 Talk on weekends

Summary

Weekend talk

Most of the harmonious relationship with my dad relied on his heart.

After returning home, my most "mother saw" is not depending on the bed, nor is it slow to move like a sloth, but to firmly hold the remote control of the TV on the TV. Turning up and jumping, he was uncertain, and the mother next to him shouted "panic".

After dinner one day, I started to stage a tangled drama of choosing phobia. Fortunately, my mother had just finished chasing a spy war drama. After washing, I went to rest. At this time, the father who laughed all the way pretended to be threatened: Don't say "Mom sees", and then tangled that Dad wanted to fight.

Finally, after comparing the plot introduction, referring to Douban scores, and brushing dozens of short reviews, I chose a movie called "Specific" (1990). It is just that the movie tells the spirit of hippies in the 1950s and 1960s, and has a serious discussion about the social and cultural background of the United States. I am afraid that my father will not be interested and ask him some: "Let's look at this? Hippie culture. "Dad didn't like to refuse me as always, and replied quickly:" Okay, just look at this! "

"Speaking from the beginning" movie poster

At the beginning of the film, the hoarse hippie ballad was accompanied by a long shot of the train. The protagonist on the train was the prisoner Hui Hua Ke and John Bena, who was responsible for the escorted by him.他们的目的地是斯波坎市，1968年，休伊就是在那里搞出了一场让自己声名鹊起的恶作剧：人们都说，是他通过小动作，把载着政客阿格纽的那节车厢与The entire campaign is detached.

That scene is funny and ironic, which is quite unique to the hippie style that respected and pursue spiritual freedom at the time. As a result, Hui Yi's move was regarded as a legend, and he had to pay the price for the headlines of several newspapers of the "Royal", and started for decades of escape life.

Interestingly, the old Walker old man who was temporarily released in prison was like a fresh and free wind to the social environment of the 1990s. In contrast, Bena, an agent of the suit and leather shoes, is unsmiling, old -fashioned, and indifferent to Walker's presence. Seeing this, I couldn't help but start doubting: Shouldn't this be a young man who didn't look at hippie culture at first, but in the end, he was deeply conquered by the latter's "routine" story?

Fortunately, the movie started an unexpected direction. After an accident, they returned to the place where Bena was born. People were surprised to find that there was a base for hippie culture: the buses full of graffiti can be seen everywhere, and the iron skin room is full of Bohemian style. Walker even saw his portrait like a saint.

The video of Bena's childhood with his parents also revealed why his behavior was so resistant to Walker. Bena said excitedly: His hippie parents always want to be different from others, but he wants to be the same as others. So he changed his name and identity, walked out of the farm, and worked hard into the mainstream society. To some extent, Bena is the real rebel.

Since then, the seemingly indifferent to everything has also revealed his inner secret: In fact, it was not that he had planned the prank at all, but that the carriage was disconnected by himself. However, in the fame, people are more willing to believe in that dramatic plot. Walker himself can only be raised in the air, enjoying the praise of the people, and enduring the bitter fruits of prison. In this sense, Walker is the real pretender.

At the end of the film, Walker successfully escaped with the Jin Chan's shelling plan, and Bena also resigned from the agent's work and rode a locomotive to reconcile with his parents. At this point, hippie music sounded again, and the two parted ways.

After the movie, my father and I could not help but feel about the view. Dad saw his personal freedom, spiritual sustenance, and what was true self -searching. What made him feel deeper is Bena's transformation: when he was a child, he was an impulse and rebellion of unknown the world; when he grew up, he really found himself, instead of blindly opposing.

Picture source: Visual China

We also talked about the helplessness of ordinary people who couldn't escape the fame. In fact, if the old Hippievock took the initiative to explain the facts and cut off the relationship between ourselves and that anecdote, we could settle down from here without having to hide Tibet in the whole day. However, he was lonely because others only remembered what he had never done, and refused to decide with the "feat". He also calculated that he had to make an autobiography all day. For thousands of years, the celebrities who have been abducted by fame and fortune are not the case.

Since then, we talked about it and discussed the background of the hippie culture. Where did the anti -war sign of the aircraft come from, and what became popular when my father was young. Unknowingly raised his eyes, the pointer of the clock had approached 12 o'clock.

The summer night was deep, and the cicada was bursting, but I couldn't sleep. In fact, Dad didn't even chase rock when he was young, and he was not interested in hippie culture. But almost every time I mentioned a new thing with him. When talking about each niche culture, he would not be impatiently regarded as a wind on the ears. I started communication.

When I went home this time, he also accompanied me to relive Zhou Xingchi's "Nine Pin Sesame Officers" to discuss the importance of training my internal skills with me; accompany me to chase the documentary about the tomb of Haixunhou and the official kiln, discuss behind the historical stories behind the historical storiesThose who can learn from.For a long time, I even naively thought that all parents were like this.It wasn't until I heard some friends who couldn't talk to my parents in recent years, and even felt almost the distress of communication.Behind the relaxed appearance of each other again and again, he was silent for many years and did not ask for rewards.

Picture source: Visual China

When writing this article, the autumn wind has risen, and it is slightly chilling. The gear of time continues to advance without emotional speed.But I think there are always some memories that will leave heavy marks, just like the ordinary, beautiful and moving summer movie time.

(This article was first issued on China Youth Daily September 22, 2020 version 09)

Written article/Ren Guanqing

WeChat Editor/Ren Guanqing

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