The reason why Yu Feihong was single found

Before the Battle of Rose, the audience's appetite was hung. There are two goddesses of Yuan Quan and Yu Feihong starring.

After the start of the broadcast, Yishui bad reviews.

The good "Battle of Rose" became the "Battle of Skin".

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At a glance, both of them had smooth and flat faces, and the thick filter appeared that the overall picture was extremely cheap.

The charm of their most prominent mature women was grinded by thousands of beauty filters.

The show seems to have forgotten that "the years have never been defeated."

The traces of the years are not afraid of these two goddesses.

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Not long ago, Xiao Shi talked about Yuan Quan, and this time I came to talk about another goddess Yu Feihong.

Talking about Yu Feihong, the first adjective jumping from many people's minds is "beauty", which is too beautiful.

Xu Zhiyuan talked with her, staring at her face, and swayed unconsciously, and suddenly a phrase "You really look good", making her laugh;

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Performance guidance Jiang Ruoyu described her as a "crystal container", which is transparent or glass container, which is not beautiful enough. It must be crystal texture and reflect light.

After the audience saw the "Shocking Fairy" played in "Little Li Fei Dao", she couldn't help but admire "after Feihong, no more amazing" ...

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"Beauty" became her label, but she didn't care.

In this life, she has been walking on the way to chasing freedom.

No matter what to pay and what to give up, she just wants freedom.

Just like her name, a wild goose hovering in the sky.

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Beauty and not knowing

In 1971, Yu Feihong was born in a high -profile family in Hangzhou. His parents were high -profile students, and her father graduated from Tsinghua University. She received the most traditional education.

She was trained as a good girl since she was a child, and she couldn't hear the voice of three meters away.

Every night, she has to write 60 brush characters to sleep, and she has to read books at home in the summer vacation.

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However, in the eyes of the neighbors, Yu Feihong was a doll when she was a child. Everyone rushed to weaving sweaters, clothes, and school. Someone always took her in the kindergarten door.

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For a long time, she was beautiful and unknown, and no one in the family said that she looked good, and her father told her:

"You must make the inside full, don't make an embroidered pillow straw bag."

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It wasn't until high school that Yu Feihong realized that he had a beautiful privilege.

Once, the most fierce boy in the class, beating with some young girls, rolling around the ground, and riding on the other party.

But the boy would quietly stuff her delicious food.

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When she went to the Beijing art test with six or seven boys, the people returned to the train posted people. Everyone couldn't stand it. Some people suddenly suggested that she would ask her to change the place for everyone.

In this way, they were successfully taken to a spacious and cool post.

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The university's Yu Feihong, in the beautiful Northern Power, is also a famous school flower. More than only the students in our school, but even the boys from foreign schools run thousands of miles to see her.

She likes puppies, and the senior boys have raised a puppy together and took turns to walk with her.

However, this inherently beautiful privilege has not satisfied her, and she has always regarded this praise as "goodwill."

At that time, she was always thinking about how to find freedom.

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Look for freedom

She feels that she has always been restrained, whether it is her body or the soul, it seems to be locked by the iron chain.

When she was a child, she hoped to grow to 30 years old, because "a 30 -year -old woman looks like a look of the master."

So she began to escape after another.

Escape from her familiar hometown, regardless of her parents' opposition, after a year of college in Hangzhou, she dropped out of school to take the college entrance examination, test Beidian, and go to the distant Beijing.

But this escape did not make her free. "I thought I would come to Beijing and Satsu, it turned out not."

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She discovered her unwillingness in her personality.

She didn't dare to get angry. She had a contradiction with her roommate. She obviously thought about what to say, but after the other party came back, she couldn't say anything, and she could only kick her washbasin to vent.

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She couldn't say no, in some occasions, she watched the time passing by every minute, but she didn't dare to propose that she wanted to go.

She will not express too intense emotions.

The idea of ​​escaping was germinated again.

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On the other hand, she is also a good girl in the eyes of adults.

The university did not dare to fall in love, concentrate on studying, and did not stay late at once. She went to bed at 11:30. Her high self -discipline made her the first in the class.

