"I'm waiting for a notice that a world is better" "

Author:Xindi Time:2022.09.01

I, the most "poor" editor of Xin Shi Xiang, Editor Shui Bingyue, now talks with you realistic about money.

At the beginning of the year, my stock and funds were confused, and I felt like I was sleeping.

The sluggish stock market hinted that the world's dark tide surged, telling me that "witnessing history is not free and expensive."

And the money I paid out represents: an ordinary person's disappointment of the real gold and silver in the world.

This is probably our most true feeling this year. Last week, "Tree Cave Day" a lot of people left me a message ——

"Leaning to a friend 10 W, now I have failed investment, the credit card online loan is almost overdue, and one penny should be returned."@憨憨

"I, a master's degree in 985, has been layoffs twice by a large factory for 2 years."@““

The "falling version" of these stories is exactly the same to the same question: Will this world be good?

Korean director Li Cangdong wrote in the novel "There are many dung" in Luchuan--

"It was the case at that time and now. If a person wearing a suit suddenly lost his job, there would be no other way to support his family.

This kind of person is very knowledgeable and knows the principle of the world's operations as well as anyone. He finger the situation at that time or the structural contradictions of Korean society, and he can't finish it for three days and three nights.

In fact, there is no ability to solve a meal a day. "

If you have the ability but have no reason to lose your job, it is terrible to think about it, and it always makes people can't help asking: Is my life good?

I remember seeing Jiang Wen in a short film before:

If people can really maintain this kind of question for a long time, then this life is worse.

A while ago, I also mentioned this sentence when I watched the writer Zhi Yan:

The last answer he gave was: he did not have this question mark many years ago.

At first I was doubtful, but after I asked the reader@刚刚刚刚刚刚, I prefer to believe this simple statement.

After the unblocking in Shanghai in June, she has been looking for a job.

There are a lot of resumes, but there are very few interviews. The company I want to go without interview opportunities has no interview opportunities ...

She closed and started overeating. Even if she still wanted to fill my stomach, "I must be sick and I can't control the desire to eat."

Open the phone and watch the price of psychological counseling, 800 yuan in 50 minutes, equivalent to 16 yuan per minute.

She immediately dispelled her thoughts: "I am still led the business, and I will pay the rent again. The 2,000 unemployment funds are not enough for me to pay." … Tolerate it again. "

She seemed to experience the crazy "two kinds of hunger."

This is also what Li Cangdong said in the movie "Burning", the hunger dilemma suffered by modern people:

"There are two types of hunger in this world, one is Little HUGER, which refers to physiological hunger and material poverty; the other is a Great HUNGER, which refers to a person who is hungry for life, that is, the barren people."

That is the lack of deletion from your life, devouring your willpower, you want to be courageous, and you try to persist.

Think about Jiang Wen's words again. If you continue to ask, it means that you still have doubts, unwilling, and expectations.

Because you believe there is any way to make your hungry yourself full first. With this strength, life will not be worse.

@, Of course, trying to come out. "I felt that I no longer loved life anymore, but not.

Occasionally, if I can go shopping, I can heal me when I can go shopping.

"After 8 o'clock Hema, I saw the yellow label of the discount on the product, and I will be excited briefly."

She also went to the offline art class and bought a PAD to learn illustration. "I wanted to be an artist when I was a kid."

Since life has to continue, what can you make yourself happy now, why not do it immediately?

She no longer cares about the results of the results. This is the courage she got after watching "Infute and Excellence" and "The Courage of Beautiful".

She also told me generously: "I haven't come out yet, but it will always be good."

Therefore, if a person starts to be dissatisfied and unconvinced at the moment, this is often a signal bullet where his life will start to rebound.

Psychologist Jung said a word, I remember it for a long time:

"Human beings grow like plants, some are bright, some are dark. Many times they rely on darkness, not light."

