On the way to get old, don’t let these things steal your happiness

How short life is, you have to laugh.

On the way to get old, what should be pursued most is to make yourself happy, not to let these things steal your happiness.

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Don't make the shallow sense of pleasure hinder the pace of progress.

The old saying: "Full of warmth and lust." Life is alive, for eating and drinking, it seems to be the most natural.

To this end, there are many people around us, people who have changed their own thoughts, and there are many people who are drunk and dreaming.

Like the movie "Great Gatsby", the actor creates the first magnificent world of play for everyone. Every day, she is handsome and beautiful every day.

And all of this, more like a bubble of Huacai, a dreamy paradise. One day, everything fades from the halo, can you have the courage to accept it when there is only the original face?

Eating, drinking, and fun, admiring vanity is the weakness of human nature. It can overcome it, control it, and detach it to get true freedom, and feel unprecedented prosperity.

For ordinary people, after busy work every day, you can swipe your mobile phone and indulge in short videos and funny paragraphs. It is the most comfortable relaxation.

Or, playing cards, drinking, shopping malls, and buying things, these are the happiest happiness that satisfies themselves, it is not difficult to get.

However, a little ideal, the person who is a bit pursuing will be satisfied with the sense of satisfaction, and the sense of guilt is also bursting.

"Things should not be like this." Yes, there are tens of millions of life in life. It is the most difficult to go to fight to fight. However, after many years, the dividing line of the two is a difference.

Therefore, don't choose comfortable at the age of the struggle, don't let yourself be lost in the shallow level.

As said in "Cai Gen Tan": "The taste of refreshing all rotten intestinal rot bone, five points without any;

The delicious things are poison that is not good for gastrointestinal health, but as long as the amount of control is controlled and only half full, it will not cause harm to the body;

The good things that are good -looking are the medium of corrupted reputation and losing virtue, but as long as you keep a sober mind, don't be too addicted, there will be no regretful consequences.

Alert yourself at all times and move towards the highest goal in your heart, so that you will not be blocked by the shallow level of pleasure.

02

Don't let low -quality social affairs consume life.

Life is alive, making friends with friends is a big event. To this end, Confucius has warned people:

"Three friends with beneficiaries, three friends of the damage. Friends, upright, friendly, friends, benefit. Friends are open, friendly and soft, friendly, damaged."

Benefiting from friends, there is one noble person in life, one mentor, and a confidant.

If you get a friend, there is a danger in life, a trap, and a disaster.

People are keen to socialize, but they just hope that they can meet the good teachers and friends. On a like -minded road, someone will accompany growing up, and some people sharing joy and sorrow.

But when you really enter the society, you find that confidantes are difficult to find, and friends are difficult to find.

Between colleagues, due to competition, rarely can become friends. Everyone is just for the benefit alliance, but "tied together" in a short time, and the relationship between each other is more harmonious, so as to be able to distribute less disputes and more resonance in the same frequency when the interest is distributed.

It is difficult to become friends between the neighbors. When the two economic levels are almost the same, they can still cherish each other and take care of each other. Once someone takes the lead, it will become the object of jealousy, and the blessing will become a curse, and it is difficult to get along in harmony.

There is no time to come between relatives, and some relatives, seeing the benefits; some relatives, only the profit; some relatives, for fear of being dragged down, would rather be broken with their hometown, and they are unwilling to have any exchanges.

People are very sensitive. When a relationship is difficult to sustain, there is no need to pick it out, tearing the face, just stay silently away.

Therefore, once you feel that interpersonal relationships make you work hard and work hard, you do not give up if you do it.

For the rest of my life, who is good to myself and who respects myself, then give the same feedback, so that I will not spend energy.

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Don't be blinded by fame and fortune to feel the happiness of life.

I have seen a story of Zhuangzi:

A vassal country admired Zhuangzi's talent, and sent two envoys to invite him to "out of the mountain."

Zhuangzi did not explicitly refuse, but told the comer to tell the two types of turtles: one was killed, only took the turtle shell, and was decorated to be gorgeous and was worshiped. Essence

Zhuangzi said that he liked to be the kind of turtle rolling in the mud, euphemistically but firmly expressed his rejection.

Yes, if you want to chase the name and benefit, you must bear all kinds of "losses": everything follows the rules of the game, like a line -up puppet, many things, you can't control your own, you can only "be at the mercy of people."

Just as everyone is very envious of an envy, they feel that where they go, they are the focus of attention, and they are highly respected. But if he is a staff member around him, he will only feel that the pressure is much larger than that of ordinary people, and no one can share the responsibility.

For example, every time the speech at each large and small meeting, even if the literary talent is not required, at least it must be logical and clear.

Not to mention, in private, it is necessary to deal with the relationship with the upper levels and the relationship with subordinates in order to defeat competitors and continue promotion.When a person gradually becomes old, the once -paid promotion of salary increases into a bubble, so don't ask for it again.It is the biggest blessing and the most peaceful happiness to work with his family every day.

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End words:

On the way to get old, people always live more and more transparent.

Understand, which is a must -have for life, and which are optional in life.

Abandon those who make people and things that make themselves up for years, and abandon those behaviors that sink themselves.

The more you work hard, the happier you are; the more self -discipline, the more free.

Author: Rufeng is light and cloudy.

Your happiness, my blessing.

The picture comes from the Internet.

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