Until graduation, she became the only student who had obtained a place to stay in school.

After staying at school, she did not live in a school -assigned dormitory, but rented the house herself. She wanted to install a phone call.

She understands and grateful for the enthusiasm of others, but she "hates herself succumb to such dependence."

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She was not satisfied with her work. Every time she met in the department, she was particularly reluctant to speak, and always retreated guilty. Because she feels that her acting experience is too shallow, there is nothing to teach students.

No matter what is right, she can't find a lifestyle that can make herself comfortable. She wants to achieve it, but she doesn't know how to do it.

The idea of ​​escaping is getting stronger and stronger.

One year later, Yu Feihong decided to resign from the faculty, with a passport, a foreign language, and a credit card, to the United States.

It is three years.

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The harvest during this period is huge. There are no acquaintances in a foreign country. You can only come by yourself. For example, changing light bulbs, driving, doing various certificates, helping friends bargain

She no longer needs to yield to dependence. The most important thing is that she learned to express anger.

One day after dinner, at a crossroads, Yu Feihong was almost hit by a flying car.

I don't know where the courage came from, she rushed angrily, kicking the other party's car tires, and exhausted all the English swear words she knew.

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26 years, this is the first time she has experienced a feeling of expressing anger.

Just like an explorer who discovered a treasure, she opened an unknown world, "opening and discovering that the sky is bright."

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Although she will not be angry afterwards, she overcomes her inner fear and truly expands the degree of freedom of life:

"I may not need a person to face a lot of things. I can choose not to do some things, but I need to know that I can do it, so that I feel that it is really free."

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Summon in the underworld

In 1996, on a flight to and from the United States, Yu Feihong accidentally opened a novel "Ginkgo, Ginkgo".

This story about "miss" instantly poke her heart:

In order to get revenge, Ajiu married the enemy's brother Amin, but fell in love with him in the same time. The two met in the afterlife. Aming turned into a lonely soul and waited under the ginkgo tree for 50 years, but Ajiu married Other people.

The fate is like her mind, "I always think about it, I can't forget it."

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In the second year, Yu Feihong returned from the United States. Director Yang Yang was preparing a TV series "Hand in Hand" and wanted to invite her to act as the heroine Xia Xiaoxue.

However, after watching the script after watching the script, she picked up the second female Wang Chun. She just graduated from a university and plugged in the "Primary Three" of the marriage of the male and female lead.

It's just because she "just returned home at that time, similar to her situation, her career just started, and she could find a fulcrum in the performance."

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After "Holding Hand" was broadcast, Yu Feihong was on fire.

At the same time, the freedom she longed for disappearing.

The film is constantly, and the busy work is full of her life,

So she began to escape.

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She thought of the novel she had never forgotten many years ago. After buying the copyright, she hadn't found a suitable person to shoot.

A friend woke her, "Why don't you shoot yourself?"

The story seemed to summon her in the meditation, and she didn't want to pierce with her.

In that period of silence, Yu Feihong did not shoot anymore, and wrote the script at home.

I wrote many times and wanted to hit the wall. "I really want to hit the wall, I especially want to hit the wall." If you ca n’t write it, you can find a friend ’s party. When you come back, you can write it.

In order to make this movie, she also mortgaged her house and took out her life.

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She is not a person who is good at communicating, but she also knows her life.

However, when making a movie, she had to let go of the quiet part of her personality. She struggled with various departments every day to dispute the internal structure of the scene with the art group, and hook up the pots and pans in the house.

During the shooting, she felt despair for the first time:

"Nothing in my life made me feel tormented until I prepared this movie."

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The shooting place is in Yunnan. In order to set the scene, she took the crew to the deep mountains of three kilometers above sea level. There were no lanes and could only walk.

She also invited more than 70 migrant workers to move things. The actors turned on their makeup under the mountains, and took her own things, step by step, and climbed for 45 minutes to reach.

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This is not the most desperate, and the worse thing is that the local rainy season arrived in advance.

