The film emperor's "admission notice" rushed to the hot search, this time I watched crying!

Even if the acting skills are outstanding and have won the title of "film emperor", few people still take the initiative to mention Guo Xiaodong.

He seemed "looming" and has been floating in the memory of the public.

The reason for Guo Xiaodong this time was a blog post he released.

It was a memoir that said that he was an old thing when he was admitted by the Beijing Film Academy.

The content is not long, but the writing is smooth and the feelings are sincere.

Sloping up and down, view the full text

With a few strokes, the picture jumps on the paper, and the simple feelings are inlaid between the lines.

Someone teased that Guo Xiaodong was the only star he was paying attention to because of his writing.

"He has collapsed completely. He obviously can be a writer and has to be an actor."

Picture source: Weibo@图 小 图

After reading this Weibo, I also feel deeply.

In the performing arts circle, it is not the best in acting Guo Xiaodong, but I want to talk to you about him, because some kind of different temperament on him makes him very conspicuous.

It was a natural simplicity and direct, and there was a restrained and humble unprepared, non -covering.

The film emperor who came out of the "Cold Gate"

If you use a word to describe Guo Xiaodong in the entertainment industry, I think it is "tepid".

His acting skills have been recognized, but he has not been dazzling in the circle.

Some people say that they have to run in the entertainment industry, but Guo Xiaodong is more like "walking."

It was just that he walked solidly every step, thought deeply, there was no fear of everything, as well as calm and calm.

Looking at his growth, I found the reason.

Picture source: Weibo@图 小 图

Guo Xiaodong is from the countryside, a very poor Yimeng old district.

Because of poor, survival has become the biggest pursuit;

Because of poor, Guo Xiaodong had to interrupt his studies and had to let the actor dream temporarily stranded.

In the second year of high school, Guo Xiaodong was forced to drop out of school because he could not afford a tuition fee of 34 yuan to work as a temporary work in a printing factory in the county seat.

This may be the life experience of many people--

The cruel reality isolated from the connection between yourself and dreams. From complaining about the unfair fate to accepting reality, when passion is no longer burning, countless people with great ambitions will be mediocre and no longer struggle.

Guo Xiaodong has to do that exception.

He did not compromise. In his heart, his dream may be more important than survival, and he must continue to struggle.

Picture source: network

With the dream and saving 120 yuan, Guo Xiaodong came to Beijing alone and did not tell anyone.

He was also afraid that he couldn't survive, and he was afraid that he couldn't make a look of shame for his parents.

At that time, planting a good land should be a thing of rural people. "Being an actor" was unreasonable, and it was Hu Lai.

It didn't take long for Guo Xiaodong's "Hu Lai" to be discovered.

The folks said that the child "did not have a proper career and could not live in the future." Parents would not argue, but only crying.

go home? Or continue to dream?

In the end, the desire for dreams occupied the upper hand. He decided to write a letter to his parents. He wanted to get understanding and even more support.

"Work with peace of mind, don't worry about your home, if it is too difficult outside, go home to plant the land."

A few simple words in his father's reply, completely unloaded the burden of Guo Xiaodong's body, he swear with tears: he must mix a famous hall.

Poor people, chasing dreams to be more luxurious.

Guo Xiaodong lived in a stinky basement at night, and went to the film factory to squat during the day to get the number of people who got a 15 yuan paid per day and went to the west.

Picture source: "Best Live"

In order to save money, a pack of instant noodles must be eaten for 3 days.

When there is a movie, go to a cleanener, painter, postman ... He is happy, and he will continue to toss on what he likes.

Later, Guo Xiaodong was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy. After learning the news, his first reaction was--

"broken."

It was worried, and it was caught off guard, because he suddenly felt that Beiying seemed to be so incompatible with himself, not only because of the tuition fee for 10,000 yuan.

Because of the poor, from home to school, Guo Xiaodong had been around for many days, so that the classmates thought he had dropped out of school;

Because he is poor, he does not gather or dinner, so as not to repay the humanity and cost;

Because of the poor, every time a director came to choose a role, he would ignore him with a tattered clothes.

But these did not affect him.

He is positive and persistent, and strives for performance opportunities just to fulfill his original dream.

Picture source: network

When we understand Guo Xiaodong deeply, it is easier to be moved by him.

Because of suffering, he has been working hard and endlessly.

He could have had enough excuses to live negatively, but he did not ignore the possibility of the future.

"Poor" is like a chain that is trying to lock his neck, but he can't restrain a person who is extremely desperate for flying.

From the cold gate to the film emperor, I saw a "transparent feeling" on Guo Xiaodong. On this road, he knew that he was difficult enough, so he was not afraid of suffering or slow.

If you have your own direction, you can persist, don't be arrogant or impatient, don't fight or grab.

As for the rest, just step by step.

Secular marriage

I fight for love and money

Guo Xiaodong's acting road was full of tears and sweat.

But when talking about marriage, the word I want to use is "lucky."

Some people say that marriage is a gambling, because you don't know the true appearance of the other person under the veil.

