Only by understanding "Jane Love" to understand that the root of a person's happiness is not from the background, not the family, but ...

If you want to select a book that women must read in their lives, "Jane Love" will definitely be on the list.

"Jane Love" tells the story of a woman who has lost her parents and lonely since she was a child, on the road of suffering from all kinds of hardships, relying on her own toughness and upright line to break through the obstacles, and finally harvested a happy life.

After more than 170 years, "Jane Love" still prevails, and has been deeply loved by countless readers.

British writer Sacley said this was "a masterpiece of a great genius."

The story of the whole book is not complicated. What tells is only the joy and sorrow in personal emotional life, but it can resonate many people.

When you read "Jane · Love", you will understand that the root of a person's happiness is to have these 4 kinds of life wisdom.

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It is a toughness in the suffering

Jane loves her parents since she was a child, and was fostered in her aunt's house. The cousin John made her difficulty in her, and she beat her all over the body.

In 10 years of suffering from the suffering, the viciousness of the aunt, the prejudice of the servant, the cousin's brutal, the contempt of my cousin, and the all kinds of damage, instead of making Jane love yielding, instead made her increasingly tough.

The happiest moment of love is to climb up the window sill and hide behind the red curtains and read books quietly.

Only reading can make her temporarily forget the pain around.

Reading is a way to grow yourself. Once life starts, the world will give you way.

Getting the internal power because of reading, let Jian Ai always follow his heart, and has not lost the courage to live.

At the age of 10, Jane Aiyin and his cousin conflicted and were locked into the "horrible" red house by his aunt. After Jane Ai's stubborn resistance, her aunt sent the rebellious Jane Ai to the Luowu De School.

The school is severe in the school, the living environment is difficult, and starving is the norm.

The worst is the crazy rash of murder typhoid fever, and it took the lives of many children.

In the 8 years of Luowood, Ai Ai was be destroyed by spiritual and physical.

However, this purgatory living environment did not scare her down, but made her grow more stubbornly.

She buried a lot of reading, learning French, piano, and painting, continuously surpassed herself, and finally stayed in school with excellent grades to become a teacher, and gradually gained independent survival in growth.

She has experienced the alone time of self -cultivation and continuously exploring in the spiritual field, so as to complete the growth journey of self -soul.

Inaro and husband once said:

"The pressure and setbacks you encounter are just the best opportunities for self -practice.

"No matter what kind of situation you are, what kind of people and things you encounter are hone your mind, enhance your ability, and achieve your life."

Who will not encounter frustration in the road of life? Who will not be bumpy?

Only when you don't stop learning in the sharpening and turn despair into hope, you will find deeper wisdom of life.

Only when you do not give up growing up in suffering and treat the shackles as wings, can you reach a new height of life.

Self -discipline

It is a kind of education in the heart

At the age of 18, Jane Ai decided to leave the school and try a new life. Later, she successfully applied to Santofield Manor to become a tutor.

Jane's quiet, compassionate, frank, frank, independent and stubborn personality charm, quickly attracted the male owner of the manor Rochester.

Rochester is weird, sometimes arrogant and indifferent, sometimes enthusiastic and kind.

Although he was rich in property, his heart was depressed, and his confusing was attractive to Jane and love.

They have a lot of common topics, and the existence of Jane Eyre made Rochester, who has gone through the vicissitudes of the soul for many years.

They love each other.

The moment the wedding was held in the church, the secrets hidden in Sanfield Manor were revealed.

It turned out that Rochester had already married, and his wife was the crazy woman who was imprisoned in the attic.

Rochester, who is desperate for life because of his marriage, has escaped many times to find joy in other countries until he meets Jane.

After the marriage of the marriage was revealed, Jane Love could not bear it emotionally, and was deceived and trapped in deep pain.

Rochester decided to bring Jane to southern France and live in a luxurious villa on the Mediterranean coast. He forgot the past right and wrong, and began a new life in a strange environment.

Jane Eye refused, she never allowed herself to marry a woman. This is immoral and contrary to her beliefs and principles.

Jane loves her heart honestly. She should not be ambiguous and entangled. She will never stay and let her conscience be tortured and whip, otherwise, the soul will never be peaceful.

She resolutely left Rochester and left the Sanfield Manor.

See this sentence:

"The trains of life are going to move forward and endlessly. The most important driving force is not wealth, not love, but morality."

Without morality, all the wealth and emotions obtained by people will only hinder the movement of the trains.

In the relationship, there is no right or wrong, but there is politeness and shame.

Some emotions must know how to let go; some choices must follow moral supreme.

Facing the temptation, women should have an unambiguous moral border, keep the inner heart alone, and treat this dusty firework with a dust -free heart.

Inner heart

It is a kind of indifference to life growth

When I was young, the servants talked in private: "If she is a beautiful child, she is a beauty like Miss George Anna, and people may sympathize with her tragic encounter. But she is ugly like a small toad, she No one will pitiful her. "

Yes, Jane Love looks too ugly, really makes everyone unable to like it. Although everyone knows that she is pitiful, no one really sympathize with her.

