"The Sparkling You" Ma Dong was crying to get out of control: adults, who has never collapsed

Author: insight allergy

No job is not hard, and no one is wronged.

Some time ago, in the investment bank of Jiangsu Satellite TV's popular variety show "The Flashing You", Ma Dong exposed that he had collapsed when he first entered the television industry.

At that time, the show he hosted a total of 83 episodes.

"I lived in the office for a year and a half, and I felt that I did a good job, and I was killed (suddenly)."

Ma Dong, who learned the news, cried in front of the show group to get out of control.

But after that time, he understood what "doing show" and "what to do."

Some people say: Those jobs that make you collapse are growing back.

Who has never collapsed by adults to work?

Some people defeated after the collapse, and some people rushed up after the collapse.

When you feel collapsed, it is the beginning of your cultivation.

01

Cultivation major

At the beginning of graduation, I heard the predecessors say such a sentence:

"No matter which industry, there is no professional ability to bottom out, it can't be long."

In the final analysis, the most important core competitiveness of a person is professional ability.

In the "Shining You" program, the intern received the first task: the prospectus was updated for a medical project.

Normally, it is not too difficult for 9 people to complete the prospectus update within one day, but there is no experience and the unsuitable adaptation of the new environment.

For example, the school is not in place, DRG is beaten into DGR, Peek is written as Pekk;

The punctuation symbol is not standard, the character setting, the spacing spacing is chaotic;

The printed files are scattered.

Some errors seem to be insignificant, but in the workplace, especially in investment banks, a typo may make huge amounts of funds drifting, and even become an eternal shame of practitioners.

These unprofessional, let the teachers who have been taught couldn't help but bluntly said: "I was swept out of the ground at 60 points, and the work was 100 points."

If you do something small, you must go wrong with big things.

The book "Professional Power" mentioned that professional ability is the key to a person's success.

How strong your professional ability is, you are special.

There was a training video of a professional bartender, watching a lot of people.

In many people's eyes, the work of the bartender in the bar is not difficult.

But in the perspective of a professional bartender, every small detail is very particular:

In order to increase the contact area of ​​wine and ice cubes, so that the wine can be cooled quickly after pouring the wine, and the ice cubes must be carved into a spherical shape;

The shape of the ice hockey also has strict requirements. In order to avoid the melting of the ice cubes, Ice hockey is required within 10 seconds.

The top bartender, even across the cup, can perceive the temperature changes of the wine.

I agree with one sentence: "The more strict requirements for yourself, the more the work of the job, the more you have the weight and strength of the world negotiation."

In the final analysis, it is your professional level that determines your value.

A good person is to keep walking on the way from unprofessional to professional upgrades.

02

Cultivation

I have seen a very hearty paragraph on the Internet:

"In the workplace, you will communicate, add 10 points; you will cooperate, add 20 points; you will develop resources, add 50 points; but if you can't control your emotions, sorry, deduct 100 points."

Many times, emotional instability is the stumbling block on your way forward.

In the show, Zhu Guangzheng had a huge frustration because of the group assessment.

In his opinion, the subject object obtained by the group is relatively "flat" as a whole. In addition, the enterprise is not enough to cooperate, and the relevant core data is inconvenient to make it public, so it is difficult to make a lottery.

He was wronged and choked and said:

"Today's situation is like giving us a test papers with a full 50 points, and the two -point test papers with 100 points are placed on a platform."

Intern tutor Zhang Jiqiang heard: "When encountering a problem, is it reflection, anger or blame others? I am disappointed. Finally, you chose to blame others."

The internship instructor Lao Zhiming also saw the blood: "The people in the workplace should not use emotions to solve the problem."

On the other side, Cong Guanghe missed the customer's mission after Pitch (describing the label), but he did not abandon himself, but carried the pressure. He counterattacked in the subsequent links, which made the group look at it.

Writer Hofland said: "Of all the adverse effects in the world, the most contribution is often excessive emotions."

The essence of work is to solve the problem. Excessive emotions are unparalleled, and it will also drag you down.

Zhang Lijun, the founder of entrepreneurial yeast, often received cold eyes from customers when he was doing telephone sales in Ali.

Once, the client said to her directly, "You don't understand anything, why do I listen to you?" Then he hung up the phone.

"Are I aggrieved in my heart? I must be wronged, but I can't solve any problems."

Therefore, she immediately called the customer and said to him sincerely:

"You are my first client. I wonder if you can still think of what the first customer of the transaction is? You are my idol. I hope that you can succeed in your age. Can you Let me tell me your successful story? "

These words touched the customer. They talked for more than two hours, and he became her first customer.

I've heard such a sentence:

"Emotions are like water. When stable, the emotions are still water and deep water, nourishing all things. When it is unstable, the emotions are waves of waves, which can instantly flood everything."

Cultivation emotions are the basic skills of every workplace. Calm work, do things rationally, and learn to be strong in the calmness, in order to eat less work.

03

Cultivation mentality

I have heard such a story.

Two young people were looking up at the church, and a wise man asked them: "What are you doing?"

One young man said that he was raising his head, and the other youth said he was practicing the church.

As a result, fifty years later, the person who raised the stone was still raising his head, saying that the church had become a philosopher.

What kind of mentality of a person to work affects his vision and determines his future.

As Kazuka said:

"People are divided into three types: non -combustible type, combustible type, spontaneous combustion type. If you want to achieve a certain cause, you must become a spontaneous person."

Those who have a "spontaneous combustion" mentality, they always maintain a positive and enthusiastic attitude, often win more opportunities.

In the show, Liu Kun brew is such a person.

During the internship, he had always eager to prove himself, which caused too much pressure and wanted to withdraw from the internship.

With the encouragement of the intern instructor, he finally chose to persist.

In the internship, he also strengthened his beliefs during the registration -in his opinion, healing and saving people was not a doctor.

In the investment bank, you can use your own ability to help more pharmaceutical companies go public and assist new drugs to develop:

"It is not simply moving money from here. We can create a lot of things that are difficult to measure for the entire country and society."

This "spontaneous combustion" mentality kept him in the face of huge pressure.

This love and sincerity also finally moved the mentor. The team turned around the wind and got the first place in the assessed assessment.

This experience also made Liu Kun brewing more firm belief in the investment bank work:

"There are 20,000 tumor laboratories in the world, hundreds of pharmaceutical companies, and tens of thousands of R & D members. From generation to generation, there must be hope."

Liu Run said, "How to judge whether a person has a chance to succeed? See if he can spontaneously ignite himself, ignite himself, and passion."

Those who have a "spontaneous combustion" mentality, determined to do one thing well, will invest all energy, and nothing can extinguish his fighting spirit.

Such a person may have the possibility of victory.

04

In this show, Ma Dong said a word that was impressive:

"When it comes to investment banks, everyone feels bright and beautiful, but this show has made us see the hard side of the investment bank. They are either a business trip or on a business trip. It is normal to sleep for three or four hours a day."

In our eyes, investment banks are synonymous with high salary and glorious.

After watching the variety show "The Shining You", I found that no matter how dazzling the industry, there is endless sourness behind it.

Those we look very relaxed, and only when you really experience it, can we understand the hardships and difficulties.

No wonder even Zhang Quanling lamented: "I have experienced the stage of collapse like them."

No job is not hard, and no one is wronged.

Taking the work as a practice, the opening of the mountain, and the bridge everywhere, you can achieve both things and achieve yourself.

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