@K.d. When preparing for the exam in World War II, I did not go out or not, and I was locked at home every day, but I felt that there was no progress.

"I am like a dam full of water. As long as there is a crack, I will collapse the entire embankment. I dare not tell anyone, as if the mouth is opened, the crack will appear."

She walked by the river aimlessly, and for the first time, she had the idea of "I don't want to live":

"I sat on the fence, watching a small wooden stick in the water, floating from a distance to me, and floating into the distance along the water."

Uncle fishing next to him didn't watch the fish drifting, staring at her, afraid that she would jump the river if she couldn't think of it.

"I don't want to affect the uncle's fishing. When I walked to the shallow water, I suddenly saw a fish. It jumped out of the water. I don't know if it is because of the sunlight or the color of the fish scales. I think it is a big golden fish."

She told me that at that moment, she felt that she was the "daughter of the heavenly selection" who was lucky to be selected--

"Not everyone has a chance, you can see such a big golden carp!" △ She saw the "lucky river" of the golden carp

When she walked back, she saw a lot of people: the young couple holding hands, the mother who pushed the baby car, and the old man with the radio.

I feel that the idea of just now is naive: "Life is so long, I have to go forward, there are still different scenery in front, you can't miss it."

This kind of unwilling comfort,@ZY has deep understanding.

Her father died unexpectedly when he was 50 years old. "Everyone cared about my mother at the funeral, and for the first time, I became a real adult.

She refused to comfort her friend, and no one wanted to see it. She walked home with heavy rain. "Suddenly, no one would protect me in the future." Girlfriend sent her WeChat: "I will accompany you tomorrow, I can't refuse, don't say it if I don't want to speak, don't say it, don't say it, don't say it. I just want to give you my shoulders. "

She cried and found that there were still many people in the world who loved her, and this was also the beginning of her willingness to open herself and accept others.

Now, the wind in the ear is blowing, the stars in the sky are flashing, and the clouds are moving--

"I think he is thinking of me. I want to bring his strength to live better."

Those curved life may return to normal as long as they are not broken. As long as you are willing to believe it.

Finally, I also want to share with you a super -classic clip of "Old Friends "--

In the first episode, Rachel fled to her high school classmate Monica.

She originally wanted to marry a dentist to be Mrs. Kuo, even if she didn't love each other.

Her dad was furious and no longer gave her money.

The wealthy lady who has supported the survival has had to be a waiter for self -reliance and cut off all credit cards.

Later, Monica gave her a big hug: "Welcome to the real world, it is terrible, but you will like it."

This sentence and this hug are still the source of the dark power of me.

In fact, you don't need to be confused and anxious for "Is this world better "-

The "unstable" and "crisis" we feel are the ups and downs of the times, but it is by no means a complete collapse.

Xu Yiyun once said something to young people this year, I want to share it with you--

I want to tell young people that the world is always changing. This year, it is reminded that the world is quiet.

... Natural disasters, diseases, artificial mistakes, suspicion between people, and the discord between the country and the country make me feel ominous, so in the face of this future, young people Please prepare yourself.

The world is like the past. There are always many unpredictable storms to come. You are always preparing to face the wind and clouds at all times, don't mess up, don't panic.

Although I don't know if the world will be better, don't be disappointed, at least people in this era face you with you.

Each generation needs to experience the ups and downs of their time, and it needs to float in some waves.

The waves may make you temporarily sink, but it is undeniable that you can rebound again through the waves.

Ben Furman said: When people face difficulties, frustrations, and pressure, their survivability is called back.

We can be bent, but cannot be broken. People must always maintain a toughness and go to life to live seriously.

The effect of force is mutual, the worse your life, the greater the rebound force you will be with it at this moment. As long as you are willing to move, everything is developing well. Yu Xi believes that we all have the ability to find the rebound of life, and to have a better place with this courage and tenacity; I hope Yuxi Gold Cream will accompany you to give the skin and tighten the skin and rebound young.