In the process of growing up, Jane Eyre has been ugly because of her ugly, and she has been suffering from malicious eyes and ridicule from the people from an early age.

Once the self -confidence was destroyed, the heart was surrounded by inferiority, and even when facing feelings and work, the soul could not bloom.

However, as Jane Eya matured, when she faced the sincere feelings in front of her, she told the other party righteous:

"Do you think I'm poor, low, not beautiful, short, and I don't have a soul, no heart? You think wrong, I have the same soul as you are, and the two of us are also standing in front of God, equal."

Jane is not humble.

The ugly duckling also has spring, and Cinderella can also meet the prince. The humble weeds in the stone bumps will also emit a unique fragrance.

The abundance of the soul can surpass all the appearance of all appearances.

The quietness and cultivation of Ai Ai because of reading has become a unique scenery in the crowd. It is completely different from those secular women who are obsessed with vanity and pursuit of glittering.

Perhaps, it is precisely because of this inner temperament that is not polluted by secular body that attracts Rochester, who has always been indifferent, and let him have a different feeling for her.

The romantic love story is not all handsome men and women. In this world, the fairy relatives who are flat, but the soul fits together.

Jane's noble and abundant soul is comparable to any beautiful girl shaped in any era or artistic work.

Cai Chongda mentioned in the book "Skin":

"Outside, in fact, nothing, just skin.

"In time, the skin will eventually grow old, and all the glorious will be swallowed by folds. And the soul will not, this soul includes the road you have passed, what you have experienced, and your life."

Women who are full of souls will not be empty, they will not inferior to the appearance, but have the ability to think independently and a maverick personality.

She can place her heart and enjoy the quietness of the current uniqueness.

She knows self -nourishing, and her soul will always exuding aroma.

Economic independence

Is a kind of confidence of a woman's happiness

In the Britain of Charlotte, most of the only goal of women was to marry a wealthy man and gain wealth and status through marriage.

However, Jane is different.

She has the ability to work, and she has her own insistence on anyone, and she has the confidence that she keeps leave at any time.

When Jane Ai was proposed, the male host Rochester couldn't wait to bring her to the satin and jewelry stores, and attempted to let Jane Love the hard work of the tutor immediately.

But Jian Ai said firmly:

"Sorry, sir, I will never give up, I have to continue doing it as usual."

She wants to continue to be Adele's family teacher to earn salary by work and solve her own accommodation costs. She does not need to rely entirely on the other party.

When Rochester's marriage was revealed, he collapsed to leave with Jane and love to leave this right and wrong.

But Jane Love will not be trapped by wealth and feelings.

After a while, she escaped, and with the help of the pastor St. John, she came to a village teacher in central Britain.

Women with independent consciousness have a strong survivability at any time, with both the courage to reject others and the courage to re -come back.

She obeyed her inner voice, rejected Rev. John's proposal, and assigned the huge legacy of her uncle to my cousin.

When she returned to Sanfield Mansion and visited the man who had been thinking about Rochester, she found that the manor was burned into ruins, Berhasha jumped off the building and died. The man was blind to save the crazy wife.

Jane love is not disgusted, and he firmly chooses a Rochester as his lifelong partner.

She has enough confidence to take care of her lover.

Because of economic independence, she has the foundation of pursuing freedom and happiness, and finally gained a happy marriage and happiness.

Carnegie said in the book "The Women's Future Decisive Ending":

"Economic independent women, with their ability to create happiness, they do not need to please and rely on men.

"Marriage is just cake for them."

Economic independent women do not attach or dependence, no matter where they go, they are a beautiful landscape.

They are not afraid of external disturbances, they are fulfilling and determined, and they live a lifetime according to their wishes.

Written at the end

Ding Limei said in "Let every day see joy":

"The biggest capital of life is yourself.

"Only when you work hard to make yourself fill and make your life exuding its aroma, it will attract butterflies."

Jane's orphan who never knows the world has transformed all the way. She told us many life truths and taught us many life wisdom:

Choosing to study is a toughness in suffering;

Moral self -discipline is a kind of education in the heart; abundant heart is a kind of indifference to life growth;

Economic independence is a kind of confidence for women's happiness.

In everyone's life, whether it is life, emotions, or work, they may encounter a trough.

No matter what kind of bumpy time you go through, as long as you work hard, you will be able to get out of the predicament; as long as moral self -discipline, you will not be lost in feelings;possibility.

For the rest of your life, I hope you are like Jian · Love, your heart is more beautiful and abundant, life is more open -minded and blooms, and life is happier and complete.

Author: Su Shier, this article first published a name listening (ID: dushu3690), accompanied by the same name, accompanied by listening, masterpieces with you, listen to the classics of Chinese learning, and master Chinese and foreign masterpieces!Please contact the masterpiece to listen to the book.The source of this article: the movie "Jane · Love".

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