At the beginning, the rain stopped intermittently, and a few shots could be taken every day.

Later, the rain continued, 24 hours a day continuously, the crew consumes hundreds of thousands of yuan every day, and faces the dilemma that has to be evacuated.

She stood in front of the window and looked at the rain outside. I didn't know how long it was standing. There was no sadness inside, but a blank:

"It turns out that when the thing you don't want to happen, it is not angry, nor sad, but blank."

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In 2009, "Love There is a Life" was released.

On the subtitles before the movie played, the producer and producer were Yu Feihong, the screenwriter, director, and starring, all Yu Feihong.

A friend joked with her, "It is recommended to write in the beginning: just Yu Feihong!"

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The film has invested more than 40 million, and the box office is not high. The outside world rumors are 2 million. Regardless of the true or false, it is certain that she has not earned money.

This is her first film, or the last one.

It's not because of the box office, because she said that she couldn't make a movie in 10 years:

"How many years have a person? I know I have done a very luxurious thing."

The film's loss could not affect her, she just completed something she wanted to do.

This is also a kind of freedom, a freedom to follow the inner call.

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"Life itself is meaningless"

After years of precipitation, now Yu Feihong has found her freedom.

People often ask her: What do you think of your beauty?

From a young age, she has heard her ears about to praise her beauty, but she has not been a cold about it:

"I have no sense of pride, because I have no contribution or creativity to it on this, so I don't think I can be proud of this matter."

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For the external evaluation, she is very open, no matter whether it is good or bad, she does not want to let herself waste time in an unable to do it:

"Who do you see? Who do you want to see? Who is so important to me? The audience? You think it is good, and you think it is shit, and it’ s okay. You are at most five minutes after tea.

"Parents? You will always be their beloved children, always so important, there is nothing to prove. Friends? They don't care more."

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For marriage, her most talked about an interview in "Three People Three". Her rational restraint was once regarded by netizens as an old man's demon mirror.

In the show, Dou Wentao was obviously not polite with the problem of prejudice. When he arrived in Yu Feihong, he was dumb.

—— Why has it been single to the present?

I don't think this is a problem, I think it is more comfortable at which stage.

—— Do you think the old one is staying alone and is normal?

There are many friends around me. Their spiritual world is very rich. I don't think this can be separated from men and women. Will women single be abnormal?

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Now she is sure not to marry and children.

Because she feels that the marriage is a shelf life, and she will lose her freedom to get in the process of maintaining marriage, so she would rather not.

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In the entertainment industry, Yu Feihong's career achievements are really not good.

Yuan Quan, who starred in "The Battle of Rose" with her. Before the play, she won the Baihua Award.

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But Yu Feihong was glad that he was not given too much talent, "just keep mediocre."

This idea appeared after reading Fan Gao Chuan Ji:

"I don't want to be a genius. Genius must be painful. I just want to be a mediocre person. I feel peaceful in my life, calm and happy, and not pain is the most important. I give up anything that makes me pain."

She believes "life itself is meaningless." In this case, why not let yourself be happy and comfortable?

"I don't like imbalances in my life. Many norms. I don't want to break it. I break your responsibility, bear the consequences, and be more stable."

After turning around, she returned the original obedient girl.

The difference is that this was actively chosen after she had seen the thousands of worlds, not forced.

This is exactly the freedom of life.

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After leaving my hometown, I went to Beijing to find it. After graduation, I also went to the United States to give up a stable faculty in the United States.

"I want to perceive everything in my life."

Either mediocre or a good girl, she just wants to bloom in her world, just like she said:

"I like pale, you have to know, I like it bland, this is what I want, I don't have a life that wants to be pale."

At the end of the story, the wild goose hovered a large circle in the huge sky, returned to the origin, and left the traces of her flying through the sky.

Clicking "watching", I hope everyone can find their most comfortable lifestyle and the most free life.

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Reference materials:

1. Character "Yu Feihong: Crystal Container"

2. Sanlian Life Weekly "Yu Feihong's" Unsurprising ""

3. "Thirteen Invitations" and "Three People"

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