"Every time I see you, I should be the last side ..."

Recently, a report "Preparation of a Family Meeting in the Anning Ward" tells the end of the end of life, the moving story between doctors, patients, and family members, and moved many netizens.

Source: CCTV News "Relatration Theory"

People will encounter farewell in the morning evening, let us grow up, and learn to say goodbye to let us mature. Whether it is active or passively facing, it is somewhat sad to say goodbye, but farewell also contains hope.

Behind each paragraph farewell, there are stories, and the farewell one after another constitutes a hundred attitudes in the world.

"Some farewell, the fixing is not completed

When Grandpa left, I couldn't rush to him because of work problems. For a long time, this is a wound that I can't meet in my heart. I don't think I have farewell to him. I still have a lot of words to say to him in person, I think he should think so. Grandpa and me were the closest people in the world.

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"Some farewell, it is the accompanying companion who is not away

At the end of last year, the old cat who raised 23 years left. Prior to this, its body had a variety of aging symptoms, but we supported it together and created one after another. When I was farewell, I cleaned it for the last time, trying to make it as beautiful as during my lifetime, and left a pinch of wool in a small bottle. It is a super personality meow. On another planet, you should be satisfied with this decent farewell.

—@@卡 卡

"Some farewell, slowly release it in the description

Grandma is a sad person. After his grandfather died, he became a taboo topic with his grandmother. But I know that any pain needs to be exported, and my grandmother has not found her way.

In a family gathering, she turned out the dusty album for a long time and suddenly opened the box. Speaking of her and her grandfather knows in the factory, her grandfather is a guy with vigorously. She is proud in the factory and does not accept anyone, but she only listens to her. The grandfather also likes to brag with her and will write to her. She also mentioned the difficulties in the past, saying that the family was poor at the time and could not afford to eat, and her grandfather grabbed her snails in the field.

After these exchanges were completed, I felt that the knot of the heart of my grandmother's heart for so many years was unbuttoned.

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"Some farewell, with the regrets of the future consciousness

After my dad died, I often regretted why I was always used to hitting the ideas of his twilight years, and of course I ignored those wishes ... I always told him "pull down" and "What do you miss" and "Let's talk about it." When I was a kid, I said that I like to play billiards, and he bought a billiard case at home without saying a word. Time makes people slowly realize that all the accidental stupidity they have ever regrets can never be regretted.

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"Some farewell, I still try to live calmly in the moment

When the doctor told me that my mother had only about half a year left, I crouched the corridor and cried for a long time. Back to the bed, my mother seemed to understand everything, pulled me to her, and said calmly: Fear is the worst thing in life, and fear is the real enemy. Sickness is just a different life experience.

She was so calm, even at the most uncomfortable time, she was taking care of the feelings of the people around her. The doctor praised her as a "model patient" and could find a healthy balance between "optimism and reality." And my mother did give me the best life education in the last days:

Even if the results of tomorrow are not good, it is a particularly beautiful day to stay with your family at this moment.

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"About farewell, everyone has their own understanding

Farewell is "see one side, earn one side".

--@plum

I have been watching science fiction movies since I was a child. I have always believed that in the future, human beings may have technology to let those who died "come back". Thinking of love is just a long holiday, I am happy for them. —@Rekaren

When the real difference is coming, I don't want the people around me to keep secrets to me and play a show with a smile, which will make us unable to relax at the last moment of life, so that camouflage and goodwill lies are isolated from each other. Valuable preparation time.

—@小

I have applied for donations on the Internet, so that useful organs will continue to exert their heat in the world. It doesn't seem to be so terrible to leave, and there may be regrets, but I accept this regret.

--@flute

Knowing farewell is not terrible, we can better plan farewell. Living is not purely to extend life, the quality of life is more important. This matter is about ourselves, and the one we love. Just like when the cherry blossoms are perfectly blooming, everyone remembers its glory, and when it is fading, we must also send respect and blessings for this sad curtain curtain.

—@阿@

Farewell is a red line that reminds sentient beings: if you want to do it, don't wait.

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