Liu Yifei "Menghua Record" hit: What is the woman of Sanguanzheng, what is it like

Author: insight allergy

The most sexy woman is actually her three views.

The biggest explosion in 2022 appeared.

Since the start of the broadcast, the Douban score starring Liu Yifei has soared all the way, and it has forced 8.8 points to become the highest domestic drama of the year.

In the play, Zhao Pan'er, who is smart and sensitive, and Sun Sanniang, who is bold, and the naive Song Yinzhang, forms the "Beijing Drifting" group of the Song Dynasty.

At the beginning, all three people hoped to change their destiny to depend on men, but they were injured by scum men all over the body.

Under the discouraged, the three sisters began to redeem each other and fight against social prejudice together.

After reading "Menghua Record", I realized what the women of Sanguanzheng looked like.

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Marriage concept: who lived with himself. Writer Liang Wendao said, "Either a man or a woman. Without the ability to live in his own life, then he has no ability to live a good life with others."

Marriage has never been a relationship between rescue and being rescued. It is often a disaster to treat marriage as a shelter, and to pin your happiness on the other half.

In "Menghua Record", Song Yinzhang, who was regarded by the heroine Zhao Pan'er as her sister, was a typical confused beauty at the beginning.

Because she was in a cheap, she could not be redeemed for life. She was often looked down on, and she was very inferior over time.

As a result, she always pinned her future on men.

When she met the wealthy businessman Zhou She, who was "rich and beautiful, loved her like a treasure", like a drowning person grabbed the life -saving straw, he elopeed with Zhou She less than half a month.

I thought that I could find a good person and had to be free, but I never thought that Zhou She was a wine gambler who pretended to be a wealthy businessman.

After marriage, she not only cheated her deposit, but also often violently against her and tied her as a dog.

"Marrying a person, I asked for half a life." This sentence is used to describe Song Yinzhang.

"My First Half Life" said: "No one will become a shelter in your life and this life. Only yourself is your last asylum."

But in life, many women have paid all of them for their families and men, and attached themselves to them.

In the end, it is often a complete and crushed.

In the play, Sun Sanniang married an incompetent husband. He relied on killing pigs to support him every day. After giving birth to his son Fu Zifang, he rushed to his son again.

As a result, she was expelled from her husband and son, almost lost her heart.

She couldn't understand as a mother and wife, and she paid everything or even her life, and she still couldn't get respect.

At this time, Zhao Pan'er woke up with a word: "You are called Sun Sanniang, but not only Fu Zifang's mother."

McMilun, a well -known American relationship expert, ended with failure.

Later, in a speech, she put forward a stunning point: marry herself.

"I can never feel complete, if I don't learn to love myself. Now I am married, and I really want to get married with someone I really want to be together -myself."

In the practice of life, when you come to the end, you will find that marriage, who lives with him, actually live with yourself.

Women of Sanguanzheng knows how to escape the chips on themselves and live for themselves.

Only when you get better, the talents around you will be nice to you.

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The outlook on life: not entanglement is the best success for yourself. Writer Bai Luomei sighed: If the affection of people can be free, it will start when they start, and they will go to the field without nostalgia or entanglement, how good it should be!

Life, the most afraid of and wrong, can't be tangled.

In "Menghua Record", Zhao Pan'er loved the scholar Ouyang Xu deeply, and has been funding to support him in the three years when he is studying.

He was waiting for his marriage after he was in high school. He never thought that he didn't expect to come to love, but only waited for betrayal.

Ouyang Xu explored the flowers in high school, and suspected that Zhao Pan'er's identity was low, so he was poor to lift his marriage contract, and even recovered the love object with 80 two golds.

Interesting, Nianhua is no longer.

Even at such a sad moment, Zhao Pan'er still maintained reason.

While deliberately asked the family slave to delay the time of "talking about high prices and fees", while preparing to enter Beijing, I asked Ouyang Xu to ask in person.

After arriving in Tokyo, it was confirmed that Ouyang Xu really regretted marriage to marry the daughter of senior officials for the sake of the career.

Without self -violence, self -resentment, but after timely stop loss, a wave of anti -routing operations came -proposed three requirements to Ouyang Xu to meet her and agreed to retire, without dragging water.

In the subsequent time, she has always maintained an attitude: not entanglement, not recalled, and no contact.

Because of this, she can calmly enter the next love.

There is a saying good: "You are entangled, and you will find that you have lost more things."

Life is short, entangled with bad people, it will only make yourself more painful.

The women with three views have a wide range of insights, and they know how to let go of the break and stay away from the bad people.

Tesla founder Musk's mother, after nine years after being violent, drags courage to divorce, and start a new life again.

She is still in her 70s and is still active on the model stage.

I can't imagine what kind of unfortunate life is if she did not choose timely stop loss at the time?

Ji De said: "If there is no courage to stay away from the coastline and drift lonely at sea for a long time, then you must not find the new continent."

Not entangled seeing others, but in fact, letting go of yourself. Only by letting go can we meet better people and do better things.

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Career view: Maintain the ability to make money and live as your own backing. Hemingway said: "Every life must be engaged in a certain career, and everyone who lives on the earth has the obligation to live in their own lives."

Many people think that the biggest career of a woman's life is to find a good destination.

But there is no eternal fairy tale in this world, and the sense of security from others is finally fragile.

The real confidence of a woman is to have their own cause.

Zhao Pan'er was bumpy in his life. When he was 6 years old, his family fell, his parents died, begging for a living, he was sold out, and he was sold to a cheap place.

In the face of all the difficulties of life, she did not admit her life, but worked hard to cultivate her skills, and finally broke away from the cheap status at the age of 16.

After breaking up with Ouyang Xuen, she began to start a business and became the shopkeeper of Yong'an Building, the largest restaurant in the city.

Just like what she said: "Women are expensive and self -reliant, once you want to rely on others, you have weaknesses."

Careers allow them to have a armor that resists malicious life, and also allows the future to have more possibilities.

Zhang Youyi, a strange woman in the Republic of China, has not been respected after dropping out of school and marrying Xu Zhimo.

It wasn't until the day of the divorce that she realized: "No matter what happened, I don't rely on anyone, but I have to stand up by my own two feet."

So, she learned a fluent German and entered German universities to specialize in early childhood education.

After returning to China, she first taught at Soochow University. Later, she was hired by Shanghai Women's Bank as vice president and became a legendary female strong man in the financial industry.

Her efforts not only changed their fate, but also won Xu Zhimo's respect:

"I thought she was weak and ignorant, but when I left her, she lived more beautifully and could make money. It was a great woman."

Career can not only bring wealth, but also bring a sense of value.

As Yao Chen said in "Star Speaking": "Because of hard work, I have the right to choose, so that I have the courage to face the cruelty of life."

The really powerful woman does not have to be outstanding and proud of her body, but must have a reliable three views.

They have thoughts and vision, and at any time, they keep themselves the ability to make money and live as their own backbone.

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Yishu wrote in "My First Half Life":

"The person I admire the most is myself, and only I will help myself, spend one mountain and mountain, and overcome the difficulties again and again."

After watching "Menghua Record", I found that the sexiest of women is actually her three views.

Whether it is Zhao Pan'er, Sun Sanniang, or Song Yinzhang, they are telling us the same truth: loved ones love yourself first, and conspire first.

A person is only worthy of being lived in the eyes of others.

Like a praise, I hope you can take care of and have the courage to be independent.

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