Hong Kong goddess 1 group of small restaurants sneak shots, why do I realize why they can avoid being reduced to low -level people

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Previously, some netizens met Chen Huilin, a well -known Hong Kong goddess in Hong Kong in Hong Kong, and were so excited that they could not help themselves.

On the same day, netizens dine in a small restaurant. It was dining time. The narrow restaurant seemed very crowded and the environment was very noisy.

Chen Huilin, who appeared in the restaurant, wore an orange -red V -neck skirt that day, with exquisite makeup on her face, and talked with the assistant while walking.

After entering the restaurant, Chen Huilin and the assistant found a seat in the restaurant and watched it for a long time. Later, under the leadership of the waiter, he found a small table.

The two were crowded in a small table, and they did not dislike them at all, and their words and deeds were very grounded.

On the other side, the two male customers sitting at the next table of Chen Huilin seemed to recognize her, but they just noticed politely and did not disturb too much.

Even if a big star is in front of him, everyone seems to treat them as ordinary diners and keep a rational distance.

Compared to a large -name star in our mainland, there are countless people surrounded by people. The outflow of this group of restaurants is really commendable.

I remember that in an interview, Hong Kong film emperor Liang Jiahui told a very worried fact:

"In Hong Kong, there will be no bodyguards to follow celebrities and artists on the street. Few people go to watch and sought after. Do you know why?

Friends in the Mainland can come to Hong Kong to see why stars are not sought after.

Because they know that celebrities have nothing to do with their lives, but doctors, teachers, and science and technology workers are respected by citizens, because they are people who really contribute to society. "

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In the final analysis, different treatments for celebrities are contributed by different values ​​between people. Some people are willing to spend a lot of time chasing stars and deepen various celebrities' privacy, but some people are more willing to pay attention to themselves and strive to pursue their own achievements.

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In May last year, the three major stars Zhang Yishan, Fan Ye, and Guan Xiaotong followed the crew to make a filming of a well -known college.

The crew originally thought that the three tops of the top of the group would inevitably cause fans to make a sensation, so they made full security preparations in advance.

But unexpectedly, students in colleges and universities have no expectations for the arrival of stars.

Everyone does what they should do as usual, and some are unwilling to stay onlookers even if they pass by.

There are a few words in "A Letter for Star Chasing Children":

"If you like an idol, please learn to live better for him.

If you love him, please also find the fulcrum of his life for him, don't lose the established track for him, return the computer for a moment to return to peace, take the original role, where to come from.

To be worthy of your own life, you must try to add good ingredients to the life of others, desperately retain the beautiful things you encounter, and keep it desperately.

He is the same, and you are the same. "

I have to say that the three views of these highly educated students are awake.

They know that life has never been someone else's, living for themselves, and living on themselves is a truly high -level life.

On the contrary, those who spend time and energy in order to chase the stars will eventually understand that no matter how glorious the life of others, it has nothing to do with you.

Only if you live a good life, your life will emit your light.

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Two suggestions, avoid you from being reduced to low -level people, help you be to be yourself more and more focused on your own.

① Use the four -degree model of life to find life goals

Four times in life are a life evaluation model proposed by the Classical Developer Classic, referring to: height, depth, width, and temperature.

It means that a person can achieve and grasp the status, power and influence in society.

Deep means the excellence and degree of improvement of a person's excellence and energy in thought, wisdom, art and physical fitness.

Width means that a person can open and do how many different life characters in life make them rich and balanced with each other.

Temperature means to how much a person's love and passion for life and life can live out of his own face.

Many people live a life with successful surfaces, excellence, face, but cold, and have a low sense of happiness.

In the four degrees of life, the height and depth are displayed, and the width and temperature are contained.

If you do not recognize the internal dimension, but use a single, displayed dimension to evaluate your life, and at the same time to achieve the so -called "success" by sacrificing other dimensions. This is a pseudo -successful power of one dimension, and the victory is defeated.

Evaluate the four dimensions of your life and find the life you want to live most, not let yourself live.

② With the help of the results -oriented thinking action

The results orientation, that is, the perspective of decision -making and action in the direction of results output.

The so -called choice is greater than hard work, doing anything, directional choice is prerequisite. If the direction is wrong, even if you do your best, it is difficult to have a good ending.

For example, many people are developing the habit of getting up early, and they can persist in one day or two, and after a week, most people give up.

There are many reasons, but one of the important reason is that there is no foundation direction:

Why do I get up early? Get up early, what is the effect of yourself?

If it is to promote physical health, what exercise measures need to be combined after getting up early? What physiological indicators can measure the effect?

If you want to use the time to get up early without interference and relatively abundant energy to carry out important matters such as reading, planning or writing, how can the results of these matters be measured?Is the best plan to get up early?If so, how can we make these results appear earlier and stick to it better?

If there is no fully predicting the results of the output, it is pure to get up early to get up early, for most people, it is difficult to persist.

It is undeniable that there are many disturbances of the world. If we always scattered attention on others, how much time do you have time to leave for ourselves?

Avoid people who become low -level.Because you can't live your own life, you will always feel regretful.

mutual encouragement.

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