"I finally understand that no matter how good friendship is, it is not love after all."

From the development of friendship to love, some people think that such love will be better, because people who can become friends are in line with each other, and they also understand and trust each other more.

Some people think that friendship develops into love seriously. Otherwise, it may not be obtained in the end, and friends cannot do it.

So, can friendship become love? Bleak

"Many lovers start with friends. Being friends is actually a process of understanding each other."

"AUO or above, lovers are not full. It is enough to explain that friendship can develop into love."

"You must be cautious to develop love into love, otherwise love will not be able to get friends."

"I don't think friendship can become love, nor of love can become friendly. If two people are friends, they can be divided into the boundaries of friendship and love, and they will not do anything beyond friendship. If they can become love, then they can become love. It means that at the beginning, a person has a good opinion of another person, but just get along with friends, that is not a real friendship. "

From the answer of netizens, it can be seen that friendship can become love, and many people have developed from friendship to love.

With friendship first, the two people are enough to understand each other, and then develop love, which is conducive to the long -lasting emotional development. Because of the friendship of friendship, you can better know whether this person can become that TA.

Xiaoxi and her boyfriend are friends who have known each other for many years. She said, "I can't remember when we are together, everything is complete, and it is unbelievable. Because of the three views and understanding of the tacit understanding of many years, our feelings More and more sweet. "

Some friendship becomes a good story, but not all friendships can become a giant wheel of love.

It may be a bit stupid to say. I have known each other with my opposite sex friend for a long time. We all regard each other as family members. Last year, he suddenly sent me a WeChat, "Otherwise, we tried it." He said that he saw the netizen discussing "cherish the person in front of you" in the post, and immediately appeared in my mind.

And I haven't seen my heart clearly, and I promised to try it. So, in this way, we became lovers from friends.

But our relationship seems to be dissatisfied with the soil and water, and it is impossible to say what or what to do. The tacit understanding of many years seems to have collapsed overnight, and there are always disputes in opinions, and they will never be recklessly chatting. In just one month, we broke up.

After breaking up, my "friend" and I never said a word in private. In this way, we became the "zombie powder" in each other's communication list. Unfortunately, I lost my love and lost a friend.

"Friendship becomes normal, but it is difficult to change love back to friendship. Just like the towels can be used as rags for a long time, but have you seen a rag as a towel?"

The first step from friendship to love seems simple, and a little hard can reach the degree of love, but if you want to turn love back to friendship, it is not so simple, it is likely to become the most familiar stranger.

I often think that if we do not start this relationship so easily, everything will be different. Therefore, if you haven't seen your heart clearly, don't easily change a relationship, use friendship for a lifetime to change the fleeting "love".

It is true that we can understand each other from friendship to love, and it is more likely to heat up further. But these premises are love and sincerity. If you do n’t love how to maintain the feelings between each other, how can you get the sincerity if you do n’t treat your feelings?

Whether friendship can become love without fixed answers. Emotional things cannot be generalized, and things should be discussed. Friendship and love are extremely precious, we must treat them sincerely.

It is a good thing for each other, but don't change friendship for love. This is not only irresponsible to yourself, but also disrespect for others.

After all, love and friendship are different, just like Tagore once said: "The difference between friendship and love is that friendship is two people and the world; but love is two people in the world." But no matter what kind of feelings have Fate, you need to maintain it with sincerity.

You are not sincere, paying attention to gains and losses, ambiguous, dragging water, whether you are friendly or love, you will leave you and run towards those who are more sincere.

Treat friendship sincerely, you will get friends who are inseparable; treat love sincerely, and you can gain happy and long -term love.

Sometimes it will be better to stop friendship, and sometimes changing friendship into love may be able to harvest another kind of scenery, but no matter what kind of feelings are the first priority.

What do you think of friendship?

Source: media speaking

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