When Guo Xiaodong and his girlfriend Cheng Lisha, who had been broken up 20 times, were married, Guo Xiaodong, who was scolded by outsiders "straight male cancer", and Cheng Lisha unexpectedly fought. He bet right.

Picture source: Weibo@图 图

The growth environment of Guo Xiaodong is thorough. He is masculine and conservative, and firmly supports "male lead, the female lead".

Speaking of what he did is enough, it is enough to cause the anger of netizens:

His wife participated in the show, and he didn't want her to show her thighs and let her go home to cook;

Admitting that you have a special temper, you often sprinkle your bad temper on his wife;

Emphasizing that he has not done housework for 11 years and is proud.

Picture source: "Wife's Romantic Travel"

And this man who looks a bit "abnormal" has been held by Cheng Lisha.

Guo Xiaodong went to filming, and clothing, food, housing and transportation would be arranged properly. Even if he wanted to make breakfast at home, he would be scolded.

"I don't want you to do this. The task of you get home is rest."

Guo Xiaodong asked his wife to resign all his jobs, and Cheng Lisha really did not make filming for 11 years.

Guo Xiaodong wanted the second child, and Cheng Lisha had more than 100 stitches, so endocrine disorders were almost depressed.

Picture source: "Wife's Romantic Travel"

Is Guo Xiaodong the "bad man" in marriage?

His values ​​were full of old thoughts, and the persuasion of netizens was ignored, and Cheng Lisha looked "unbelievable" to put her husband first, and seemed to have no self.

Netizens were angry and questioned, and they were unwilling for Cheng Lisha, and were anxious to criticize Guo Xiaodong.

But all doubts were because Cheng Lisha's "answering" smoke disappeared in the show.

Someone asked her, is the man said "I support you" is honey or dagger?

"Honey." Cheng Lisha replied without hesitation.

Picture source: "Wife's Romantic Travel"

Yes, she did not lie, because happiness could not be hidden, and everything for Guo Xiaodong was the source of her happiness.

Guo Xiaodong achieved a thorough "raising" and thorough "love", so that Cheng Lisha now said happily that "I support you" is "honey".

Guo Xiaodong has always been a bad person, but he will do it.

Being Cheng Lisha's emotional trash can give her a sense of security.

He tried to make a movie, and he took all the money to make a little more money, and then paid all the money he made.

Picture source: network

Some people say he was too lively, and he replied, "This is my life."

Some people said that Cheng Lisha was stupid, she returned: "Why do I want to live in the world of others."

In this mode of getting along with each other, they all have the taste of happiness.

In "Wife's Romantic Travel", Guo Xiaodong gave Cheng Lisha's second proposal "opportunity". She burst into tears--

"When we haven't stepped into the marriage, it is easy to say‘ I ’m willing’ because there is love.

"But after we walked in marriage for more than ten years, every sentence 'I want' is not so easy."

Picture source: "Wife's Romantic Travel"

If you lack understanding, you will be misunderstood.

In fact, they look thoroughly.

The marriage between Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha just shows a rare happiness mode:

They support each other, they are as sweet as, they all have their own persistence.

Really noble

It's better than the past

Some people say, "A man with inferiority cannot love."

Guo Xiaodong was undoubtedly such a person before.

Cheng Lisha once said that Guo Xiaodong did not dare to admit that he was a farmer, and he nodded to admit it.

Especially in universities, this sense of inferiority has reached the extreme. Fortunately, this inferiority turned into a motivation for progress.

"At that time, my biggest ideal was to wait for me to make money. I must buy a house for my parents in the county."

He fulfilled this wish, and it was excessive.

Now he looks back and will definitely feel emotional ———

The peasant identity that once made him feel "low" has become the biggest nutritional supply station on his performing arts road.

Picture source: movie "My Father Jiao Yulu"

Now he is confident, free, calm, and tough.

In this change, all hard work and persistence, this persistence has become his habit.

Last year, Guo Xiaodong filmed "My Father Jiao Yulu". During the entire shooting process, in order to restore the thin state of the character, he only ate three to 40 % full every day and almost did not take a bath.

In order to restore the air -dried lips in the wind and sand, Guo Xiaodong did not drink water for a long time, and he had to use his tongue to lick the sand of the saline -alkali land, and he could not vomit clean.

"I think I have an advantage than others, because I stand on the ground, I have stepped on the soil, and I can feel the nutrients brought to me by soil."

The film has achieved great success, and Guo Xiaodong has also shaped a classic Jiao Yulu image, who attributed this success to his life experience.

Picture source: movie "My Father Jiao Yulu"

For him, it is necessary to take out the past pain.

"I know the meaning of the land to me, know what it feels like the sand, and know what the tears in the eyes of the poor people are."

From Guo Xiaodong, I saw the valuable persistence and tenacity, the kind of impetuous calmness.

It is not noble than others, and it is really noble than the past.

When life is always at a loss, in the flow of materialism, we always like to follow the footsteps of others, measure ourselves from the outside world, and frame ourselves with the so -called standards.Guo Xiaodong was not perfect, but when I met him again, I felt power.

People can't control the results, but they can control their efforts.

One step at a time, steadily fighting, one day I can laugh at all the pain in the past.

Perhaps this is the meaning of struggle.

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